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MLilith -> Training Suggestions (4/16/2006 12:48:38 PM)

Hi all.
I am not sure if this is the correct thread to post this into, but hopefully it will find its intended audience.

I'm delighted to have joined this site and have learned much through browsing the various threads. I have joined this forum as I am about to train my hubby. See I discovered his lust for panties and dressing up some time ago and now that I have accepted it, I want to train him to be a good sissy.

What I'm hoping for is an exchange of ideas from all about how I might help fulfill his (sorry her) desires. I will not lie and say I have experience as a dom, I simply do not hence my request for assistance. I would welcome any suggestions that you might have on humiliation, dressing, chastity, strap on play, roll reversal, bondage, discipline etc..

Limits I have is anything to do with permeant chastity, hormones, golden showers or scat.

I hope this is of interest to a few of you and that you will be willing to help me sissify my little one.

Lilith




Vancouver_cinful -> RE: Training Suggestions (4/16/2006 12:56:00 PM)

Welcome to the boards. We hear so often from husbands with wives who have completely shut off any communication about this desire. It's wonderful to see that there are people who are willing to expand their horizons for the one they love.

I know you'll find some great advice here. I'd check out the Ask A Mistress section, for sure. Lots of stuff on there about this subject, no doubt!

Enjoy the site,
Cin




KarbonCopy -> RE: Training Suggestions (4/16/2006 12:58:14 PM)

D20!





Proprietrix -> RE: Training Suggestions (4/16/2006 1:00:44 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Vancouver_cinful
We hear so often from husbands with wives who have completely shut off any communication about this desire. It's wonderful to see that there are people who are willing to expand their horizons for the one they love.


Second that!
I really don't have any advice to offer re: sissification, but a lot of Mistresses will have wonderful ideas to offer you.
I think it's great to see that you are open to your husband's desires. I wish you both the best of luck in your new journey together!!!




MLilith -> RE: Training Suggestions (4/16/2006 1:38:04 PM)

Thanks for the quick responses. Its nice to see.

Really I though about posting in the Mistress forum, but then Masters might have ideas of things they do to their female subs. Also Subs may have some suggestions, so rather than posting the same request in all threads, I though that it might be more suited here. I have studing the others though and have come up with some ideas.

All suggestions are welcome

Lilith




proudsub -> RE: Training Suggestions (4/16/2006 2:56:30 PM)

If you click "search" at the top of the page and put in "sissy" and change the options to topic and subject, you will find some threads that might help. Your husband if very lucky you are open to this, have fun with it.[:)]




TexasMaam -> RE: Training Suggestions (4/16/2006 8:45:35 PM)

I have no idea what items he already has in his sissy wardrobe, but the first step I take with a sub who's fond of CD is to send him shopping at the local department store. 

I take his measurements in advance so that I can send him to the appropriate size rack, and I tell him to go pick out something simple, perhaps a teddy, and a pair of inexpensive high heeled shoes in the Ladies Dept.  The only thing I insist on is that they either match or compliment in color.

He is to bring them to me, knowing full well he'll have to wear them, and he's directed to have already shaved his entire body, every wisp of hair, arms legs, balls, everywhere. (Yes, I know it'll itch later, heh heh heh)...

Once that's done, he's directed to meet Me and bring his 'pretties'.  I direct him to undress, set aside his 'manthings' and then put on his 'pretties' for Me.   I might hand him a raincoat and tell him to follow Me and we may go shopping at some department store nearby.

That's where I start. 

The rest generally follows as I'm inspired or inclined to experiment with until we both discover together what his limits are.

You'll find many resources online, many will be listed here in response to your post, no doubt, or you can search for keywords that will lead you to other recommendations from previous posts. 

Good luck, have fun.

TexasMaam 




crouchingtigress -> RE: Training Suggestions (4/16/2006 9:28:54 PM)

When a boy of mine serves in sissy clothes I have a rule the second the bra is snapped they are NEVER allowed to let their heels touch the ground from that moment till the moment it comes off!!
 
Also teaching poise and elocution is a great idea for a sissy , you know, books on the head, enunciating words properly, imagine you are at a finishing school and if he does really well you can reward him by painting his nails, or putting a pretty pink bow in his hair.[;)]




subden -> RE: Training Suggestions (4/16/2006 9:39:52 PM)

MLilith,
how may i ask You descovered "her" desire to be feminized?  did "she" ask You up front or did You find "her" in Your clothes?




MLilith -> RE: Training Suggestions (4/17/2006 10:22:23 AM)

Less that 24 hours since posting and there has been 4% response to the post. I guess thats not bad considering this might not be everybodies think.

TexasMaam, wonderful suggestions. I think that I might just have to try her out with that one. She does have a collection of panties, not many bras, a few dresses, skirts and very few tops. She has none of her own make up. I also have a large collection of strap ons, butt plugs, cuffs etc... that I have and will be using. I guess I should send her shopping for the missing items.

Subden, it was a collection of things that brough my attention to it. Simply her knowledge of smalls was a give away and finding her asleep one morning on a pair of mine was a dead give away. When I discussed it with her, she told me of her desires to be taken as my slut.

Lilith




crouchingtigress -> RE: Training Suggestions (4/17/2006 10:29:55 AM)

You rock. A great example of how love can work.




LadyArakney -> RE: Training Suggestions (4/17/2006 10:42:47 AM)

I prefer he learn to have an appreciation for his "delicates" or "pretties" (as TexasMaam so nicely called them).   he is to research and learn what to use to launder his delicates and how to do so.  he is told to go and purchase the right products, as well as sachets and a special container to store them in, as well as tissue paper to make sure they get wrapped in it.    
   A demo of  a piece of tissue paper hung up and struck by a singletail to show it's tearability is a good way to teach him how to carefully handle tissue paper as well.  haha




MLilith -> RE: Training Suggestions (4/17/2006 1:36:08 PM)

Thanks for the complement!




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