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MrsPiggy -> Knowing how to Dominate? (10/9/2010 11:27:37 AM)

I do not know how to dominate someone over the web ;)
I would like some tips on what to do please. x



poise -> RE: Knowing how to Dominate? (10/9/2010 11:31:20 AM)

First, you have to type in caps everytime you are corresponding with them.
That lets them know who the boss is right off the bat!

There are lots of suggestions for this in previous threads.
Here is one that was currently dug up from the past. http://www.collarchat.com/m_1608710/tm.htm 
Use the search feature in the upper right hand corner..you will find many suggestions.



MrsPiggy -> RE: Knowing how to Dominate? (10/9/2010 11:34:49 AM)

lol That will make them horney. Anything else? ty to poise



willbeurdaddy -> RE: Knowing how to Dominate? (10/9/2010 11:38:03 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: MrsPiggy

I do not know how to dominate someone over the web ;)
I would like some tips on what to do please. x


There are as many varities of "online D/s" as there are in "live D/s". There is no formula for "what to do". You learn what motivates your sub and yourself and create a relationship that fulfills both parties' needs and desires.



DesFIP -> RE: Knowing how to Dominate? (10/9/2010 12:45:14 PM)

Back when we were ldr I had to send a morning and evening email. He would occasionally send me a list of what I should wear that day and as long as it didn't interfere with my schedule I would follow it. If it wasn't doable, I would write and tell him why and ask if I should save that for the next day.

Beyond that, he did things like telling me to sign back on after I would run out with the garbage late at night in my robe and slippers. He would send me to bed so I wouldn't be so beat the next morning.



domiman -> RE: Knowing how to Dominate? (10/9/2010 3:10:49 PM)

Yeah, never wink. Like this ;) ... that's a non starter. You gotta be firm. Like this :!



ResidentSadist -> RE: Knowing how to Dominate? (10/9/2010 4:42:44 PM)

-=Online Virtual Master & Slave Control Software=-

This may help.



Rochsub2009 -> RE: Knowing how to Dominate? (10/9/2010 5:06:34 PM)

Mrs. Piggy,
On-line domination is no different than real-time domination; it is completely up to you what you choose to do.  There is no right or wrong way to do it.

So rather than ask us for suggestions on what you should do, I will turn the question back on you.  What do you LIKE to do?  What do you dislike.  What would you like to try that you haven't tried before?

Now ask the same questions to your on-line sub/slave.  Once you know what the two of you like, then think of a way to experience those things on-line.  Also, try to avoid those things that the two of you dislike.

By the way, have you ever dominated someone in real-life?  If not, why not?  Why are you choosing to do this on-line rather than finding a local play partner?  Just curious.



KatyLied -> RE: Knowing how to Dominate? (10/9/2010 7:07:45 PM)

You should demand that on-line slaves humiliate themselves by sending compromising pics of themselves to be used later as blackmail.  



Twoshoes -> RE: Knowing how to Dominate? (10/9/2010 8:19:12 PM)

Make them eat pickles. Slowly.
And describe every bite. Differently.
While Experiencing the taste. Passionately.

See it's easy:
Half sentence. Adverb.
Walking on sunshine. Moonlight.

However, if you lack creativity, meet them in person, buy something plastic and stick to complete sentences like "On your knees, snugglebunny".



poise -> RE: Knowing how to Dominate? (10/9/2010 8:27:43 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Twoshoes

Make them eat pickles. Slowly.
And describe every bite. Differently.
While Experiencing the taste. Passionately.

See it's easy:
Half sentence. Adverb.
Walking on sunshine. Moonlight.

However, if you lack creativity, meet them in person, buy something plastic and stick to complete sentences like "On your knees, snugglebunny".

I adore this post....and the poster. [image]http://smilies-gifs.com/amor/39amor.gif[/image] Thank you for the smiles.



Twoshoes -> RE: Knowing how to Dominate? (10/9/2010 9:03:30 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: poise
I adore this post....and the poster. [image]http://smilies-gifs.com/amor/39amor.gif[/image] Thank you for the smiles.


Well, thank you poise. It's nice to be appreciated, especially on weekends.
And despite various flaws--like "moonlight" not being an adverb...



poise -> RE: Knowing how to Dominate? (10/9/2010 9:37:15 PM)

We all know you meant to type moonlightish. [;)]



ResidentSadist -> RE: Knowing how to Dominate? (10/9/2010 9:54:44 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Twoshoes

Make them eat pickles. Slowly.
And describe every bite. Differently.
While Experiencing the taste. Passionately.
..........

For masochistic submissives, Dom/mes could exchange pickles for habanero hot peppers.



KatyLied -> RE: Knowing how to Dominate? (10/10/2010 1:47:36 PM)

quote:


For masochistic submissives, Dom/mes could exchange pickles for habanero hot peppers.


Great!  And when finished, they should rub the pepper juice on their genitals! 



Pyramus -> RE: Knowing how to Dominate? (10/10/2010 5:00:07 PM)

Tell them to shove a skinned ginger root up their butt and then have them describe the sensations in no fewer than 1,000 words before they can yank it out!



BurntKitty -> RE: Knowing how to Dominate? (10/10/2010 5:06:21 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Pyramus

Tell them to shove a skinned ginger root up their butt and then have them describe the sensations in no fewer than 1,000 words before they can yank it out!


Doesn't work for some of us who enjoy figging... hell, I have instant Os when I've got ginger in the puss, butt & a sliver on the clit.

Oops I mean oh woe is me, how can you be so mean....

[sm=angel.gif]



sunshinemiss -> RE: Knowing how to Dominate? (10/11/2010 12:09:39 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Twoshoes


Walking on sunshine. Moonlight.




HEY!



ResidentSadist -> RE: Knowing how to Dominate? (10/11/2010 1:40:37 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

quote:


For masochistic submissives, Dom/mes could exchange pickles for habanero hot peppers.


Great!  And when finished, they should rub the pepper juice on their genitals! 

So you are saying to swap out the feminine hygiene spray with pepper spray?  That'll get a rise outta' someone. 



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