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ElectraGlide -> Hello from someone on the fence... (4/23/2006 10:21:47 PM)
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Hello every body I do enjoy this site very much. I am a 41 year old male from Maryland. I could make a book or movie out of this with both drama and humor. Here we go when I was in my early 20s I dated a lady I was head over heels for, 2 months into the relationship she requested bondage, spankings, etc. I was blown away by her request but very eager and willing to obligue her. I had no BDSM education what so ever I just knew what we were doing. Dom, Sub even Bondage was a definition or term I was clueless about. It lasted a year I have been vanilla and bored ever since. I had no resources such as a computer back then to stay in the lifestyle, not that I even knew if one exsisted. I did seek the lifestyle the biggest mistake you can make is to just start a long term with a lady and wait and ask. Most likely she will not be interested and very mad and think you are nuts lol. I consider myself a person with intersest with the desire to pick up where I left off at. I am not a fake because I dont proclaim to be a know it all Dom. I am not even sure if I am a wanna-be Dom. I have been single for over a year know and have reasearched this lifestyle to fill in the missing blanks I did not understand from my past experience. I know being a Master or Dom is a huge responsibility. I know I am on the fence because I dont want the vanilla road again. I have had a few dates in the last year and I told them about my past and my future desire at the risk of turning their stomach or putting a smile on their face. I am very complex but yet very simple and relaxed. I am disciplined and I am honorable I dont play no head games. The sub from my past I cosidered it a honor that she would share her submissive side with me. I now go to munches to meet people in the lifestyle face to face and I have enjoyed their company. This lifestyle has hardcore extremes I might be uncomfortable engaging in, but I respect every aspect of this lifestyle because it is in between two or more lol consenting adults. If only the vanilla lifestyle had this kind of communication in it. Face it the Vanilla thing is the same two things over and over, Ok I made this post a little longer than I intended just want to say hello to every body and let you know where I stand. ElectraGlide
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