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Focus50 -> RE: Question about TPE (7/1/2010 5:36:38 AM)
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ORIGINAL: CallaFirestormBW
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I just find it too hard to believe that 2 adults sharing an intimate relationship don't occasionally discuss the weather or an upcoming event, for eg, as equal, sentient beings....
It does, Focus -- even in full-authority based relationships. Heck, I have philosophical conversations every single -day- with my servants where we disagree on certain points and debate them to a draw... but at the end of the day, when the time comes to make decisions about life, for my servants who have chosen to yield to me, those eyes look at -me- for the final word... in everything from makeup to supper choices to which toilet paper to buy for the bathroom... and that is the essence of "TPE"... and, for the OP, many of our servants do not live with us full-time. For those, we have a plan that is provided for them, which we use to facilitate management of their lives when they're not in the physical presence of the House or its Keepers. To us, it is the focus of the servant, and whether that servant has genuinely yielded authority that determines whether a situation is "TPE" (or, for us, "full-authority dynamic") or not.
Ummm, what "does"? lol
But otherwise, yeah, I don't have general servants but I do enjoy philosophical conversation (including differences) with the girl as equals. I regard that as her fulfilling all that I desire and expect of my slave; to be and make available ALL of her gifts. It's also why I don't necessarily embrace TPE beyond the reality that the relationship's TPE anytime I *need* it to be.
Focus.
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