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Hi everyone English lad and Norweigen girl looking for ... - 6/17/2010 5:39:46 PM

EnglishBoy20yrs

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Hi all you may have read this type of post a million times and not seen your gratification solved by it so you close it...fair enough

I am here on behalf of me and my girlfriend who are looking into spicing up our sex lives with a bit of light bondage and light dom/sub. we are both complete novices in life and sex compared to you lot...!!! im asking for any advice on a personal level in how we can do this.. (ive read online guides and stuff but they dont give very examples of personal opinions)

As a bit of background my name is tobias im 20 yrs old living in northern england(writing this post from COLD Sao Paulo Brazil!!!!) and my girlfriend is called Birgit 23yrs old living in egland with me.. as is apparent we are both young and need a wide range range of people just to chip in and give a bit of your opinion. I am a car salesman and birgit (B) is a veternary nurse we both arnt into anal, watersports or pain(maybe a little)

What would you fine people recomend ?

Thanks

T&B xx

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RE: Hi everyone English lad and Norweigen girl looking ... - 6/17/2010 7:03:58 PM

DarkSteven

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First thing I can tell you is to communicate. If she loves something and you can't stand it (or the other way around), you need to make that clear. You're both exploring.

Second thing is to meet people. If there's a group nearby, meet up with them. Atend play parties, watch, and learn.

Third: there's a book list on ResidentSadist's sig line that could be helpful. http://www.collarchat.com/m_1726118/tm.htm

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RE: Hi everyone English lad and Norweigen girl looking ... - 6/18/2010 9:43:19 AM

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Hiya! Seduction of this sort is best done slowly and safely, of course. Silk ties and a bit of naughty silk knickers in the mouth as a gag is fun without being scary. Sensory deprivation is my favorite, as you can just use a blindfold and ear plugs. This will heighten the sensation of touch. Keep in touch and dont feel shy about broadcasting on here what you find works for you.

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RE: Hi everyone English lad and Norweigen girl looking ... - 6/18/2010 10:55:09 AM

EnglishBoy20yrs

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Thanks for all your help so far..... ive purchased an under bed restraints kit from lovehoney.co.uk the reviews are great so i cant wait to get back to england on tues and for us to experiment. http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2444

have to dash but will post again later

thanks

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RE: Hi everyone English lad and Norweigen girl looking ... - 6/19/2010 1:31:37 PM

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RE: Hi everyone English lad and Norweigen girl looking ... - 6/20/2010 11:01:18 AM

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welcome and have fun!~jewels

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