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CreativeDominant -> RE: just wanted a few opinions on this statement (10/20/2010 2:50:31 PM)
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ORIGINAL: MrBKS
In My eyes slaves have no sexuality..I dont intend on using a slave for sexual need that need is satisfied My degree of understanding of a slave in layman terms is someone to do My bidding..In todays society it may come down to the totalitarian issue of sexually slavery would be the most influential yet I believe that if that same sexual gratification is the fixation for the slave then where is the true intent.
If that works for you, GREAT. I've yet to meet many men or women...well, other than My ex-wife...who did not have a sexual drive. While the idea of having a slave whose sexual fulfillment (or lack thereof) is totally under your control...and your idea of control & her sexual fulfillment is satisfying yourself elsewhere while she does nothing...I doubt that you will find many that want to live that way for long.
There's many things that are wants and only a few things that are needs. That has often been discussed on these boards. Basic needs are considered to be air to breathe, water, food. After that comes some sort of shelter from the elements (and yes, that can be as basic as clothing). After that comes those things that are often argued about as to whether they are needs or wants. Human contact is one of those things that is often argued about...do we want or do we need human contact. Psychologists will tell you what happens to most people without human contact of a loving nature. In my view, we all have a "need" to be touched by someone lovingly once in awhile. It is even more effective when we know that person loves us. Does that have to translate into sex? For most people...no. For most people...if pushed...loving contact of a non-sexual nature would be enough to maintain mental health (although emotional health is an entirely different matter). That is...until they are denied sexual contact along with loving contact for a long enough period of time. Then you begin to create all sorts of mental and emotional problems.
This is one of my big problems with those who love to enforce chastity on their submissives...for a time, great. I've known of just a few who enforced it for long periods of time and I've met a couple of submissives who had put themselves through that. Their viewpoint? Both of them said "Never again". And no, that did not make them less submissive nor less slave-like. It meant that they'd been taken to a depth of mental and emotional barrenness that they did not wish to return to.
One of the problems with long distance relationships is the lack of mental and physical contact of any sort, of being able to just have vision contact...let alone sexual contact...with the one you want to be with. I know...I had one relationship go away with that lack being a big part of it. Why on earth would I want to subject a human being who is right...there...with me that contact? Why would you?
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