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Effect of applying ice on the body before spanking - 7/11/2010 1:44:14 AM

goodblueboy

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I have question about using ice on the place of spanking and the effect on bruises.

Few months ago after having a session with a lovely dominatrix, I got a lot of bruises on my bottom which took two months to heal. I found that using ice on the bruises helps them to go away faster.

Also I know that rubbing body (e.g bottom) with ice before spanking make the hitting much more painful. I wonder what the impact will be on the potential bruises.

If a cold bottom get much less bruises as result of spanking then it is an effective technique for spanking (at least for some of us that mind having marks). This way the mistress can punish the submissive harder and less worries about marks.

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RE: Effect of applying ice on the body before spanking - 7/11/2010 1:46:02 AM

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If you don't want her to leave marks, then why don't you tell her this?

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RE: Effect of applying ice on the body before spanking - 7/11/2010 1:49:36 AM

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That's what we did in the next session. But it limits her in the level she can punish me and push me.

She used ice on me a bit after the spanking.

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RE: Effect of applying ice on the body before spanking - 7/11/2010 2:33:32 AM

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two MONTHS holy crap!! - what did she use a baseball bat with studs

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RE: Effect of applying ice on the body before spanking - 7/11/2010 2:46:38 AM

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Maybe I'm being ignorant here, but bruises taking a month to go away seem excessive to me. I would make a sub of mine go to the doctor (after bruises were gone for discretion) and tell him that when bruised, it takes a month to go away and see if bloodwork is needed.

I have not left bruising, though I spend a lot of time spanking or using a paddle or hairbrush...because I do a long, slow warmup before getting more ouchie. I like it to last. Somtimes I trail some ice over the hot pink skin just to hear the gasping and watch the water trickle down. Using ice too long can damage tissue, making them more vulnerable to impact related injuries.

Why not use the Search feature in the message boards (look to the upper right where there's a row of flags, over the first flag is Search), and type bruise, or care of bruises, and see what comes up...maybe under Health And Safety.

When I've tested impacts on myself before doing them to any sub, I've gotten large bruising, and I preferred to make it spread out more within my tissues with a long, very hot bath. After the first day, I would alternate between a heating pad, about 15 minutes, and a bag of frozen peas wrapped in a towel, for about 15 minutes. I don't know where my first aid book is to be sure of what they recommend, but this worked for me and bruises the size of grapefruits were gone somewhere between 5-7 days.

One time when I took a major fall and had a whopping bruise, the doctor told me to NOT massage the area, and do not do a lot of exercize or I could break up clotting and maybe have a problem from that.

Read up, learn...if your healing time is way beyond normal then see your doctor. You may have a vitamin deficiency or something that would be easily fixed.

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RE: Effect of applying ice on the body before spanking - 7/11/2010 3:27:56 AM

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Oh I am really sorry, that's was a mistake. I meant to weeks.

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RE: Effect of applying ice on the body before spanking - 7/11/2010 8:27:37 AM

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Thought so! Mistakes happen huh?

You two should use Aloe Vera lotion it really takes away bruises and welts faster as well as eases the surface pain, right away.

But a good bottom spanking should stay with you thru several days esp when you sit. As always becareful in your play or have a good story that the Medical people might buy!

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RE: Effect of applying ice on the body before spanking - 7/11/2010 8:33:59 AM

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quote:

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Thought so! Mistakes happen huh? You two should use Aloe Vera lotion it really takes away bruises and welts faster as well as eases the surface pain, right away.

But a good bottom spanking should stay with you thru several days esp when you sit. As always becareful in your play or have a good story that the Medical people might buy!

Or, like me, be honest with your medical professional about the cause of the bruising.

As a medical professional myself, I can tell you we are good at seeing through "stories".

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RE: Effect of applying ice on the body before spanking - 7/11/2010 10:27:55 AM

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The use of Ice will reverse the Bruising Process.... If done before the welts show it might slow them considerably and never peak at Black and Blue.

The reason it hurts more when you use ice before is it closes up all the Pores in your Bottom, by doing this it actually increases the surface area literally giving you more butt to Hurt.

I want to make something clear, I have said this NUMEROUS times.

If you don't like or want Bruises and your Top Does, YOU WILL NEVER BE HAPPY unless one of you changes their minds.

I am a Bruiser, If I do it in such a way that it does not bruise I am Pulling all my punches and feel like a Service Top, and one who isn't having any fun at that.

It's a Butt and usually it is hidden. Ice every day after a Scene and you can make them go away in a matter of days, sometimes hours.

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RE: Effect of applying ice on the body before spanking - 7/11/2010 10:57:04 AM

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I don't know about ice, but I use arnica gel on my bruises. It's an herbal remedy and relieves pain in addition to helping the bruises heal faster. It's available at health food stores.

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RE: Effect of applying ice on the body before spanking - 7/12/2010 3:38:41 AM

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I have used Arnica gel and indeed it is helpful.

Also putting banana leaves on the bruises over night helps a lot for more serious bruises. I tried it personally and helped to make bruises go away faster.

I am still interested in applying ice before the spanking. My mistress and I both interested in a painful spanking, but bruises is something for me to avoid, and she accepts my limit.

Has any one tried to apply cold things on the body before spanking.
Also I know this makes bastinado (spanking on feet) very painful.

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RE: Effect of applying ice on the body before spanking - 7/12/2010 6:27:33 PM

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CWV, I've had bruises take a month to go away a few times, mostly from canes, and I know several other people who have needed a similar time-frame to finish healing. Two months would worry me a bit, though. Arnica gel (if the skin is not broken) or witch hazel applied afterward can help reduce bruising. I don't think ice beforehand would make any difference.

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RE: Effect of applying ice on the body before spanking - 7/13/2010 1:31:56 PM

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I've had cropped bruised boobies that took 2 months to heal, despite ice, aloe, and banana peels. Looking at me too hard can leave a bruise that lasts for 2 weeks. Healing time is hihgly variable, as is markability.

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RE: Effect of applying ice on the body before spanking - 7/13/2010 3:58:03 PM

CynthiaWVirginia

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goodblueboy, QSM answered your question well about the ice, so I'll say this instead.

Have you ever been beaten while your skin is wet?
<wide evil grin>

Bruising is so lovely it's a shame to make it go away faster. My favorite color is purple...

Good luck with this and I hope you come back to this thread and let me know the results.

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RE: Effect of applying ice on the body before spanking - 7/14/2010 3:38:21 PM

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On a parallel questions...what affects would putting icyhot type cream on, between warm up and before harder stuff? Any? I know the pain is worse, but the accidental bit that got on the groin ended that session pretty quick. Does it make bruising or welts worse? I wouldn't want to affect physically, just pain amount.

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RE: Effect of applying ice on the body before spanking - 7/14/2010 9:19:21 PM

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applying a ice pack prior to and following the play will reduce the bleeding that causes the bruises. also after 24 hours a hot pad will speed the dissipation of the bruise.

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RE: Effect of applying ice on the body before spanking - 7/14/2010 11:55:34 PM

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well you could could try putting on rubbing alcohol and having you dom use some sort of whip or crop that emits a spark...

er wait...never mind i see what your getting at.

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