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Do you think there has been any luck purely sex driven ... - 6/27/2010 8:05:25 AM   
MissAsylum


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Status: offline 		I have been wondering about this for the LONGEST time. No matter what your BDSM orientation, we all at some point or another have gotten messages that are...kinda weird. They don't relate to our interests in any way, are blatent proof that the sender didn't bother to read your profile, and can be pretty disturbing in some cases.

A recent message that I absolutely CANNOT get out of my mind was a sender who asked me to make him eat dog feces in front of other FemDommes, fist his ass with a pair of my most expensive shoes, and to put the cherry on top, asked me to milk him 5 times daily and in the event that he can't reach his quota, i would force him to clean his penis with a pot of my boiled urine.



Not saying it has to be like the message i had just recieved or anything, but do you think these people have had any success in carrying out these types of wants?

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RE: Do you think there has been any luck purely sex dri... - 6/27/2010 8:10:53 AM   
masmiss


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Status: offline 		I've gotten some pretty bizarre messages and have come the conclusion that the sender is an asshole with nothing better to do than to attempt to get a reaction from women on a kink website. 

These guys would run a million miles in the opposite direction if a woman actually said, "sure, let's do it". LOL




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RE: Do you think there has been any luck purely sex dri... - 6/27/2010 8:14:00 AM   
MissAsylum


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ORIGINAL: masmiss


These guys would run a million miles in the opposite direction if a woman actually said, "sure, let's do it". LOL






i've thought about doing that- but it would be my luck to get the person who was 100% serious about it.

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RE: Do you think there has been any luck purely sex dri... - 6/27/2010 9:28:08 AM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		those types of messages have nothing to do with their kink.

It's a way for them to get you to do what you just did now..pay attention to them.

It's shock value entertainment, nothing more.

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RE: Do you think there has been any luck purely sex dri... - 6/27/2010 9:32:25 AM   
LadyAngelika


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quote:

but do you think these people have had any success in carrying out these types of wants?


It's like the guy who hits on every girl in the bar with the same cheesy pick up line. He is playing the odds game that all he needs is one woman to say yes.

That said, I agree with littlewonder that he might also be looking for shock value, or to have someone engage him in simply an email exchange about it for wank fodder but not really want to do through with it if extreme.

The block sender button really is a nifty feature here on CM ;-)

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RE: Do you think there has been any luck purely sex dri... - 6/27/2010 9:51:31 AM   
81song


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Status: offline 		It very well might be a shock value but after reading your post it was like a wow with my coffee. But it might be in "real" it could be another story. The difference with real and what is in one's mind could be miles apart. When one is at the foot of a Domme in real it's another head space. But when one writes to a top or a bottom one should be respectful first and fore most!

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RE: Do you think there has been any luck purely sex dri... - 6/27/2010 9:55:28 AM   
MissAsylum


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Status: offline 		as much as I appriciate your input LA, my post isn't asking why they send these message, or what to do if i get these messages.

that's painfully obvious what the solution would be.

since i can't assume that everybody who is sending me one of those messgase is in it purely for the shock value- i am curious about those who are genuinely into these...interests... and if they have had any luck in finding somebody who would do what they are asking for.



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RE: Do you think there has been any luck purely sex dri... - 6/27/2010 10:00:54 AM   
LadyAngelika


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Status: offline 		Yes and I answered your question.

They are playing an odds game. The odds are that they'll probably find someone eventually, even if one in a billion.

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RE: Do you think there has been any luck purely sex dri... - 6/27/2010 11:11:31 AM   
afkarr


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Status: offline 		Anybody who might remotely be a female gets contacted by virtually every stripe of critter under the sun eventually. I get messages from dommes, Doms, sub/slave men, couples on a routine basis- and I'm not actively seeking any of the above, have no interest in any of them, and specifically say I am not looking. Doesn't matter, I have girly bits and they either think they want pics of them, or want to IM.

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RE: Do you think there has been any luck purely sex dri... - 6/27/2010 11:24:13 AM   
Nineveh


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Status: offline 		I've seen some very intense profiles of subs/slaves on here.  Looking to be abducted, sold off to Mexican brothels, or butchered.  I've messaged a few, they never message back.  (could be because a happily married man with a child is not likely to be able to give them what they are looking for)

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RE: Do you think there has been any luck purely sex dri... - 6/27/2010 11:36:23 AM   
Whiplashsmile4


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Status: offline 		Some people do have luck with purely sex driven fantasies.

However, the kind of stuff that's in the Opening Post is more along the lines of SHOCK Value. Perhaps some of the things people share is for a SQUICK out factor.

People tend to have better luck with fantasies that are more realistic. :-)





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RE: Do you think there has been any luck purely sex dri... - 6/27/2010 11:38:55 AM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		I don't think these people with such extreme profiles are into these things. I think they stumble across this website, theyr'e bored and figure they'll have a little roleplay online fun. It's kinda like people who play SIMS or Second City online. They make outrageous extreme characters and play out a game. Their profile is their character.

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RE: Do you think there has been any luck purely sex dri... - 6/27/2010 11:50:43 AM   
LadyCimarron


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Status: offline 		Yes. We all get the bizarros. It goes with the territory, honey.
But quite frankly I think its way over the top to ask any woman to mess up her most expensive pair of shoes.

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RE: Do you think there has been any luck purely sex dri... - 6/27/2010 11:55:06 AM   
DarlingSavage


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissAsylum


A recent message that I absolutely CANNOT get out of my mind was a sender who asked me to make him eat dog feces in front of other FemDommes, fist his ass with a pair of my most expensive shoes, and to put the cherry on top, asked me to milk him 5 times daily and in the event that he can't reach his quota, i would force him to clean his penis with a pot of my boiled urine.




It's stuff like this that makes me glad I'm not a Domme.  Good lord!  I thought it was bad the stuff us subs got from the wierdos. 


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RE: Do you think there has been any luck purely sex dri... - 6/27/2010 12:34:53 PM   
HisEvelyn


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Status: offline 		Wow. Just... wow. I've gotten some interesting requests, but that really takes the cake.

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RE: Do you think there has been any luck purely sex dri... - 6/27/2010 1:08:11 PM   
MissAsylum


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyCimarron

Yes. We all get the bizarros. It goes with the territory, honey.
But quite frankly I think its way over the top to ask any woman to mess up her most expensive pair of shoes.


For some reason, that was the part that stuck out to me the most. I would never get my Louboutin's dirty for anybody, much less shove them up somebody's ass.

quote:

ORIGINAL: DarlingSavage

It's stuff like this that makes me glad I'm not a Domme. Good lord! I thought it was bad the stuff us subs got from the wierdos.




i actually though you guys get the worst stuff. I figured that becuase some people identify as a Dom/me or a Top, the would think it would give them free range to come up with some really vile and crazy stuff. But that's another forum topic all together.

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RE: Do you think there has been any luck purely sex dri... - 6/27/2010 4:17:50 PM   
IronBear


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Status: offline 		Both Neets and I get quite a few regularly on our respective profile messages. We use pretrty much the same response:

  1. Tell them to read our profile before further contacting us.
  2. Block & Delete
Most are good for a laugh even the ones who are asking for kinky sex. Usually I tell them that if they actually read my profile they'd see that I live In Australia and that I will not pay for someone to come here.


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RE: Do you think there has been any luck purely sex dri... - 6/27/2010 6:52:19 PM   
MissAsylum


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Status: offline 		i actually love the ones that don't read my profile.

they get all pissy when i call them out on it.

i have my fun, then i block.

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RE: Do you think there has been any luck purely sex dri... - 6/27/2010 7:24:38 PM   
Rochsub2009


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ORIGINAL: MissAsylum

A recent message that I absolutely CANNOT get out of my mind was a sender who asked me to make him eat dog feces in front of other FemDommes, fist his ass with a pair of my most expensive shoes, and to put the cherry on top, asked me to milk him 5 times daily and in the event that he can't reach his quota, i would force him to clean his penis with a pot of my boiled urine.



Darn MissAsylum!  I thought that was between you and me.  You didn't have to tell everyone about my little fantasy.   

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RE: Do you think there has been any luck purely sex dri... - 6/27/2010 10:36:36 PM   
DarlingSavage


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quote:

i actually though you guys get the worst stuff. I figured that becuase some people identify as a Dom/me or a Top, the would think it would give them free range to come up with some really vile and crazy stuff. But that's another forum topic all together.


Well, you're wrong.  I've seen what some of those sub boys come up with in posts.  No thank you! 


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