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My profile - 12/29/2010 6:01:26 PM   
SherlockSub92


Posts: 1
Joined: 12/19/2010
Status: offline 		I can't figure out why I'm not getting any mail.  What do you think of my profile?
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RE: My profile - 12/29/2010 6:26:16 PM   
littlestrange


Posts: 11
Joined: 12/15/2010
Status: offline 		Not getting any mail? I have witnessed a similar thing Dear Sherlock. All the evidence points to you being a sub male. There are many other clues as to why your inbox isn't flooded. I believe advertising a webcam is often suspicious and is an elementary mistake.

Best wishes Dr Watson


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RE: My profile - 12/29/2010 7:14:46 PM   
AlexandraLynch


Posts: 778
Joined: 3/24/2008
Status: offline 		One thing that stands out to me is "All my life I've been looked up to...." from a nineteen year old.

Now, I may just be an old cynical bitch, but that makes me laugh sarcastically and assume your ego is so large you can't set it aside to submit to anyone.

You might do better looking in real life for a TNG group in your area, since you want a woman in your age range.  Be aware that sometimes it takes dominant women longer to come into our dominance than it does sub males.


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RE: My profile - 12/29/2010 7:28:51 PM   
Prinsexx


Posts: 4584
Joined: 8/27/2007
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quote:

ORIGINAL: SherlockSub92

I can't figure out why I'm not getting any mail.  What do you think of my profile?

I rarely if ever look for, search or write to anyone on collarme lleast of all sub males. No offence but I simple wouldn't have time for reality. I sometimes block and more rarely reply if:
I have a photograph, an interesting and well-fleshed out profile and something in common other than bdsm.
Now as you are a 19 year old do ypu really look like a silly old fart wearing a dear stalker's hat and smoking a pipe?
I didn't get past that. Pictures of white underpants, flashing mobiles taken in some hotel room toilet and the abdominals of Adonis also don't do it for me.


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RE: My profile - 12/29/2010 7:48:05 PM   
mummyman321


Posts: 2102
Joined: 10/31/2005
From: Dusseldorf
Status: offline 		Sorry, I have to say this. Sherlock doesn't have clue? Now that is just really ironic!

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RE: My profile - 12/29/2010 8:53:40 PM   
DarkSteven


Posts: 28072
Joined: 5/2/2008
Status: offline 		The main reason is that you're a male sub looking for a Domme.  The odds are against you.  So you need to take the initiative and not wait for people to contact you.

The second thing is that your profile doesn't grab.  It says, if you're up to this challenge, I'll do anything you ask.  What specifically is that?  Housework, accounting, carpentry, cooking?  You say that you will take a time investment, but it's not clear what you can offer in return.


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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

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RE: My profile - 12/29/2010 8:57:49 PM   
Elisabella


Posts: 3939
Status: offline 		Probably because nobody is interested.

Also "you don't have to be attractive" isn't what most women want to hear.

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RE: My profile - 12/29/2010 9:29:16 PM   
DomMeinCT


Posts: 2355
Joined: 5/5/2005
Status: offline 		Perhaps the dommes you seek (up to age 25) don't like to be referred to (3 times no less) as "girls", but as "women".

Also, I think it's a numbers thing - there are many more submissive males than there are dominant women. The advice you've been given about getting out and meeting people offline is solid.

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RE: My profile - 12/30/2010 12:16:10 AM   
ThePeripatetic


Posts: 139
Joined: 12/21/2010
Status: offline 		Sherlock... if you're serious about finding someone on this site then I have two suggestions:

First, take the time to read this post - http://www.collarchat.com/m_1717756/mpage_1/tm.htm . If you're genuinely seeking a relationship from your time on CM then follow Stephann's advice, it's pure genius. Yes, it'll take some work on your part but that's life for ya... and part of being a submissive if you haven't learned that lesson already. It's been repeated innumerable times on this site but I'll say it again for good measure... submission/service is not about you or your pleasure!

Second piece of advice... you've been on CM for a little over a week!!! Give it some time buddy! (and again, be willing to put in some legwork on your own and don't just expect 100 Dommes to fall into your lap, cause it ain't gonna happen!)

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RE: My profile - 12/30/2010 1:10:38 AM   
SexyBossyBBW


Posts: 1693
Joined: 2/25/2010
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: AlexandraLynch

One thing that stands out to me is "All my life I've been looked up to...." from a nineteen year old.

Now, I may just be an old cynical bitch, but that makes me laugh sarcastically and assume your ego is so large you can't set it aside to submit to anyone
It's not just you, on reacting to the "ALL MY LIFE"comment, and thinking oh please!

quote:

You might do better looking in real life for a TNG group in your area, since you want a woman in your age range.  Be aware that sometimes it takes dominant women longer to come into our dominance than it does sub males.
I agree with this, as a good setting to meet like minded younger people to hang out with, and find your way, attract the right babe for you.  Other than that, initiate contact when you see someone you like.    M

< Message edited by SexyBossyBBW -- 12/30/2010 1:11:29 AM >

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RE: My profile - 12/30/2010 2:20:20 AM   
LadyConstanze


Posts: 9722
Joined: 2/18/2005
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quote:

ORIGINAL: AlexandraLynch

One thing that stands out to me is "All my life I've been looked up to...." from a nineteen year old.

Now, I may just be an old cynical bitch, but that makes me laugh sarcastically and assume your ego is so large you can't set it aside to submit to anyone.

You might do better looking in real life for a TNG group in your area, since you want a woman in your age range.  Be aware that sometimes it takes dominant women longer to come into our dominance than it does sub males.




That and then repeatedly "Make me, make me..." followed by "Yes, I have a bit of an ego, so this may be a challenge. "

Even if I would be in his desired age range, it would turn me off, somebody with a big ego, 19, wants a woman to wrestle with him...

Where's the point?

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Those who do and those who don't!

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RE: My profile - 1/2/2011 8:31:16 AM   
desperatedomme


Posts: 4
Joined: 11/26/2010
Status: offline 		I know how you feel.  Nobody takes my profile seriously either.

Although there have been just a few exceptions.

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RE: My profile - 1/2/2011 8:49:52 AM   
Buzzzz


Posts: 839
Joined: 11/28/2010
Status: offline 		Hey, I never have any email either!!!

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RE: My profile - 1/2/2011 8:54:18 AM   
salemartist


Posts: 195
Joined: 12/17/2010
From: Salem
Status: offline 		I get email! nah nah na-nah nah

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RE: My profile - 1/2/2011 9:11:03 AM   
Buzzzz


Posts: 839
Joined: 11/28/2010
Status: offline 		No fair !!!

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RE: My profile - 1/2/2011 9:46:06 AM   
Hillwilliam


Posts: 19394
Joined: 8/27/2008
Status: offline 		I get emil from Ghana. Does that count?

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RE: My profile - 1/2/2011 12:59:55 PM   
81song


Posts: 293
Joined: 1/22/2005
Status: offline 		Would have to agree with many that time...getting to know others by posting and yes more time. Another thing is look I do not get tons of mail either but so what. Today I met in real another subbie who was passing through town and we met for coffee and kink talk. Nice to know there are others and make friends.

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RE: My profile - 1/2/2011 2:08:08 PM   
Buzzzz


Posts: 839
Joined: 11/28/2010
Status: offline 		better getter a little mail that counts then tons of mail that doesn't

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RE: My profile - 1/2/2011 2:40:26 PM   
CelticPrince


Posts: 3613
Joined: 4/15/2005
Status: offline
quote:

I can't figure out why I'm not getting any mail. What do you think of my profile?


Sherlock,

Your hoping or expecting Dommes to come to you????/ I think not, they will wait for you to come to them.

CP

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RE: My profile - 1/2/2011 4:14:21 PM   
NocturnalStalker


Posts: 3858
Joined: 12/4/2010
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: littlestrange

Not getting any mail? I have witnessed a similar thing Dear Sherlock. All the evidence points to you being a sub male. There are many other clues as to why your inbox isn't flooded. I believe advertising a webcam is often suspicious and is an elementary mistake.

Best wishes Dr Watson



I thoroughly enjoyed this post and wish for more like it in the future.

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