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mbes -> RE: Question on responsibility (12/31/2010 10:39:54 AM)
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Oops, I reread mine and think that I may have been unclear. When I say that my other half has the ultimate responsibility, I mean from the topping standpoint. My responsibilities come in the form of knowing what I'm getting into, knowing the risks involved both from a physical standpoint, and the emotional side, doing everything I can to show him what's going on since I can't tell him, and letting him know of any problems as soon as I can afterwards. While things are happening, I have to trust him that he'll do his damnedest to make sure I'm ok, but I have to give him every bit of information I can to make that possible. Nothing is ever ALL HIS FAULT. The times he has pushed harder than I was able to handle came mostly from a lack of communication on my part.
Sadly, my other half is not in fact a god, and I've come to accept that I have a part in everything that happens.
Someone who thought they could walk away from any responsibility wouldn't be someone I'd be willing to play with.
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