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RE: How do you feel around your Master? - 10/24/2010 6:05:40 PM

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Thank for your words and your reply femasoslave. Good luck 2 you as well

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RE: How do you feel around your Master? - 10/25/2010 2:31:17 AM

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i was for years married in a vanilla relationship looking for things i didn't know existed. we divorced and that was the start of my happiness. then i met the master i am now living with and for the first time ever i am strong happy and most important i am me its a great and liberating feeling to be who you really are with someone who loves and cares for who you really are and don't have to hide and pretend. then when i have done something good or well and he says good girl anyone else it could sound patronising but i am just an oosing mush of happiness in his arms

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RE: How do you feel around your Master? - 10/25/2010 4:33:15 AM

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Yes I did. I need to not let little things like post make me loose my temper. That is childish and dumb. The smarter thing is make her wait and bit and talk it over with my Master.

At 41, I would think you could answer a simple question without having to go running to your master, but maybe I am giving you too much credit. But go ahead and take your time, because I really doubt anyone is actually waiting for an answer. Personally I don't care either way, but would love to see the look on your hubbys face when he gets a look at your red little ass online. Now that would be worth waiting for.

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RE: How do you feel around your Master? - 10/25/2010 6:43:31 AM

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Its your turn please. How do you feel around your Master or Mistress? What has your Master or Mistress done for you?

Greetings secretlilslave,

Two things come to mind when I think of your question. The first is transcendental peace that reverberates around me. The settled feeling is difficult to describe but its presence is unmistakable. There's also a radiant joy that's effervescent and outwardly manifested. I smile and laugh a lot and become more approachable too. I think the most important feeling is the quiet sense of knowing that I'm where I'm meant to be and He provides the safe respite from all that threatens to harm me. It's the unchanging hand that never releases mine that brings me home.

Namaste,

~porcelaine

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RE: How do you feel around your Master? - 10/25/2010 7:26:21 AM

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Yes I did. I need to not let little things like post make me loose my temper. That is childish and dumb. The smarter thing is make her wait and bit and talk it over with my Master.

At 41, I would think you could answer a simple question without having to go running to your master, but maybe I am giving you too much credit. But go ahead and take your time, because I really doubt anyone is actually waiting for an answer. Personally I don't care either way, but would love to see the look on your hubbys face when he gets a look at your red little ass online. Now that would be worth waiting for.

Whether or not you approve of her choices, I thought I would tell you that your tone is coming across as that of a high school bully, and a sanctimonious one at that, which is such a picture of irony.
I am sure you couldn't care less what my opinion is.

I am well aware that either being married or taking up with married is extremely unpopular here.
I understand the reasoning and I agree with it: honesty in any relationship is paramount, and to build one the begins with a deception is setting up a disaster and in this case a disaster that is usually going to result in a lot of collateral damage.

However, I remember reading The Scarlett Letter, and feeling empathy for Hester Prynne, and, I think most of us did.
And yet on this forum we judge, berate and belittle without ever knowing the people we are judging.
We see it all in black and white. It's easy to do.
We don't want to be the other person, or once upon a time we were the injured party.

None of us live perfect lives.
Would any of us want the worst things we've ever done brought up for discussion here?
I don't think that it is automatically fair game just because someone mentions it.
Some people seem to gleefully feel otherwise but that may just be my perception.

I don't feel righteous in writing this, just sad.

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RE: How do you feel around your Master? - 10/27/2010 4:12:35 PM

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Would any of us want the worst things we've ever done brought up for discussion here?

I guess that would depend on whether we started a thread and mentioned it in the OP, in which case, yes I would expect it to be brought up.

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RE: How do you feel around your Master? - 10/27/2010 5:42:26 PM

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With my fingers.

Or, I open my arms wide, step in close, and clasp my hands behind his back!

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RE: How do you feel around your Master? - 10/28/2010 2:37:40 AM

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When I was around my former mistress...

It was like I was a friendly servant or pet, always around and not just for play. When we both first met we were seemingly nervous, we had talked on the phone previously before but in real life is a different experience. I towered over her so she commented on that a few times, after some initial small talk we just started talking as if we had always been friends. She had some training for me, which I needed since after only a day or two I had gotten so comfortable that at times I would revert to my smart aleck ways. After a small amount of times, like I said, I was a servant of sorts doing chores around the house that needed to be done. To clarify, she never asked or demanded I do so but I did so after asking permission to do so, because I wanted to please her in everything I did.

So I guess you can say I felt obligated to do right, she inspired those feelings in me.

As for the pet part she liked to be comfortable with me, if she was on the computer I would be sitting on the floor next to her talking. While she was watching tv she liked to be held because i'm big and comfy. On more than one occasion she would refer to me as such, a pet, which I never minded it wasn't something I had to get used to it just was. I was a pet, in many ways i'd prefer to be a pet ^_^

It felt special, if you need to put it in a sentence.

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RE: How do you feel around your Master? - 10/28/2010 5:38:28 AM

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Given how critical Honesty and trust is to any relationship ESPECIALLY one with a Dynamic... presenting as someone who cheats automatically makes a farce of any claims of feelings, submission or loyalty they 'supposedly' feel for anyone (If they can cheat on the person they committed to as their primary partner then where is there room for ANYONE to trust them) and it also reflects very badly on anyone who would facilitate their cheating... To My mind a Master needs trustworthiness and honesty.... so I wouldn't see anyone involved in a cheating situation as being the same species, let alone as a Peer.

I'm not judging the people in this post.. I don't know them and don't care to know them given what I've read. Its just My views (And judgement) of any such situation, it just seems relevant in this case.

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RE: How do you feel around your Master? - 11/15/2010 1:59:41 PM

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Porceliane,

I must say you have a beautiful way with words. I know others will what I say that is alright. The few true slaves here understand. That as a slave you are forbidden to hide any thing from your Master. You are his body and soul. Now for those that are role playing only! Well have fun! I will ignore them. There is only one God. Not several.

Any way. Your words talking of the joy and peace you feel around your Master. This sounds as if you do know what it too feel and be truly owned. Thank you for sharing.

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