Aileen1968
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Joined: 12/12/2007 From: I miss Shore, New Jersey Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968 Actually...those discretionary items are there so that he won't ever have to rely on the government to "take care" of him. It's called being proactive and being responsible for oneself. Perhaps if more people had that attitude instead of expecting the government to feed, clothe, and provide for them we wouldn't be in such a mess. edited to add....he most certainly doesn't need me to defend his words. But this kind of made me angry to read your response. It is really up to no one other than one's self to support themselves. He is working towards supporting himself. But dont use that money as a reason to claim you dont bring that money home. It isnt going to the government, it isnt going to charities, its going into his pocket, either now or in the future. Its a huge difference. The gist of his post wasn't to complain, but to show that it's not unusual for large chunks of money to come out of a paycheck. Some we have no choice in, some we do. Please don't even try to go down the road of hinting that to be proactive in one's future by funding stocks and 401's and taking care of insurance...life, accident, etc. should be frowned on. I'm still a believer in the old fashioned American way of working hard for things in life and not expecting a handout or for anyone to take care of me.
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