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SnowCrash7 -> On Rimming (7/31/2010 4:53:15 PM)

On Rimming -

Let's talk about rimming. I have been a Dom male since birth and have enjoyed rimming a clean, female rosebud nearly that long. I am not sure where that desire stems from. Is it because I was raised as the oldest of 4 boys with no sisters? Is it because I'm an ass man?

I'm not sure where it comes from and I'm not sure I care where it comes from. I just know that with the right lady I doubt there is much more, outside of water sports, which could represent a more intimate form of pleasuring and sharing. It might be the taboo of it all that appeals. In the same manner that I truly enjoy playing with a married sub. The forbidden fruit as it were.

Without a doubt cleanliness is essential. But for those who balk at rimming a clean rosebud you should know that the typical mouth contains far more harmful bacteria than a clean anus. And you do kiss with your mouth open don't you ?

While I love to do the rimming I have only been rimmed a few times. And that was essentially by choice. That might stem from the fact that in my twenties I was cut there by an overly zealous young lady with long sharp fingernails. It was not fun.

So I tended to keep ladies away from that area. That was until I met this female sub in Texas in 2000 that delighted in rimming and being rimmed. I mean she insisted on it. And I have to admit being serviced like that was delightful. Soft, sensual, intimate, and the knowledge that it really rang her bell made it all the better.


I remember on more than occasion straddling her face, while she would gently lick, nibble, probe and play with my asshole. It was exquisite. I would then flog her pussy to provide 'motivation' and jerk off on her chest.
Sometimes she would have me lie down and prop a small pillow under my groin. She would then lie between my legs and go to town.

She really wanted to slide a finger into my ass and massage my prostate. She wanted that a lot. We did try it a few times but given my past experience I freely admit that I probably fully earned the nickname 'tight ass'. :)

One pleasant variation to a traditional 69 would be that when I was about to explode in the lady's mouth I would pull her very tight to my face and slide my tongue as deep into her ass as possible. Embedding my tongue deep in her ass at the moment of explosion. Hard to beat.

In discussing the gentle art of rimming and how much I enjoy it in various Ds forums I once had a young female sub, I would argue an uneducated and misinformed female sub. "Gee", she said. "that doesn't sound very Domlike". I replied. "Young lady, I can assure you that I am 100% Dom. And the fact that I WANT to do it makes it 'Domlike'.

I will also freely admit that my love of rimming has been going unabated as of late. And when deprived, it becomes clear that its far more than a linking. Its a NEED!! I find myself staring at nicely heart shaped derriers everywhere, thinking, briefly visualizing, fantasizing.

And if I am not able to tease, nibble, probe, taste, explore, luxuriate in, drill and tongue fuck a nice female rosebud very soon I will surely lose my mind :)




laurell3 -> RE: On Rimming (7/31/2010 4:59:42 PM)

Acts are not submissive or dominant, who is controlling the act is. Whomever told you that what you enjoy sexually wasn't dominant, had idiotic fantasy based beliefs.




mstrjx -> RE: On Rimming (7/31/2010 5:20:32 PM)

Thanks for sharing.

Jeff




domiguy -> RE: On Rimming (7/31/2010 5:35:14 PM)

Rosebud.....




DarkSteven -> RE: On Rimming (7/31/2010 5:38:33 PM)

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

Rosebud.....


That was the sleigh.




Jeffff -> RE: On Rimming (7/31/2010 5:39:57 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

Rosebud.....


That was the sleigh.




That's gonna hurt.




Nehemiah -> RE: On Rimming (7/31/2010 6:28:58 PM)

He who holds the paddle determines what is Dom-like.




UniqueRaven -> RE: On Rimming (7/31/2010 6:53:28 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Nehemiah

He who holds the paddle determines what is Dom-like.


Agreed. If he wants it to happen, it happens.

OP, thanks for sharing something so erotic and arousing - i have to admit i haven't thought much of rimming up until now, and your perspective opened some new thoughts in me, for sure. [:)]




reynardfox -> RE: On Rimming (7/31/2010 7:02:24 PM)

It's about playing with something nice people wouldn't play with in a way that nice people wouldn't do it.
No act is dominant or submissive, only the intention




sweetsub1957 -> RE: On Rimming (7/31/2010 9:45:51 PM)

~FR~
It's not what's being done that's Dominant or submissive. It's who's the Boss that makes it Dominant or submissive. If You're the Boss and calling the shots then, by definition, what You do is a Dominant act, since You're doing it because YOU want to.

~sweetsub~




Chrisincuffs -> RE: On Rimming (7/31/2010 9:52:21 PM)

that reminds me, maybe I need to file my nails, lol
quote:

In discussing the gentle art of rimming and how much I enjoy it in various Ds forums I once had a young female sub, I would argue an uneducated and misinformed female sub. "Gee", she said. "that doesn't sound very Domlike". I replied. "Young lady, I can assure you that I am 100% Dom. And the fact that I WANT to do it makes it 'Domlike'.

Maybe you should have just phrased it differently....like " put your fucking legs behind your head before I spank you, because i'm about to shove my tongue in your ass"
That sound dominant to me





Chrisincuffs -> RE: On Rimming (7/31/2010 9:53:47 PM)

gotta admit rosebud does sound cuter than Master's favorite nickname for it "leather cheerio"
hey Domi there's a cheerio for ya!




protective1 -> RE: On Rimming (7/31/2010 10:13:42 PM)

thanks for sharing "put a ring on it"




LovingSadist1963 -> RE: On Rimming (7/31/2010 10:27:47 PM)


Me, I have NEVER understood the mentality of some Doms and subs that simplistically thinks:

Giving pain/punishment is Dominant
Giving pleasure is submissive

Just ask anyone who is skilled at topping from the bottom how accurate that formulation is!

For me, being Dominant is doing what I want to do (whether it‘s inflicting pain or giving pleasure), when I want to do it, where I want to do it and asserting my will over my submissive in doing so.

Besides, only a fool would deprive himself of the pleasure of licking and tonguing a beautiful woman’s ass just because he thinks it’s un-Domly!!




wittynamehere -> RE: On Rimming (7/31/2010 10:41:19 PM)

Agreed with the above post by LovingSadist1963 (except to add that personally I'm not into rimming or being rimmed). Well said.




RealSub58 -> RE: On Rimming (8/1/2010 10:15:19 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: UniqueRaven


quote:

ORIGINAL: Nehemiah

He who holds the paddle determines what is Dom-like.


Agreed. If he wants it to happen, it happens.

OP, thanks for sharing something so erotic and arousing - i have to admit i haven't thought much of rimming up until now, and your perspective opened some new thoughts in me, for sure. [:)]


its as amazing as he writes about it




SnowCrash7 -> RE: On Rimming (8/1/2010 11:44:52 AM)

Re Rosebud yes nice. Citizen Kane....great quote :)




SnowCrash7 -> RE: On Rimming (8/1/2010 11:47:14 AM)

Loving sadist I couldn't agree more. That's why Ii described the young lady as undercoated. She had a right to her opinion, as idiotic as it was. Just interesting to discover that others have also dealt with such sentiments.




SnowCrash7 -> RE: On Rimming (8/1/2010 11:49:51 AM)

Chrisincuffs I wasn't playing with the young lady. I was chatting in a group online. It was one otf the many Ds chatrooms on AOL at the time. If we HAD been playing your suggestion would have been well utilized as I provide what is needed and in that case a certain amount of corrective motivation was surely needed :)




SnowCrash7 -> RE: On Rimming (8/1/2010 11:52:11 AM)

UniqueRaven

Thanks for the comment
I used to be with Group With No Name there in Austin. Had HUGE munches off 6th ST. We used to get the standard 'dress sedately' warning and then have 400 -500 people sitting there watching the real freak show on 6th :)

Ps you are gorgeous :)




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