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lizi -> RE: Is BDSM and a exclusive lover relationship desired in that community or against the point? (8/29/2010 12:23:50 PM)
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ORIGINAL: KyttynTheMynx
I will never understand people that point out their flaws, and expect them to be accepted, but want nothing but perfection from a partner. This isnt high school. Its the real world.
I could go for the hot guy, but if he doesnt have a personality, what fun is that? The hot guy could go for you, but frankly, your personality sucks. So why should he stick around? Chew on that for a bit, please.
At any rate, its posts like these that make me love the fact that I am multifaceted and ave never settled for one type of person. I have dated the mama's boy. I had a very loving relationship with the "fatso". And I love me some nerds (smart guys get me so hot!).
So ask yourself, "Am I the person, the person that I want, wants?" And dont ask yourself this question while wearing your rose colored glasses. Be really honest with yourself.
The first man I dated for more than coffee after my marital separation a few years ago was amazingly hot and a body builder to boot. I could not believe he was interested in me- at the time I was carrying more weight and I was emotionally rocky after my marriage problems. He was great fun, and in the end I was the one who left. I couldn't talk to the man, couldn't get that easy patter going with him and at that point, I knew that no matter how yummy he was he wasn't going to be anything more than an interlude in my life.
OP, you are concentrating on the wrong parts of a person - there is much more underneath the outside wrapper in some cases, and a lovely wrapper in others but sawdust inside. Plus, aren't you aware that you are setting up yourself to be judged the same way? You don't seem to be all that special from the outside and inside it's sawdust city...what do you have to offer in order to get this beautiful and perfect partner?
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