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this is what i get for befrending a digtal bully - 12/22/2010 9:15:56 PM   
kaylive


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Status: offline 		So I hear that jimmy (an old friend of mine) was making an account on fetlife.com (another kink site kind of like this one).
However he clamming to be his ex gf named Sidney (who is vanilla and celibate).
He doing this to not only payback how much of a “bitch” she was in breaking up with him (she also trashed his facebook wall too.) but to also get back at a lot of people he thinks of a dumb privy guys that are keeping him from being laid.
As for me I don’t know what to do or think about this. There are people I know on that site in real life. What do I say if they bring up Sidney and how do not just start laughing if someone said that they want to fuck her.
Can anyone help me with this issue?
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RE: this is what i get for befrending a digtal bully - 12/22/2010 9:19:42 PM   
LadyPact


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Grow a pair and tell him to knock it the fuck off.

Pretty sad when a gal with a strap on is the bigger man here.


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RE: this is what i get for befrending a digtal bully - 12/22/2010 9:21:48 PM   
Kana


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Yeah.

Grow a pair and tell him to knock it the fuck off.

Pretty sad when a gal with a strap on is the bigger man here.




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RE: this is what i get for befrending a digtal bully - 12/22/2010 9:22:16 PM   
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RE: this is what i get for befrending a digtal bully - 12/22/2010 9:23:14 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Yeah.

Grow a pair and tell him to knock it the fuck off.

Pretty sad when a gal with a strap on is the bigger man here.



What she said...


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RE: this is what i get for befrending a digtal bully - 12/22/2010 9:25:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		What they said.....



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RE: this is what i get for befrending a digtal bully - 12/22/2010 9:28:58 PM   
YoungBlondeSlave


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Status: offline 		i would ask him if he knew any good lawyers, because that could be considered slander...or libel. i always get the two confused.

Either way, he's an asshole.

And of course, what they said.

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RE: this is what i get for befrending a digtal bully - 12/22/2010 9:30:06 PM   
ThatDamnedPanda


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kaylive
As for me I don’t know what to do or think about this.
 

Not to quibble, but I think you do know what to think about it. You just may not fully realize it yet. The fact that you're asking the question shows that you know it sucks.


quote:

ORIGINAL: kaylive
There are people I know on that site in real life. What do I say if they bring up Sidney and how do not just start laughing if someone said that they want to fuck her.
Can anyone help me with this issue?



Well, as for the other part of your question - what to do about it - I think you've come to one of those crossroads in life where you have to choose between your friend and your principles. Your loyalty to your friend, and your self-respect.

Which is more important to you? With which one do you want to maintain a healthy relationship for the rest of your life?

Your "friend" is behaving in a despicable, dishonorable, and indefensible manner, libeling his ex and lying to countless other people. Do you want to help him do that? Is that something you want to be a part of? Personally, I'd kick the fucker to the curb and pick better friends in the future, and anytime the subject came up in conversation, I'd tell anyone who asked exactly who "Sidney" really was.

Good luck. Your buddy has put you in a difficult position. Hopefully it's the last time he gets the chance to do that to you.


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RE: this is what i get for befrending a digtal bully - 12/22/2010 10:05:08 PM   
Twoshoes


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kaylive

So I hear that jimmy (an old friend of mine) was making an account on fetlife.com (another kink site kind of like this one).
However he clamming to be his ex gf named Sidney (who is vanilla and celibate).
He doing this to not only payback how much of a “bitch” she was in breaking up with him (she also trashed his facebook wall too.) but to also get back at a lot of people he thinks of a dumb privy guys that are keeping him from being laid.
As for me I don’t know what to do or think about this. There are people I know on that site in real life. What do I say if they bring up Sidney and how do not just start laughing if someone said that they want to fuck her.
Can anyone help me with this issue?



Walk up to him. Look him in the eye. Look down along his trousers as if he's got a stain above his knee. Then, as your eyes are coming back up to meet his, tell him he makes "a rather unimpressive cunt". Say it with a British accent. And start the sentence as formally as possible with a "You, sir". I'd even practice that line in the mirror to ensure the tone is just right.

Also, if he told you all this, he gets validation from you. I recommend you don't pay attention to him. Actually, the grown up thing to do might be to not bother with him at all. There are better ways to have ridiculous fun, I promise.

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RE: this is what i get for befrending a digtal bully - 12/22/2010 10:39:40 PM   
Zevar


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kaylive

So I hear that jimmy (an old friend of mine) was making an account on fetlife.com (another kink site kind of like this one).
However he clamming to be his ex gf named Sidney (who is vanilla and celibate).
He doing this to not only payback how much of a “bitch” she was in breaking up with him (she also trashed his facebook wall too.) but to also get back at a lot of people he thinks of a dumb privy guys that are keeping him from being laid.
As for me I don’t know what to do or think about this. There are people I know on that site in real life. What do I say if they bring up Sidney and how do not just start laughing if someone said that they want to fuck her.
Can anyone help me with this issue?


Think of this merely as what a man gets to be responsible for in being a man. Nothing personal or otherwise. Simply requires you to assert yourself in a uncompromising manner, saying what you know to be rightly in need of being said. Send the message of iron clad confidence or else you will forever have this hauntingly horrific unresolved past issue that can be used against your internal confidence, when some other tyrannical fool asserts himself for an unjustified reason. Be the man you are with the understanding that in doing so you will simply become further sharpened as iron sharpens iron, when you fearlessly do the right thing that is. Stand up in your manhood, lad!

Be Well!

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RE: this is what i get for befrending a digtal bully - 12/23/2010 12:21:23 AM   
chiaThePet


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Ohhhhhhh..........a little blurry eyed here. Thought it read beheading a pigtail bully.

Not that it isn't an option.

If he has pigtails I mean.

Carry on.

chia* (the pet)


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RE: this is what i get for befrending a digtal bully - 12/23/2010 12:49:36 AM   
Outlier2


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Status: offline 		kaylive,

I am going to disagree with most of what has been said so far.

You do not know exactly what happened between these two!!!
That is important.  You have told us that after the break up she
started some sort of cyber attack on him.  Now he is retaliating.

What you do is to stay clear of it.  If anyone says anything you
say something like; "I like them both, I am sorry they are having
their problems, but I do not know enough to have an opinion."

When all this high school level drama is over you don't want to
be remembered as one who took sides or got dirty in the middle of it.
You want to be remembered as the classy one who did not gossip
or take sides.  Besides if they ever get back together they will both
then hate you for trying to make it worse.  

People will try to suck you in or to have you take "their" side.  Do not
be a fool who is used that way.  Your description does not make him
sound like he is that much of a friend.  And she started all the cyber attack
after they broke up.  Why they broke up we don't really know!!!

The other thing I can promise you is that women will notice that you
refuse to bad mouth anyone.  All you have to say is that you do not
know all the facts and you wish everyone well.  If you get pushed
simply say you do not like gossip, you don't like it when people gossip
about you, so you don't gossip about others. 

They may not like it at the time but you will be remembered as someone
who does not run his mouth.  I personally have been rewarded by woman
more than once for having this characteristic. 

My basic advice to you is to get a better class of "friends" of both sexes.

Outlier

Edited to Add:  I presume she had his password or she could not have
started this drama.  If anyone has your password(s) to any of your pages
then change them NOW! 


< Message edited by Outlier2 -- 12/23/2010 12:53:06 AM >

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RE: this is what i get for befrending a digtal bully - 12/23/2010 1:21:25 AM   
LadyConstanze


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kaylive

So I hear that jimmy (an old friend of mine) was making an account on fetlife.com (another kink site kind of like this one).
However he clamming to be his ex gf named Sidney (who is vanilla and celibate).
He doing this to not only payback how much of a “bitch” she was in breaking up with him (she also trashed his facebook wall too.) but to also get back at a lot of people he thinks of a dumb privy guys that are keeping him from being laid.
As for me I don’t know what to do or think about this. There are people I know on that site in real life. What do I say if they bring up Sidney and how do not just start laughing if someone said that they want to fuck her.
Can anyone help me with this issue?




Any friend of mine doing that stuff, well, I wouldn't call that person a friend, I would get rid of him ASAP.

If she trashed his FB wall, why didn't he simply block and delete?

What a lot of others have said, tell him to knock it off and walk away, if he treats his GF like that, just imagine how he will treat you if you have a falling out, it should tell you something about his character.

Personally I would also go and tell Sidney that "somebody" is using her picture

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RE: this is what i get for befrending a digtal bully - 12/23/2010 5:41:09 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Tell Sydney that her ex has posted her picture up on a sex site, send her the link. Let her contact the fl webmaster to have it removed. Let her contact her lawyer to threaten to sue the creep. What you don't want is that your good buddy continues his harassment of her in this manner, that he uses his keys to her place to give to some guy to make sure she gets raped. Suggest to him that if she is harmed, he will be seeing time in jail and he would do better to cut his losses and close the account, unfriend her on fb, and just move on with his life.

But if she is harmed by him and it can be proven that you knew about his actions, you could be charged as an accessory to the crime. Tell her or contact a lawyer and have him send her this information if you don't want to get involved. But you need to do something since you already are involved.


< Message edited by DesFIP -- 12/23/2010 6:02:23 AM >

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RE: this is what i get for befrending a digtal bully - 12/23/2010 9:15:40 AM   
DarkSteven


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kaylive

So I hear that


Heard from whom?  Unless Jimmy told you specifically that he was doing this, you don't know anything.

I can't believe the amount of childishness your friends seem to display.  I'd drop both of them.


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RE: this is what i get for befrending a digtal bully - 12/23/2010 10:27:27 AM   
sexyred1


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Yeah.

Grow a pair and tell him to knock it the fuck off.

Pretty sad when a gal with a strap on is the bigger man here.



Oh..SNAP!! LadyP rocks.

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RE: this is what i get for befrending a digtal bully - 12/23/2010 12:45:08 PM   
Focus50


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Status: offline 		Oh yeah, I lurv teenage drama...! Can't we get them their own forum - allied to comedy or entertainment, perhaps?

Now where's all those posters defending the wise & worldly young in the face of immature 50yo's?

Focus.

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RE: this is what i get for befrending a digtal bully - 12/23/2010 4:11:50 PM   
PeonForHer


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Status: offline 		Tell Jimmy to stop being a twat. 

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RE: this is what i get for befrending a digtal bully - 12/23/2010 4:13:47 PM   
SorceressJ


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Status: offline 		Srsly. Get some new friends, because these humanoids.. aren't.

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RE: this is what i get for befrending a digtal bully - 12/23/2010 4:18:31 PM   
AquaticSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Focus50

Now where's all those posters defending the wise & worldly young in the face of immature 50yo's?

Focus.


Busy explaining how being with a married - and cheating - man means you won't get a lot of attention to a woman in in her 40s.

Oh and concept of "like attracts like". But I can see how someone could get to their 40s without that one. It's just such an advanced life concept - most people don't get it till 60 evidently.

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