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RE: Suggestion for better community - 6/26/2010 5:08:27 PM

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I want a cookie, please.

The Carr's Lemon Ginger Creme seem to have magically disappeared. *glares at Steven*

Mmmmmfffff???

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RE: Suggestion for better community - 6/26/2010 5:17:31 PM

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You know, I went to a club last night. I didn't like the music in the beginning. One of my friends told me to go make a request.

My response was that since I had never been there before, I ought to sit back and see how things are done before criticizing or asking to change things. About an hour later, they broke out the real dance music and everyone was jumping and twirling and shaking their money makers and such. How would I have looked if ten minutes into being there I went up to the d.j. and whined about his taste in music?

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RE: Suggestion for better community - 6/26/2010 5:28:14 PM

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Dude they already have a filter.

You can hide user on their profile. Click that little button and you'll never see their profile again.

You can also block and delete their emails and there's this amazing thing you can do all by yourself...ignore them.

I believe what the OP was asking for was that proDomme be a separate category from Mistress, and that money slave be a separate category from sub or slave.

Not really deserving the flames he got for it, in my opinion. He wasn't talking about scammers or anything, just letting those who are looking for financial trnsactions be segregated. For their benefit as well as everyone else's.

again, if you see one asking for money, just pass it by. For some subs and dommes money transactions is a fetish just like any other fetish. I see prodoms on my list everyday. I just click on the next profile. It's not that big a deal to do. it's just a click. Is it REALLY that disturbing to see these profiles? Seriously, is it? I mean I just don't see the big deal. lol

I don't perv for Dommes, so I don't know. However considering how many comments like this I have seen they do appear to be a significant portion of the Dommes on the site.

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RE: Suggestion for better community - 6/26/2010 6:24:35 PM

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*takes one of each*

Thanks.

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RE: Suggestion for better community - 6/27/2010 7:50:12 AM

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I love this site. I have been a member off and on for 6 years. Both lurking and participating.
What was your old screen name?

I have noticed in the recent years particularly, there have been a lot of female dominants that have focused more on putting in their profiles that they are MoneySlave seekers and also Pro-Dominant.
I haven't noticed that, but I have noticed a lot more people bitching about it.

I don't have any issues with this, but can there please be a selection in profiles creation area on the site that gives you the option to check "Prodomme" or "Money Slaves"
Well obviously you do have issues with it, or you would not have started a thread about it

If we are looking for you, we want to be able to find you.
Likewise if we aren't then we'd like to have a filter so we can search past that criteria.
It has been suggested before, but apparently the owners of the site disagree. Maybe one day they will change that.

Some people don't appreciate the fake games, yahoo com soliciting and want to just join a fun lifestyle and meet others without having to waste hours on people playing games or having to search a profile only to find out they are charging for a service.
Well then, ignore the profiles you feel are fake and concentrate on the real ones.

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RE: Suggestion for better community - 6/27/2010 7:53:43 AM

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OP makes a sensible suggestion for straightforward improvement to the site. I wonder what the forums response will be.

Considering how many times the same suggestion has been made, I would say the responses will be about the same.

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RE: Suggestion for better community - 6/27/2010 8:03:39 AM

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OP There are filters in place both in your mail and in how we view profiles. If you come across a prodomme, money slave or anyone for that matter that you don't want to see again simply "hide" their profile. Walla they disappear. They no longer exist in YOUR world. Its awhole lot easier than the techs and staff rewriting code and redoing stuff.

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RE: Suggestion for better community - 6/27/2010 10:16:10 AM

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Thank you all for your suggestions. I do know how to block and how to hide profiles. The point I am trying to make is that some of the dommes DO NOT say this in their profile and then once you are contacted, or you contact them, they tell you. Just a waste of time IMO. I was offering a suggestion for better control of the filtering process.

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RE: Suggestion for better community - 6/27/2010 12:14:17 PM

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Thank you all for your suggestions. I do know how to block and how to hide profiles. The point I am trying to make is that some of the dommes DO NOT say this in their profile and then once you are contacted, or you contact them, they tell you. Just a waste of time IMO. I was offering a suggestion for better control of the filtering process.

a new section wouldn't help in that case anyways as if they aren't putting it in their profile they aren't going to classify themselves that way either.

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RE: Suggestion for better community - 6/27/2010 12:48:42 PM

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And therefore they are not professional dominant's, but scammers. No filtering system could filter out what they don't admit to. It is up to us to be aware and adult.

And I am thankful this site is still free!

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RE: Suggestion for better community - 6/27/2010 1:50:45 PM

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I am curious about what constitutes a waste of time. If I say hello to someone has that put a hardship on me in some way? If I engage someone in a conversation about how hot it is outside as I wait in the checkout lane with them, have I somehow used up the amount of verbage I am alloted per day? If I write to my x and let him know how my life is going, even though we only see each other once very few years, is it a waste of my time?

I think if I were a male bottom and a female dominant contacted me the first thing I would ask is, are you a pro or are you looking for a lifemate.
If I were a male bottom and I wrote to someone in hopes of finding a connection I would ask them if they were seeking a lifemate.
I would seriously view their profile to see if there were things in there that sparked MY interest beyond the obvious sexual stuff. And I would put something in my letter to let them know I had viewed their profile.

Ok.. that done, I move on. If they answer fine. If not, that is my answer.

Takes very little time out of my day and no money at all to drop an email. What is the hardship?

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Thank you all for your suggestions. I do know how to block and how to hide profiles. The point I am trying to make is that some of the dommes DO NOT say this in their profile and then once you are contacted, or you contact them, they tell you. Just a waste of time IMO. I was offering a suggestion for better control of the filtering process.

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