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First date.... eek.... - 7/15/2010 6:36:45 PM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		I have my first date with a new man on Sunday evening... eeeekkkkkk

Any pointers? I think I forgot how it is done...

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RE: First date.... eek.... - 7/15/2010 6:41:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		Wow, that is exactly how I felt a few months ago, it had been a long for me too.  All you can do is chill, do not project too much importance into a first date, and have fun.  And hope he does not ask for a straw for his beer!

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RE: First date.... eek.... - 7/15/2010 6:42:04 PM   
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RE: First date.... eek.... - 7/15/2010 6:42:32 PM   
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RE: First date.... eek.... - 7/15/2010 6:43:23 PM   
littlewonder


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Relax, Breathe
don't make it all about you. Show your interest in him (if you are interested that is)
Ask questions but dont' monopolize the conversation. Listen as well.

Good luck! I hope it works out for you.

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RE: First date.... eek.... - 7/15/2010 6:45:17 PM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		We have had a few phone conversations... he is not a "straw in the beer" kinda guy...And he contacted me here

He is kinda intimidating to me...lol... not in a bad way (and if he reads this I hope he takes it as a compliment)




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RE: First date.... eek.... - 7/15/2010 6:46:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		I am happy for you, I hope you both have a great time.    

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RE: First date.... eek.... - 7/15/2010 6:49:28 PM   
juliaoceania


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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

I am happy for you, I hope you both have a great time.    


I am due a good time, although it might be a little early for the blow job pointer from aileen...lol

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RE: First date.... eek.... - 7/15/2010 6:50:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		Nothing wrong with pacing yourself, you may be surprised.  Leave 'em guessing for a while.

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RE: First date.... eek.... - 7/15/2010 6:52:10 PM   
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RE: First date.... eek.... - 7/15/2010 6:52:38 PM   
juliaoceania


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RE: First date.... eek.... - 7/15/2010 6:53:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

Practice your blowjob techniques...


There's a technique other than trying to breathe through the gagging?

Have fun Julia. You'll be fine. Wear that shirt you did in your pic, you could have four arms and he wouldn't notice.

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RE: First date.... eek.... - 7/15/2010 6:59:35 PM   
juliaoceania


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Have fun Julia. You'll be fine. Wear that shirt you did in your pic, you could have four arms and he wouldn't notice.


Yeah, he emailed me when I had that pic up.....lol

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RE: First date.... eek.... - 7/15/2010 7:02:52 PM   
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< Message edited by WinsomeDefiance -- 7/15/2010 7:23:18 PM >

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RE: First date.... eek.... - 7/15/2010 7:13:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		1.  do not talk about exes- and past relationships

2.  do not get into baggage

3. keep the conversation pleasant- light and positive.


4. be sure to smile and speak from the diaphragm.

5.  a decent date should be where you can talk with out music being too loud.



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RE: First date.... eek.... - 7/15/2010 7:14:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		WinD is right, julia, you have a lot to offer, and you don't need to be anything other than yourself, that's plenty good enough.

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RE: First date.... eek.... - 7/15/2010 7:18:44 PM   
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RE: First date.... eek.... - 7/15/2010 7:40:49 PM   
juliaoceania


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ORIGINAL: Level

WinD is right, julia, you have a lot to offer, and you don't need to be anything other than yourself, that's plenty good enough.


thank you Level and Winnie

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RE: First date.... eek.... - 7/15/2010 7:40:49 PM   
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RE: First date.... eek.... - 7/15/2010 7:41:53 PM   
juliaoceania


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Tell the SOB that if he so much as touches you, he'll have the Dom mafia on cm to answer to!





What if it is consensual touching.....lol

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