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ladyrapier -> new to the lifestyle/ help (11/4/2010 12:36:21 AM)
im very new to the bdsm lifestyle and would like to know where i can learn more about it, how to catagorize myself, thank you

Takeylarose -> RE: new to the lifestyle/ help (11/4/2010 1:59:12 AM)
My suggestion would be to search the forums, use google and self-reflection. I believe there is a list of very good books listed in the ask a mistress forum. Good luck and welcome to the boards! Hope you get it figured out.

tiggerspoohbear -> RE: new to the lifestyle/ help (11/4/2010 2:29:55 AM)
[sm=welcomewave.gif] to CM and the boards. Use the search feature up top, right hand corner, type in anything of interest to you, it will give you some needed information. Lurk on the boards, read different threads in forums that you think may be of interest. Google is always your friend and along with real books (not the fantasy stuff), there's some serious reading to be done. If you live in or near a major city, you can also google munches (get together for like minded people), gather information from people who do wiitwd, make some friends and possibly connections. Be polite, be discreet and show respect. People you meet in real life can truly advise you and you never who you'll meet. Good luck in your search.

OohAahMrs -> RE: new to the lifestyle/ help (11/6/2010 8:51:52 AM)
Yes, put yourself about a bit, in the nicest possible way!

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