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RE: Are you a paying piggy? - 2/28/2011 11:29:52 AM

SleepingTiger

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That's a valid point. With only limited experience i don't have much to work with. But i will certainly take a look at this issue. Thanks

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RE: Are you a paying piggy? - 2/28/2011 11:36:15 AM

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Well.. It does appear that i've ruffled a few feathers. Not really my intention. But certain things are just inevitable.
I paid an individual, not an event. I was also perfectly happy to do so.
I suppose all i'm asking is why there are not more individuals into a 'life', rather than a lucrative opportunity?
I'm guessing the most 'ruffled' will be the latter rather than the former?
The important thing here is to realise i'm voicing my opinion, not a fact. I'm also leaving myself wide open to correction.
It wasn't my intention to be deliberately antagonistic. But if causing a little stir will evoke an informative response.. So be it!

No, I was just trying to figure out what you were complaining about. If you are paying individuals, I still don't understand. In such a business arrangement, you're a volunteer; not a victim. You are the clientele that has created the market, so I can't say I'm understanding that, either. If there was no demand, there would be no supply.

Just for info's sake, I do happen to be a lifestyle Domme. You didn't ruffle Me. I was just wondering what 'price' somebody on the site a whole ten days had paid.

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RE: Are you a paying piggy? - 2/28/2011 11:59:00 AM

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I'm not looking at your profile. It's your personal space, and who am I to judge you for the human being you are? I don't know you.

That saying, I don't have to see your profile to understand the problem, because you brought it to the message boards.

Let's get a little philosophical here right? This thread is your life. Let's assume that just after you get to the last words of this posting you get a pain in your chest, it expands, you struggle to breathe, have a heart attack, and drop dead. Just like that.

Think about that, and go back and reread all what you have posted here. That is what you are leaving behind. Furthermore, if reincarnation exists, that is also what you're taking with you into the Afterlife. Misery.

Life is short. VERY short. In fact, nobody knows just how short.

You have a mind, yes? You have control of your mind, yes? You'd hate to have someone dictate to you what to think and feel.

It's the same deal with life. This is YOUR life. Either you determine what happens in it, or you allow other people to determine what happens in it.

You always have that choice.

Your life is all about the relationships you share in it, and the decisions you make. You're not going to get a ready made relationship with a woman coming at you from this website anyway. Nobody does. But see this is what so many people expect when they come to this site. This is what the war on the other side is all about.

It's the expectations which cause problems when you are in a relationship. When you're not in a relationship the expectations can prevent you from being in one.

What does it matter what other people are doing? Do they care about you? No? So why are you caring so much about them?

Life is short, life is about relationships. Look for the people who matter and live your life sharing it with them. The rest don't matter.

The other thing looking for a relationship and looking in terms of the big picture will keep you from finding one. You end up living in the future and having expectations. Before you think of a relationship you need to find someone to have a relationship with. That might take friendship. You don't have that person, so in reality all you are looking for are opportunities to have contact with someone, yes?

The other thing is (and no, I didn't bother to see the photo), BDSM isn't about pricks and pussies, it's about human minds and how they are used. Stiffies are just a bonus.

You have control of your mind, there in your brain. Don't let other parts of your body control your mind. There's no need.

It's your mind, your life, you have ideas, you're the creative one, right? Is complaining about other people the best you can do?

I don't know you, but I doubt it. Think about that.

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RE: Are you a paying piggy? - 2/28/2011 12:19:04 PM

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~in general~

If you were not scammed by FukinTrolls Scam Brigade you never been scammed at all. Here is some highlights from the FTSB FAQ that are relevant to the topic:

Q: FT, my asshole feels like I was ganged raped by the Budweiser horse team.
A: Please include the boy/girls screen name so he/she can get a raise.
Q: I reported profile X as a scammer and the mods don't seem to do anything about it.
A: For fast results make checks payable to FTSB in six digit figures.
Q: I made a three thousand dollar payment and the scammer only changed their location... I thought they would be banned.
A: My boys and girls work hard to help you achieve that "used like fuck meat" feeling. As a general guideline, we here at FTSB, has an intrinsic value attached to the profiles and until that monetary goal is achieved, and or, X number of scam reports are filed, we feel it is in the best interest of the FTSB to milk it for all that it is worth.
Q: I know what the acronym "WIITWD" means, but what is "FYHTYHEBF" mean?
A: At FTSB it is our goal to ensure the best scam experiencing you can ever have and the company motto is FYHTYHEBF- Fukin You Harder Than You Have Ever Been Fuk'd"

*FTSB is a subsidiary of Troll Enterprises. Troll Enterprises strives to give you the best possible scams both localized and globally. Void where prohibited, coming to a bridge near you.

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RE: Are you a paying piggy? - 2/28/2011 12:25:44 PM

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I suppose if you've got the £/$ you don't give a shit what somebody calls you.
But how many are here without a care for self respect?
Or is there a silent majority who hope for something with more lasting substance?

Hey now, there is nothing wrong with being married.

Admit it - you smiled.

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RE: Are you a paying piggy? - 2/28/2011 12:29:53 PM

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Well.. Thankyou all.
It appears i have learnt some valuable lessons today. Not least of all in diplomacy.
Sadly it's probably a case of 'empty vessels'. Since i have a tendency to pontificate.
The hard part is not having anyone in the real world i can seek out for advice.
I guess i just had a head full of questions and no answers. But many of you have helpfully filled in some of the blanks.

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RE: Are you a paying piggy? - 2/28/2011 12:32:35 PM

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ORIGINAL: SleepingTiger

Neither do i judge anyone.

No?

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Perhaps i was just naive enough to believe people still did things purely because they wanted to?

Not just Judgmental, but jaded as well.

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RE: Are you a paying piggy? - 2/28/2011 12:33:10 PM

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In My opinion, you need to read My first post on this thread again. Plenty of suggestions on how to find answers to the questions that you have.

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RE: Are you a paying piggy? - 2/28/2011 12:33:40 PM

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I suppose if you've got the £/$ you don't give a shit what somebody calls you.
But how many are here without a care for self respect?
Or is there a silent majority who hope for something with more lasting substance?

Your post makes no sense at all. There are people in all walks of life, vanilla or not who lack self respect.

There is an un-silent majority of those look for substance and those do not. I don't see the issue.

You paid to get a fetish/kink fulfilled and I am gathering you would prefer not to pay?

Fine, it can be done, but it takes effort to find a relationship that is mutually fulfilling.

There is nothing wrong with pro-dommes, they fill a need that exists in the marketplace of life.

No one forces you or anyone to utilize their services, and complaining will never change that.

Frustration is understandable and venting is as well.

Just do not lose sight that you get what you pay for in all areas of life and sometimes, not paying for something and waiting for the right thing shows a bit higher regard for self respect than not.

In the end, don't make assumptions about this site or those in the lifestyle; people are people and will behave the same way that people behaved since Adam and Eve popped on the scene.

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RE: Are you a paying piggy? - 2/28/2011 12:51:11 PM

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I think he might be referencing the financial dommes who call everyone "pay piggies", probably never meet for real play, and don't seem to grasp that a pro Domina generally has a lot less attitude, a real personality, and will play in real life for her tribute.

The cam dommes might fill a niche for guys who are too scared to see a pro, or too far away, or something.

I just laugh at them and hide their profiles.

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