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Confirmations by webcam - 11/25/2010 5:27:09 PM   
humancowmandy


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What is it about people demanding webcam verification before they talk? I can understand the fear of investing time into talking to a woman only to find out that she's a man, or vice versa, or that it's someone with a fake pic and the hot 20 year old is 50 with a unibrow, but...

My webcam glitches all the time, because my laptop is a piece of crap. I will not buy one... but am I wrong in thinking that if you want someone to get on a webcam and prove that they're real, shouldn't you at least invest some time in talking to them? Some dom refused to even talk to me once I admitted that my webcam is broken via my instant messenger. I would have told him that I have skype, which lets my cam work for some reason... but he was such an ass, I didn't want to.
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RE: Confirmations by webcam - 11/25/2010 5:30:35 PM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		There are (supposedly) many men posing as women and many scammers, people like to verify the person before getting too deeply involved.

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RE: Confirmations by webcam - 11/25/2010 5:32:41 PM   
humancowmandy


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Status: offline 		yes, but this person didn't put in ANY effort, just... 'hey girl, nice tits. webcam?' and i said 'no', and he said... 'sorry DUDE, I'll pass'. If he had made any effort at all, it would be different. Makes me sad.

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RE: Confirmations by webcam - 11/25/2010 5:37:21 PM   
frazzle


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Status: offline 		Maybe if your profile didnt give the impression you'll accept anyone, (both wording and picture) you'd get approached as a human being.

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RE: Confirmations by webcam - 11/25/2010 5:40:29 PM   
Elisabella


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ORIGINAL: humancowmandy

yes, but this person didn't put in ANY effort, just... 'hey girl, nice tits. webcam?' and i said 'no', and he said... 'sorry DUDE, I'll pass'. If he had made any effort at all, it would be different. Makes me sad.


rofl look at your profile and wonder why you only get pervs.

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RE: Confirmations by webcam - 11/25/2010 5:41:26 PM   
humancowmandy


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Status: offline 		I find that it doesn't really matter what I put in my profile. The only ones who read it are the message-board people.

And I post this type of picture because if anyone I know saw my face, I'd be fired.

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RE: Confirmations by webcam - 11/25/2010 5:42:45 PM   
VaguelyCurious


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Status: offline 		A wise, kind, noble man who used to post here was very fond of saying that water finds its own level.

You get out of CM what you put in - I've never once been asked to verify by cam, because I don't talk to people likely to make that kind of idiot demand. Don't like it? Raise your standards.

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RE: Confirmations by webcam - 11/25/2010 5:43:17 PM   
tazzygirl


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RE: Confirmations by webcam - 11/25/2010 5:43:37 PM   
Aynne88


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Status: offline 		OP, seriously....read your profile. You are just udders and holes, wanting to be used and whored out.  I mean, how much respect do you want from an online stranger? Oh, and the human cow thing..just saying.

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RE: Confirmations by webcam - 11/25/2010 5:43:50 PM   
VaguelyCurious


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ORIGINAL: humancowmandy

And I post this type of picture because if anyone I know saw my face, I'd be fired.

...so the only other thing you have to offer is your tits?

Fail.

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RE: Confirmations by webcam - 11/25/2010 5:44:21 PM   
Elisabella


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ORIGINAL: humancowmandy

I find that it doesn't really matter what I put in my profile. The only ones who read it are the message-board people.

And I post this type of picture because if anyone I know saw my face, I'd be fired.


I know it's a revolutionary concept, but it is possible to take a pic that hides both face and nipples.

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RE: Confirmations by webcam - 11/25/2010 5:44:23 PM   
tazzygirl


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Status: offline 		lol Aynne... my thoughts exactly

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RE: Confirmations by webcam - 11/25/2010 5:45:24 PM   
frazzle


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Status: offline 		Ok , no face pic is reasonable, but that doesnt mean you cant show a clothed body shot.

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RE: Confirmations by webcam - 11/25/2010 5:45:24 PM   
Elisabella


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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

How does that saying go? Why buy the cow when you can have the milk for free.


A+ would laugh again

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RE: Confirmations by webcam - 11/25/2010 5:46:38 PM   
humancowmandy


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Status: offline 		i'm not asking for respect. I'm asking not to be assumed as male just because I won't show a video of myself.

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RE: Confirmations by webcam - 11/25/2010 5:47:42 PM   
Aynne88


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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

lol Aynne... my thoughts exactly


Great minds....lol...


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RE: Confirmations by webcam - 11/25/2010 5:49:59 PM   
VaguelyCurious


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Elisabella

I know it's a revolutionary concept, but it is possible to take a pic that hides both face and nipples.

Haha! I love you, really I do

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RE: Confirmations by webcam - 11/25/2010 5:50:04 PM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		Obviously that is asking too much of the men who find you attractive.  Did you know that you can ignore and say "no"?

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RE: Confirmations by webcam - 11/25/2010 5:51:13 PM   
frazzle


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Status: offline 		Possibly, most females, i'm not saying all, see themselves as more than just tits and holes.

Therefore most men, again not all, doubt your authenticity.

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RE: Confirmations by webcam - 11/25/2010 5:52:48 PM   
humancowmandy


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