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BDSM Travel - 4/19/2006 7:26:20 AM

OhioSissyBoi

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I won a couple of businesses and one is a Cruise Travel Agency. Because of this, I have the good fortune to be able to travel very inexpensivly. I love to travel, so I take full advantage of their hospitality.

My questions is these:

Where have you been?
Have you been collared or show your lifestyle while there?
Was it generally accepted by the natives?
Where is the most accepted placed that you have gone?

Thanks everyone!

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RE: BDSM Travel - 4/19/2006 7:47:26 AM

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OSB,

when I travel for pleasure, I tavel as I am / a Dominant. I do not where a sign as such but I have my ring which carrries a prominant D/s on it.

Many comment on tit and that is a door opener which eventually allows me to get a bead on their thoughts on the lifestyle.

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RE: BDSM Travel - 4/19/2006 8:18:15 AM

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I don't know about cruises, but Germany is pretty forthright in their BDSMness in my experience.

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RE: BDSM Travel - 4/19/2006 9:19:25 AM

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i travel extensively and germany has GREAT places to play and they are typically very sexually openminded. i'll never forget the first billboard i saw out of the airport was a woman with her tits showing selling soda or something (actually i was sorta focused on the tits, she could be selling funeral plots for all i know or care.)

there is even a really nice kinky hotel in berlin that you can rent and the rooms are like fully equipped dungeons. i stayed there last year when i went to the german fetish ball. germany has so far been the most tolerant place i've been and i've been a lot of places.

least tolerant- New Jersey on new years eve in full rubber. people were actually throwing things at us. very odd behaviour.

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RE: BDSM Travel - 4/19/2006 5:19:32 PM

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umm... my stainless steel non-removable collar made the metal detector part more fun. =)

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RE: BDSM Travel - 4/19/2006 9:15:06 PM

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Hedo II and III in Jamaica are quite tolerant. A stainless or rubber collar works best at the nude beach and pool. Biggest problem is curious people who want to play too.

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RE: BDSM Travel - 4/19/2006 10:00:29 PM

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quote:

Where have you been?
Have you been collared or show your lifestyle while there?
Was it generally accepted by the natives?
Where is the most accepted placed that you have gone?

I've been to Europe, Asia, across North America, and Northern Africa.

I admit that I showed off once (and only once) while overseas, in China. I had a rough time living in Beijing for a month, as a plus-sized tall woman with a male traveling companion. I was fed up with the stares, uninvited touching and groping, commentary in broken English, physical expressions, and being ignored while my male traveling companion was given tons of attention. So, I had him lead me through the street on a bright pink leash and collar. I figured, at the time, that I would give them a REAL reason to stare. I'm surprised we weren't arrested on sight.

Was it accepted? No. In China (even in a large city like Beijing), women are not generally expected to be independent. Going out of my way to bring attention to myself could have been a LOT more dangerous than it was. I could have been arrested. I could have been kicked out of my hotel. I could have invited a lot more unwanted attention than I happened to receive. I was very lucky. In China, people of the same sex are shunned from holding hands, EVEN if they are just friends. I don't think they're really ready for S&M.

I guess I could venture to say that the most accepting place I have visited would be England. However, I was very young then and not an active member of the S&M community. From what I know about England (again, large cities like London), they're a relatively educated bunch. I could possibly venture to say the same about Switzerland (I've been there, though, again, many years ago) and France (last time I was there was 2000).

I wouldn't recommend flaunting your sexuality in countries that are behind the times, sexually. For instance, China, most of Africa, most of South America (except, perhaps, Brazil). From what I have heard, Western Europe is more accepting of S&M scenarios. Germany (as mentioned) and the Netherlands, in particular, have reputations for their large S&M communities.

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RE: BDSM Travel - 4/22/2006 6:07:16 PM

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both Jamaca Mon an Germany get My thumbs up as both were enjoyable and I dident end up in a jail cell for My lifestyle practices and dress. Course boi you could always invite Me and Goddess with you on some of those trips you want to go on. Your penny of course. ~wink~ Oh gosh Id have to take out the lil black book of intolerance to put down all the places We have been * stoned* so to speak........LOL

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