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needs Owner - 11/3/2010 6:55:53 AM   
slaveoivind


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Sincerely.

male norwegian slave needs owner, online owner or rl owner.

What i like, please look at the profile, just written the bdsm wishes.

Open for changes.

You mighte be FemDom, TV.Mistress, or MaleDom

Please ...... needs to get a Collar.

sincerely

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RE: needs Owner - 11/3/2010 3:52:16 PM   
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Welcome to CM and the forums.  Don't be in such a rush to be collared, take your time and don't settle.  Just some gentle advice from one who's rushed things when I should have known better.  And know that desperation does not look good, Dominants want someone who wants them and this will drive them off.  Not criticism, just a fact of life when looking for the one. 

You have to get to know someone first, make sure there's chemistry, become friends and then take it from there.  Rushing things can only get you into trouble, and I don't wish that on anybody.

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RE: needs Owner - 11/3/2010 3:54:51 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: tiggerspoohbear

Welcome to CM and the forums.  Don't be in such a rush to be collared, take your time and don't settle.  Just some gentle advice from one who's rushed things when I should have known better.  And know that desperation does not look good, Dominants want someone who wants them and this will drive them off.  Not criticism, just a fact of life when looking for the one. 

You have to get to know someone first, make sure there's chemistry, become friends and then take it from there.  Rushing things can only get you into trouble, and I don't wish that on anybody.



Very good response poohbear. It is good to see people that advise caution to any and all.

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RE: needs Owner - 11/3/2010 7:24:26 PM   
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Thank you for the compliment.  I've been there, done that, wore the t-shirt to threads.  I don't want anyone new or in a rush to have to suffer the experiences I did.  We're all human beings, whether Dom, switch or sub and have to realize that of other people.  It hurts me to the core to know someone has rushed or been rushed into things too fast and left in pain, either mental or physical. 

I feel I have the experience to advise anyone who's new and trying to go to fast.  And I do it from the heart, it means so much to me that the advice I've given is taken seriously and that good results happen.

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RE: needs Owner - 11/3/2010 7:28:09 PM   
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I agree with poohbear.  If you run out into the street shouting, "I want to get married!  Who will marry me NOW?"... you're not going to attract the cream of the crop.


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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: needs Owner - 11/3/2010 8:45:29 PM   
tiggerspoohbear


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You won't even attract the curdled milk.  Or at least I'd hope so???

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RE: needs Owner - 11/6/2010 8:55:06 AM   
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Don't listen to these people, rush out and sign your life away to the first offer that comes along!

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You may choc the choc.........Oh forget it......

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