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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Too many, as seen by some of the drama queens on the forums, immediately envision the worst case scenario of 'because I said so' or 'it's my way or the highway'.

When I see the drama queens post their drama over those phrases I wonder to myself......."Are you really THAT BAD at choosing your significant other/s that you immediately assume the worst???"

If an s type cannot do a good job in choosing a person to submit to, perhaps they need to think twice about entering a power exchange relationship in the first place. Rather than trying to diminish the dominant partner's power after the fact.

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ORIGINAL: kyraofMists

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Too many, as seen by some of the drama queens on the forums, immediately envision the worst case scenario of 'because I said so' or 'it's my way or the highway'.

When I see the drama queens post their drama over those phrases I wonder to myself......."Are you really THAT BAD at choosing your significant other/s that you immediately assume the worst???"

If an s type cannot do a good job in choosing a person to submit to, perhaps they need to think twice about entering a power exchange relationship in the first place. Rather than trying to diminish the dominant partner's power after the fact.

What a wonderful post to read first thing on a Sunday morning. That's awesome

Knight's Kyra

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse
Thank you Kyra. The three of you, and the dynamic you share, is often what I think of when I read what I've described. I think of your family as one of the most positive examples on Collarme of how and why it works. Obviously there are many things that have gone into 'making it work' but on here I see too much debate on the bad what if's and not enough about how to create mature adult relationships that negate the scary what ifs. In the posts of all three of you, I see examples of how to make the concerns much less of an issue and the relationship a sucess.