RE: Because I say so!!

RE: Because I say so!! (Full Version)

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion

Message

pyroaquatic -> RE: Because I say so!! (2/9/2011 9:20:55 AM)
Thinking is hard. Doing is easy.

0ldhen -> RE: Because I say so!! (2/9/2011 9:38:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep "because i said so" can be comforting, too You are right on spot, I think often the comfort of this is something I miss greatly.

myotherself -> RE: Because I say so!! (2/9/2011 9:42:34 AM)
What a wonderful thread! I think I may have fallen a little bit in love with FT and CD ... [:D]

osf -> RE: Because I say so!! (2/9/2011 9:43:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: 0ldhen quote: ORIGINAL: osf because I beg so OK, I am newer here so I am confused so I am just going to ask; are you a D or an s? I looked at your profile and it states male dominant. Hope I'm not being offensive here. with a little cooperation from a s type I could be a d type

0ldhen -> RE: Because I say so!! (2/9/2011 9:47:30 AM)
Ok, thank you for answering.

FukinTroll -> RE: Because I say so!! (2/9/2011 9:56:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: myotherself What a wonderful thread! I think I may have fallen a little bit in love with FT and CD ... [:D] Thank you luv. I do a lot of things that the Captain Caveman D would think submissive. Nevertheless I do what makes me happy and as long as the decision to do "menial or subby" work is mine to make (and it always is) it's still me catering to my dominance. Slurping tweeter in some peoples minds is a sub/service act. For me, it's MINE, my hand wraps in your hair, I drag your ass to the floor, ripping your clothes off of you, slurp that tweeter till my little green heart is content, pat you on the ass, say good girl on be on your merry lil way doing your merry lil thing. I'm a selfish fucker that takes what I want and I don't care how others perceive it, it's my kink and it is okay for me.

myotherself -> RE: Because I say so!! (2/9/2011 9:58:19 AM)
I just found one a lot like you...it's absolutely wonderful [:)]

FukinTroll -> RE: Because I say so!! (2/9/2011 10:01:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: myotherself I just found one a lot like you...it's absolutely wonderful [:)] Tell your D to send the checks to the numbered account... the one listed in the TOS, just under where it says I own all of the /s'.

GreedyTop -> RE: Because I say so!! (2/9/2011 10:02:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FukinTroll quote: ORIGINAL: myotherself What a wonderful thread! I think I may have fallen a little bit in love with FT and CD ... [:D] Thank you luv. I do a lot of things that the Captain Caveman D would think submissive. Nevertheless I do what makes me happy and as long as the decision to do "menial or subby" work is mine to make (and it always is) it's still me catering to my dominance. Slurping tweeter in some peoples minds is a sub/service act. For me, it's MINE, my hand wraps in your hair, I drag your ass to the floor, ripping your clothes off of you, slurp that tweeter till my little green heart is content, pat you on the ass, say good girl on be on your merry lil way doing your merry lil thing. I'm a selfish fucker that takes what I want and I don't care how others perceive it, it's my kink and it is okay for me. dammit.. if ya want pics, ya gotta give me warnings before this kind of post!!

tazzygirl -> RE: Because I say so!! (2/9/2011 10:04:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FukinTroll The girl smiled and graciously accepted the gift, because I said so. The girl cleaned the house spotless because I said so. The girl washed and waxed the car because I said so. The girl rested on the couch while I cooked dinner, because I said so. The girl bathed and shaved me, because I said so. The girl curled up in bed and I kissed her most the night... she did this, accepted this and loved this... because I said so. ~smiles Just the way it should be.

myotherself -> RE: Because I say so!! (2/9/2011 10:05:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FukinTroll Tell your D to send the checks to the numbered account... the one listed in the TOS, just under where it says I own all of the /s'. Me? Tell him to do something??? rolls about laughing He'd cane me from now until next week! Hang on though...I'm a masochist.... ponders The check is on its way! [:D]

tazzygirl -> RE: Because I say so!! (2/9/2011 10:05:55 AM)
Bad Bunny! ~enjoy!

BKSir -> RE: Because I say so!! (2/9/2011 10:23:30 AM)
I completely agree with Troll's original post. It seems to take my pets a while to figure out that unless I ask for help or for someone else to do it, I'm more than content to do it myself and chances are good that means to simply stay out of the way. Some people around me just never learn that unfortunately. Although I do certainly appreciate the thought and the effort when they wish to help, I tend to be a very stubborn and self sufficient individual. That also means, unless I've asked them to do something, I'm happy for them to just sit back and relax. I'm a dom, not a slave driver on a plantation. If I decide I want to go out and buy my pet something nice, I'm doing it because I damn well please. Not out of any sense of needing to, but thoroughly out of wanting to. If I'm cooking dinner, I'm doing so because I happen to enjoy it, not because my pet doesn't know how, or isn't good enough. So just sit down and rest and enjoy dinner. Don't over-think things.

Aynne88 -> RE: Because I say so!! (2/9/2011 12:55:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FukinTroll The girl smiled and graciously accepted the gift, because I said so. The girl cleaned the house spotless because I said so. The girl washed and waxed the car because I said so. The girl rested on the couch while I cooked dinner, because I said so. The girl bathed and shaved me, because I said so. The girl curled up in bed and I kissed her most the night... she did this, accepted this and loved this... because I said so. This makes me sad in the good kind of way FT. I miss my love. He's been in the hospital for a week, nothing serious but I can't wait to get him out Sunday and spend the day just doing..because he says so. Thanks for posting this. melancholy aynne....

FukinTroll -> RE: Because I say so!! (2/9/2011 1:37:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aynne88 quote: ORIGINAL: FukinTroll The girl smiled and graciously accepted the gift, because I said so. The girl cleaned the house spotless because I said so. The girl washed and waxed the car because I said so. The girl rested on the couch while I cooked dinner, because I said so. The girl bathed and shaved me, because I said so. The girl curled up in bed and I kissed her most the night... she did this, accepted this and loved this... because I said so. This makes me sad in the good kind of way FT. I miss my love. He's been in the hospital for a week, nothing serious but I can't wait to get him out Sunday and spend the day just doing..because he says so. Thanks for posting this. melancholy aynne.... Jus because you are so prettiful an missing him so much... go fukin cook dinner girl!

sunshinee -> RE: Because I say so!! (2/9/2011 1:39:56 PM)
Thankfully I'm the type of submissive that has tons of self confidence. I do not feel that I don't deserve good things because I'm a 'lowly submissive'. I also do not have the need to subscribe to incredibly strict roles laid out by other people. It is not my place to tell any dominant man it was inappropriate behavior to cook me dinner or give me a gift. Who am I to dictate who he can and cannot be within our relationship?

CreativeDominant -> RE: Because I say so!! (2/9/2011 1:49:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: myotherself What a wonderful thread! I think I may have fallen a little bit in love with FT and CD ... [:D] And who can blame you? ~blows on nails and buffs them on shirt~ I am...indeed...very lovable. [;)] Seriously...I would think that when looked at with an open mind and heart, "...because I say/said so" could be comforting. We often think of service as "doing something" but if you are sitting at the command of your dominant, then are you not indeed "serving Him/Her" in the manner requested?

BitaTruble -> RE: Because I say so!! (2/9/2011 2:48:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FukinTroll The girl smiled and graciously accepted the gift, because I said so. The girl cleaned the house spotless because I said so. The girl washed and waxed the car because I said so. The girl rested on the couch while I cooked dinner, because I said so. The girl bathed and shaved me, because I said so. The girl curled up in bed and I kissed her most the night... she did this, accepted this and loved this... because I said so. The bold took me the longest time and was the hardest part of actually submitting for me to learn. I think it has to do with the whole job security thing. If the Man Unit is going to take on my tasks what's left for me to do? I did get over it eventually when I figured out it really was his way or the highway. The 'my way or the highway' is truly the only sort of M/s dynamic I can comfortably wrap my head around. I just had to get used to being with someone who meant it.

Icarys -> RE: Because I say so!! (2/9/2011 3:05:34 PM)
How well would some appreciate it when meeting a guy who means it about something less than appealing or "soft". The "My way or the highway" love would no doubt turn into..This guy is an asshole! Not picking on you Bita..it just made me think...The whole do as I say thing works great most days except when the other person doesn't dig what's being said. I've only met a few women that "sucked it up" gracefully.

osf -> RE: Because I say so!! (2/9/2011 3:27:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Icarys How well would some appreciate it when meeting a guy who means it about something less than appealing or "soft". The "My way or the highway" love would no doubt turn into..This guy is an asshole! Not picking on you Bita..it just made me think...The whole do as I say thing works great most days except when the other person doesn't dig what's being said. I've only met a few women that "sucked it up" gracefully. and they wonder why all the twue doms are single

Page: << < prev 1 [2] 3 4 5 next > >>

Collarchat.com © 2025

Terms of Service

0.046875