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Filming/being filmed - 7/19/2010 1:13:27 PM

perfectflaw00

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Recently i have been shooting with a few bdsm websites that i've met through collar me and every time it has been a positive experience. My question to those who have been filmed/done filming is it more about having a sexual desire fulfilled or do you simply really enjoy the process itself. If i had gone to my past self and told him he would be doing bdsm porn his head might have exploded then and there, but for me it seems that i really have actual fun when i do these shoots almost akin to going on a roller coaster or going to a party with a bunch of friends I must say it was a pleasant surprise for me because initially i thought it would be a purely sexual exercise in and of itself. Just wondering what others think of the whole dynamic, thanks.

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RE: Filming/being filmed - 7/19/2010 1:29:30 PM

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G'day, interesting topic and one which could have some jolly good responses. It this is working well for you then I say good show and enjoy. The cynic in me together with an old head who has seen far too much of the negative side of human nature would pop a warning in here though. Unless you have absolute control of the films you never know where they may pop up and bite you on the tail feathers 5, 10, 20 years down the track right where it will do you the most damage. Ex wives and lovers are rather notorious for doing such things as are people who are friends now but who you may be in competition with later for that top job.. Still for most this is not a factor.. I also know the fun and pleasure of filming albeit for me it was within the Pagan arena which included numerous TV and live Radio talk-back programs some years ago of which I have copies of the whole lot (Vanity perhaps?). Given the right circumstances and film crew.production company, I'd be happy to be shot swinging a flogger, doing some rope or chain bondage or better yet needle play. being filmed in the sexual aspect (porno) no. Not my cup of tea and may cause too much embarrassment for family, friends and other sensitive areas.. But then I rarely watch that genre any way. Still you are enjoying this and thus good for you..

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RE: Filming/being filmed - 7/19/2010 1:54:36 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: perfectflaw00

Recently i have been shooting with a few bdsm websites that i've met through collar me and every time it has been a positive experience. My question to those who have been filmed/done filming is it more about having a sexual desire fulfilled or do you simply really enjoy the process itself. If i had gone to my past self and told him he would be doing bdsm porn his head might have exploded then and there, but for me it seems that i really have actual fun when i do these shoots almost akin to going on a roller coaster or going to a party with a bunch of friends I must say it was a pleasant surprise for me because initially i thought it would be a purely sexual exercise in and of itself. Just wondering what others think of the whole dynamic, thanks.

perfectflaw,

I love questions like this. They allow me to see where my head is at and how far I've fallen down the rabbit hole. I've had this discussion in the past with someone I was involved with. Now what he wanted was way beyond what you're doing. And he was honest about wishing to film and sell the footage for profit. No matter what my nether region might tell me is amusing, I have commonsense and didn't need to post myself on that site. It would come back to haunt me big time. Needless to say I said no. But the idea was appealing in all truth.

Which brings me to the here and now. In a perfect world or one filled with a commitment to lying to myself because I don't like the answer, I'd say no way. But the response is in deference to my station and I have some pretty fixed ideas about slavery, especially when it involves yours truly. I view film and photography along similar lines and I don't find either abhorrent. In fact, I'd go on to admit that it's unlikely I'd resist my owner in that manner. In my mind I've made the right choice in partner and selected someone that can make reasonable decisions that wouldn't compromise me in a negative fashion. The reason I enjoy questions such as these is because they present the what if that people really don't want to think about, but I prefer to face the music myself.

Much like you I've discovered that the discomfort and other feelings I assumed I'd have about revealing myself in that manner were overblown on my end. In fact, I found it more challenging to do so when clothed than when getting undressed. I'm not certain what that says about me, or perhaps it merely reflects that it hinges on who I'm doing it for and with. I think the latter rings true.

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RE: Filming/being filmed - 7/19/2010 2:16:04 PM

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Speaking of your past self, what was your prior screen name, OP? I could be mistaken, but your face is familiar, and it is from this source. I do not watch porn, so do not flatter yourself.

Oddly enough, you did not name your references.

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RE: Filming/being filmed - 7/19/2010 2:21:13 PM

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i've always been under this sn so i think You may be thinking of someone else, i'm not sure what you mean by references?

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RE: Filming/being filmed - 7/19/2010 2:29:33 PM

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Name such "films" (keep in mind, a "film" is a digital product, not an electronic broadcast) and the producer. Please feel free to include the copyright date. It would be wonderful if you could include which distributor is handling the product. After all, it is free publicity.

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RE: Filming/being filmed - 7/19/2010 2:35:19 PM

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*grins at LadyPact*

Maybe it was low budget home films. The sort you upload and stream. Unless the site produced them of course.

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RE: Filming/being filmed - 7/19/2010 2:51:04 PM

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His journal provides more details and this link where he states he can be seen at:

DeadlyDommes.com

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RE: Filming/being filmed - 7/19/2010 2:55:52 PM

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I do not see his face.

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RE: Filming/being filmed - 7/19/2010 3:03:37 PM

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That I don't know....only provided the link he has in his profile, I didn't go to check it out. Deadly Dommes are just not my thing if ya know what I mean...lol!

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RE: Filming/being filmed - 7/19/2010 3:13:12 PM

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Of course.

The OP can prove that is his ass....... or he can not.

The choice is his.

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RE: Filming/being filmed - 7/19/2010 3:14:12 PM

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I'm guessing you'd have to wade through from what I'm seeing on the site. But I like these girls!!! Thanks for the heads up erin.

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RE: Filming/being filmed - 7/19/2010 3:24:56 PM

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yes that is the site, i can assure you that most certainly my tush ;-). i realize that in 10,15,20 years i may looks back and think what was i thinking but you only go around once and i figured i might as well live for once in my life. i've always been the reserved type who always listened to the voice of reason in his head so for once in my life i decided to just "do" something. my original question stilll remains though.

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RE: Filming/being filmed - 7/19/2010 3:26:02 PM

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The OP could have provided his references from the beginning. The truth is, he did not.

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RE: Filming/being filmed - 7/19/2010 3:34:39 PM

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the reason i did not post the site in my initial question was i did not want to come off as advertising for the site, i clearly can be seen if you click on the members preview section that's me in the video.

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RE: Filming/being filmed - 7/19/2010 3:37:45 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: perfectflaw00

yes that is the site, i can assure you that most certainly my tush ;-). i realize that in 10,15,20 years i may looks back and think what was i thinking but you only go around once and i figured i might as well live for once in my life. i've always been the reserved type who always listened to the voice of reason in his head so for once in my life i decided to just "do" something. my original question stilll remains though.

As does Mine. Prove it is you. Post your contract. Put up your shots with the other actors/actresses. Show Me how I can buy the "film". Can a member of the cast or crew verify that it is you?

I will gladly apologize to you publicly on this forum if I am wrong. Unfortunately, you have shown no solid proof that I am so. The fault of being in doubt is your own.

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RE: Filming/being filmed - 7/19/2010 3:39:56 PM

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I have been contacted on the other side not to expose the OP as a liar and a fantasist. I will respect such a request.

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RE: Filming/being filmed - 7/19/2010 3:44:29 PM

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ummm i don't know what i did to tick you off to have to insult me but if you go to the members preview scene scroll to the end where there is the consensuality part you clearly can see that is me.

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RE: Filming/being filmed - 7/19/2010 3:53:45 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: perfectflaw00

ummm i don't know what i did to tick you off to have to insult me but if you go to the members preview scene scroll to the end where there is the consensuality part you clearly can see that is me.

It would probably be easier if you provided a link to the statement you're referencing. I didn't see it but I'll confess I'm pleasantly distracted watching clips.

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RE: Filming/being filmed - 7/19/2010 3:54:24 PM

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Prove it. Right here. I'm not stupid enough to go to a pay site.

You could have posted your contract. You did not.

Any other person on the film crew could have said you were telling the truth. They did not.

I have over 12,000 posts on this site. Each and every one, I can prove. Can you?

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Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

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