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RE: Milkin it! - 6/13/2010 8:30:23 AM   
ReginaMirus


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Status: offline 		OP, do you know the difference between top/bottom and dominance/submission? Or are those two terms one and the same for you?

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RE: Milkin it! - 6/13/2010 8:30:49 AM   
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Status: offline 		My doctor says my prostate is small and soft.


No milking occurred during the exam.

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RE: Milkin it! - 6/13/2010 8:31:32 AM   
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I mean, I have drawn a lot of parallels between being a deep tissue massage therapist and dominanting. I give people good pain and have to use my knowlege and instinct to know how far to go without going too far. I know my stuff and have a great deal of confidence in my craft.


My massage therapist, who I have been incidentally been seeing for 12 years, often jokes around about being a Dominatrix. As far as I know, she doesn't know about my proclivities. Let me tell you, when she gets down to working out some of the kinks in my back, it can be quite painful. When I had pain with my sciatica for a while (thank goodness I resolved this), she could bring me to tears with some of the work she did to work it out.

But that said, there was never a moment while I was on that table where I felt submissive. I could abandon myself to a certain degree because I trusted her, but I know that she was providing me with a service. Simply.

Now as far whether or not acts are dominant or submissive, this issue is one of great debate often times in FemDomme relationships. I formed my opinion on this issue quite early on however and I am resolved in that don't see anything that I order a man to do to me as an act where he will be dominating me.

This sums it up quite perfectly for me.

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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth
there is only one "submissive act"...submitting.

how is just one of the details.


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RE: Milkin it! - 6/13/2010 8:32:13 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

My doctor says my prostate is small and soft.


No milking occurred during the exam.


Was... was he trying? Because if he was, damn, give me his phone number.


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RE: Milkin it! - 6/13/2010 8:32:21 AM   
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Well people submit to me all the times. They get on my massage table without knowing me, naked and trusting that I will give them the experience they desire. But perhaps that doesnt make a submissive? Or does it?


that would depend upon your definition of what makes you "a submissive"...it certainly isn't this slave's place to label you according to her personal perception or experience with submission.
what takes place during the performance of your job might or might not have anything or everything to do with how you perceive and experience submission. for this slave, submitting to another under specific terms of employment or in the context of a relationship, is still submitting.

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RE: Milkin it! - 6/13/2010 9:09:04 AM   
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Status: offline 		I give massage too, but the only power I feel from it is focus. It allows me to focus because it is giving me open space on which to think while giving someone else relief. I never think of it as topping but I can see how some might. And I had the chance to stimulate someones prostate once but it was on orders, under his direction and with his coaching, no part of that was topping for me.
I think it is all in how you percieve it.

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RE: Milkin it! - 6/13/2010 9:15:56 AM   
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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

I gve a scalp massage with salt scrub shampoo and a neck and shoulder massage with aromatherapy balm before moving to the prostate!



Okay I don't have a prostate, but can we do this part??

And DUH Lushy, you know there are no inherently submissive actions! What a slutmonkey you gots!! You GO grrrl!

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RE: Milkin it! - 6/13/2010 10:41:22 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ReginaMirus

OP, do you know the difference between top/bottom and dominance/submission? Or are those two terms one and the same for you?


I do not see them as the same. I have bottomed without an ounce of submission. I see submission as a mental and emotional elements. Bottoming are the motions.

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RE: Milkin it! - 6/13/2010 10:46:58 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus


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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

I gve a scalp massage with salt scrub shampoo and a neck and shoulder massage with aromatherapy balm before moving to the prostate!



Okay I don't have a prostate, but can we do this part??

And DUH Lushy, you know there are no inherently submissive actions! What a slutmonkey you gots!! You GO grrrl!


But afterwards when he came to.He said he was my love slave. Does this make him sub????

I normally get turned off by male submissiveness. During the whole thing when I was feeling toppy, I actually had a hankering to put a collar on him. Is that bad?

He is very dominant and very alpha male.



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RE: Milkin it! - 6/13/2010 11:04:15 AM   
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Status: offline 		P.S.  this all kinda tongue and cheek and perhaps it may belong in P&S. I know some people like reginamirus dont know me and perhaps would think I am more inexperienced than  I am.

I am a little suprized that all the Dommes say this is not a submissive act. I expected a few to say it was and some to say no. I see it mentioned so much in the Mistress threads.

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RE: Milkin it! - 6/13/2010 11:27:13 AM   
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Status: offline 		When we are all domly and do the prostate thing it's a part of either tease and denial, or a chastity thing.

Unless you're me, and you want the top of the man's head to come off so you can LAUGH. I love watching men come!!! They ARE our little love slaves, until they wake up!!

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RE: Milkin it! - 6/13/2010 11:29:39 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

When we are all domly and do the prostate thing it's a part of either tease and denial, or a chastity thing.

Unless you're me, and you want the top of the man's head to come off so you can LAUGH. I love watching men come!!! They ARE our little love slaves, until they wake up!!


Ok. I see the difference now. You're mean to want to laugh at them. Im a good girl and you're a Dommely humiliator! But I lubs ya!

< Message edited by lusciouslips19 -- 6/13/2010 11:30:26 AM >

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RE: Milkin it! - 6/13/2010 11:31:38 AM   
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RE: Milkin it! - 6/13/2010 11:43:20 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

there is only one "submissive act"...submitting.

how is just one of the details.

Totally agreed!

luci

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RE: Milkin it! - 6/13/2010 12:03:37 PM   
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RE: Milkin it! - 6/13/2010 12:41:48 PM   
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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

P.S.  this all kinda tongue and cheek and perhaps it may belong in P&S. I know some people like reginamirus dont know me and perhaps would think I am more inexperienced than  I am.

I am a little suprized that all the Dommes say this is not a submissive act. I expected a few to say it was and some to say no. I see it mentioned so much in the Mistress threads.


That's  a slightly different type of milking. As someone said above, milking can also mean, theoretically, draining off semen/prostate fluid without achieving orgasm.

Really though it does still come down to intent and who remains in control.

What would happen if you followed through on that impulse to throw the collar on him?

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RE: Milkin it! - 6/13/2010 12:48:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		We'ld laugh and joke and then there would be some pinning down and hair pulling whilst he has his way with me.

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RE: Milkin it! - 6/13/2010 4:52:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: lally2

ok, call me naive but what exactly is milking the prostate and how do you do it, ive seen people mention it before and sort of wondered but never really cared enough to find out, but since youve brought the topic up lushy i have to ask.


Never had it done to me or done it, but I do know that if a bloke is having propolems in orgasming, a finger rammed up his coit will or can give him the weeeee haaaaa yahoooo gawd almighty orgasm and blow everything if not his brains out of his tallyhwacker. perhaps his lady partner needs some form of insurance to cover her for this 

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RE: Milkin it! - 7/10/2010 11:31:08 AM   
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Status: offline 		The purpose of milking is to allow the slave to ejaculate without an orgasm. Milking seems to produce more ejaculate than being allowed to come. slave has been milked over a saucer and then ordered to lick it clean

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