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New to this; seeking female dominant in Western New York - 1/30/2011 5:18:50 PM

littleman8772

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Hello, I'm looking for a female dominant in the Western New York area.  I have never done something like this, so I'm not sure how
comfortable I'd be with rushing into things in the beginning.  Some of my interests with BDSM include: bondage, blindfolds,
gagging, sissification, and dominant control.  Things that I am against, however, are anything dealing with anal penetration
(on either myself or my dominant), anything happening publicly, or any financial slavery.
I would enjoy hearing from any female dominants in the Western New York area about my requests :)

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RE: New to this; seeking female dominant in Western New... - 1/30/2011 8:36:21 PM

tiggerspoohbear

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Welcome to CM and the boards. Making your font a bit bigger would be a great help for those of us who are gettin' to where small print is almost impossible to read. Haven't checked out your profile, but if it's about nothing but your kink, may I suggest that you put in something personal about yourself, your vanilla interests. It's more than kink, unless that's all you're looking for. On that note, good luck in your search.

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RE: New to this; seeking female dominant in Western New... - 1/30/2011 10:07:05 PM

littleman8772

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Actually, on here, I'm just looking for some fun, nothing serious out of this at this current moment, but thank you for the advice!

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RE: New to this; seeking female dominant in Western New... - 1/31/2011 5:17:06 AM

OohAahMrs

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Welcome to CM You'll learn a lot from the probable lack of response, better you contact a few yourself.

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RE: New to this; seeking female dominant in Western New... - 1/31/2011 9:43:54 AM

peppermint

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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleman8772

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Actually, on here, I'm just looking for some fun, nothing serious out of this at this current moment, but thank you for the advice!

The problem you will face is that you are not offering anything in return for the kinky play you want done to you. What many find difficult to understand is that a Domme is not a free fetish supply system. You say do not want a relationship. You just want some fun and games. So why would a Domme who has 30 guys to choose from choose you? What will she get out of providing you with kinky play?

I agree with tiggerspoohbear. Add some vanilla interests to your profile to make yourself seem a complete person, not just a needy guy wanting freebie kink. That way you will improve your odds of finding someone.

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RE: New to this; seeking female dominant in Western New... - 1/31/2011 10:28:34 AM

littleman8772

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Well I made a couple of changes, hopefully that satisfies any potential dommes in making me a more appetizing sub! :)

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RE: New to this; seeking female dominant in Western New... - 1/31/2011 10:37:09 AM

kalikshama

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You have to write an essay, a list of interests won't do it. Go to the Ask a Mistress section and read the FAQs and threads.

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RE: New to this; seeking female dominant in Western New... - 1/31/2011 1:20:01 PM

peppermint

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ORIGINAL: littleman8772

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Well I made a couple of changes, hopefully that satisfies any potential dommes in making me a more appetizing sub! :)

Checking boxes is NOT showing that you are doing all you can to find a Domme. A lot of people can't write well or spell well, however, there are programs to help you do that. Give it a try. Write something in your profile that tells us who you are.

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RE: New to this; seeking female dominant in Western New... - 1/31/2011 5:33:24 PM

littleman8772

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I wrote an essay out, hopefully thats what everyone was looking for. And yes, I can spell. People who cannot are retarded...sorry if that's offensive

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