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I'm new to this and want to know more. - 9/28/2010 11:31:12 AM

danny854u

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Hello. I was newly introduced to the whole master and slave thing and I was really intrigued by it. I want to learn as much about it as I can before I actually try putting myself into that type of thing. I feel like I would be a better master than a slave but I don't think I would mind doing some of the slavish things. Anyway, I really want some help here so I can find out if this is really for me. What exactly does this type of relationship contain with in it? Is it a lifestyle and not just a during sex thing? How do you make either work? What are the best sites to learn all the stuff I need to know about this type of thing? Pretty much can someone just teach me exactly what this is and how it is done so I don't have the wrong idea and make a fool of myself? Thanks.

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RE: I'm new to this and want to know more. - 9/28/2010 11:34:11 AM

mnottertail

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Oh, christ, thats just too much........look, here is the one thing you should walk away with from me.

Everybody makes a fool of themselves, and they do it repeatedly, some cycle longer than others but still...........

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RE: I'm new to this and want to know more. - 9/28/2010 12:14:25 PM

ladyseekinglord

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I would suggest two things:

1) Find a local group in your area and go to a coffee or munch with them. You can meet local people and hopefully learn a thing or two from others who's intentions are good.

2) Read the forums. You can search for topics that you're interested in. There is a lot of info here.

And, welcome!

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RE: I'm new to this and want to know more. - 9/28/2010 12:21:54 PM

tiggerspoohbear

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Welcome to CM and the boards. Having said that, no one can answer all the questions you've asked. There's so much to it that it would take days. Educate yourself through previous threads on the forums as was already suggested and try to find that local munch or event in your area. Meet people who do this in real life. Not saying that people here don't, but it'll be easier that way. You can make friends and some possible connections. Good luck in your search. And please, don't make the font so small, it's tough to read.

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RE: I'm new to this and want to know more. - 9/29/2010 3:23:15 AM

OohAahMrs

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Welcome dan, i'm not the right person to answer those questions, i would only suggest something fun and ridiculous.

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RE: I'm new to this and want to know more. - 9/29/2010 7:00:01 AM

lizi

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Hi dan and welcome. I learned a lot by reading here in the forums. By doing that you can build up a base of knowledge to start working from and it's fun too. Hope to see you around