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Kinkthulhu -> N00b here! (9/30/2010 4:38:54 AM)
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Hello!
My name is Cody, and I'm new to this place. I'm actually really nervous about posting on here, so maybe this will help calm those nerves.
From what I've seen on here I have different views of the "Dom" and "Slave" relationship than most of the people I've looked at on here. But I have seen a few people with similar interests and thoughts, so I decided to stick around and give it a shot.
I consider myself to be submissive, because I really enjoy making the person I am with happy. Be it sexually or otherwise. I don't like the thought of being locked in a cage and being told who I can and can't talk to, though out of respect for my partner and due to my personal morals, I will always dedicate myself solely to the person I am with. When I say that, I mean that I will love and protect my partner, and maybe every now and then let them order me around for fun, but I'm not into being forced to do menial tasks or be humiliated. I am fairly new to what most of you call the "BDSM Community" and I am, to be honest, confused by how things are worded here. However, I know what I like and don't like, and I am very open to trying new things. I had a relationship with a wonderful girl that was also interested in trying new things and we found out a lot about ourselves. Regretfully that relationship is over, and now I am looking for a new one.
I am unsure what to say for my sexual orientation though. I am not against the idea of playing with another guy, but I am not at all interested in a relationship with one. I am more picky about what guys I would do things with than I am girls. The thought of kissing most guys makes me... I don't want to say sick... but I am really against it... but I don't mind the thought of doings things with another guys... parts. Maybe that makes me weird, but it's me. I love women, I love their body, I love their minds, I love everything about them. I am actively seeking a woman to please in every way that I am capable of, which is a pretty good amount of ways I believe. I'm not much for cleaning, but I can cook, very well, and love to do so. I am guessing "switch" means some one who is willing to be either "sub" or "dom" and if that is what makes my woman happy, then I am ok with that too. And that is what is important to me.
I work a whole lot more than I'd like to, but a mans gotta pay his bills. I turned to this site to try and find an actual relationship, because it is so hard to meet people with similar interests while working the schedule I do. I work nights, and most of the time I work an excess of 50 hours a week. Some weeks I work 70 hours. It's not my dream job by any means but its easy money, and they enjoy giving out overtime, and like I said, a mans gotta pay his bills. My job takes up a lot of my time (obviously) and tends to give me more stress than I need, so I am looking for someone to help me relieve it. If you are interested, let me know.
I have a bit of a twisted sense of humor, and I'm a bit of an asshole, but I mean good, and like to be goofy. Honestly, if anything I say offends anyone... I feel sorry for them. In this day and age if mere comments made in the intent of humor offends you, you should probably re-evaluate yourself. I believe humor is the cure for pretty much everything and I love laughing, and making people laugh. Making other people laugh makes me feel really good inside, and I will do what ever I can to do that as often as possible everyday. Even if it means telling god-awful cheesy one-liners, lol. I'm also a fan of jokes that make you go "Haha... wait... WHAT!?"
So if you are near Western North Carolina and looking for a big awesome guy to please you, or just looking for someone cool to talk to online or face to face, feel free to send me a message. I'm a pretty laid back person, and like talking to people so long as they don't creep me out.
Cheesy one-liner of the day:
This is an oldie but a goodie... sort of.
Two Peanuts were walking down the road. One of the them was a-salted. *ba dum tish*
Thank you, GOODNIGHT!
-Cody
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