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Looking for feedback for a curious sub. - 10/5/2010 2:27:21 AM

curioussub1963

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I would like to introduce myself. My name is Kat and I have been curious about the BDSM lifestyle for a while now as a submissive. I have read about everything I can find on the subject but I believe I could get more information by hearing and learning from another submissive. I would greatly appreciate any feedback given to me.

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RE: Looking for feedback for a curious sub. - 10/5/2010 2:34:13 AM

Selectivelight

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Welcome, and I hope you find the information you seek.

If you'll pardon my saying so, while there is a wealth of information to be gathered from other submissive individuals, I believe a more practical approach would be to ask both dominant and submissive people for their opinions, and perspectives.

Whatever you decide, I wish you the best of luck!

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RE: Looking for feedback for a curious sub. - 10/5/2010 2:37:28 AM

WickedLittleGirl

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Hi Kat =)! I don't usually post on the boards, but if you would like to talk about general experiences or just need a friend to talk to, I'm here and my inbox is always open!

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RE: Looking for feedback for a curious sub. - 10/5/2010 4:37:46 AM

DarkSteven

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Hello, kat! First thing I gotta say is that your font is kinda small.

There's something holding you back from jumping in head first. If it's a life situation, okay. But if it's fear or shyness, I'd encourage you to get past it.

Do some looking around on Google and see if there are any lifestyle groups near Jackson. Michigan's always had a high number of kinksters...

Welcome to collarme!

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RE: Looking for feedback for a curious sub. - 10/5/2010 7:08:05 AM

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Welcome kat enjoy yourself.

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RE: Looking for feedback for a curious sub. - 10/5/2010 2:04:41 PM

tiggerspoohbear

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Welcome to CM and the boards. Sometimes, reading the old and newer posts will give you some information you're looking for. There's a lot of real life experience to be taken from. Use the search feature top right hand corner and type in any subject, that should be a start. And getting Dominants perspectives is also helpful, after all, they're the ones in charge of their subbies. Ask a Master/Mistress/sub forums are some of the areas where you can start.

Also google munches and events in your area, get out there and meet people who live it in real life. It's mostly casual, and you get to meet new people, make possible new friends and connections.

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RE: Looking for feedback for a curious sub. - 10/6/2010 6:30:26 AM

tiggerspoohbear

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chickster, start your own thread in the appropriate forum or read the FAQ's in the "Ask A Mistress Forum". And do as has been suggested, read old and newer posts. Hijacking another thread is not cool and won't earn you any points with the posters here.

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RE: Looking for feedback for a curious sub. - 10/6/2010 10:53:13 PM

BalletBob

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Hi Kat. I will still welcome you to the group, even though you gave me eye strain.

I see you LOVE Sewing, so I guess your having FUN, with Halloween coming up this month. I myself, can't wait, and did make most of my costumes over the years.

Take care, and I hope you find all that you seek here, especially a Larger Font. LMCLAO

Till later Kat, sub BalletBob

P.S. I am always open for new Friends and would like to share some of my experiences too.

< Message edited by BalletBob -- 10/6/2010 10:54:21 PM >

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