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RE: Deeply in Love with Master - 5/1/2010 1:38:41 PM

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Love has changed some dynamics sometimes, it's foolish to say love never would change things. And if the change wasn't what you wanted, then I would indeed say the dynamic was ruined. Or at least derailed short term if you could get it back on track.

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RE: Deeply in Love with Master - 5/1/2010 1:48:59 PM

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i totally agree ,,
i need to love in order to surrender ,, and i need to know that i am loved too ,,

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RE: Deeply in Love with Master - 5/1/2010 2:18:06 PM

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For me, its having the D/s without the love that is hard to do.

Exactly ... not impossible to do ... but hard (for me anyway).

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RE: Deeply in Love with Master - 5/1/2010 2:20:32 PM

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You CAN have D/s and love at the same time. It's actually damn nice when things fall together like that.

AGREED!!!

Agreed as well!

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RE: Deeply in Love with Master - 5/1/2010 2:22:52 PM

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For me, its having the D/s without the love that is hard to do.

This is also very true for me as well. I used to be able to, but I haven't for the last 5 years or so.

The deeper the feelings I have for a man, the more wicked things I want to do him.

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RE: Deeply in Love with Master - 5/1/2010 2:28:02 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

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You CAN have D/s and love at the same time. It's actually damn nice when things fall together like that.

AGREED!!!

Agreed as well!

- LA

*AMEN* to this. There's no substitute for loving feelings as the basis for this stuff. That's why I don't dig casual play with people I haven't gotten to know and care about. I've been spoiled rotten on the very best..

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RE: Deeply in Love with Master - 5/1/2010 3:44:25 PM

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I know he does love me but i don't want being lovers to spoil the dynamic of a great s/D relationship.

What I wonder is why you think love would spoil your dynamic that you have?

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RE: Deeply in Love with Master - 5/1/2010 7:24:57 PM

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Add me to the lengthy list of posters that have love and D/s intertwined and it works exceedingly well for us.

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RE: Deeply in Love with Master - 5/1/2010 10:08:21 PM

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Just like you followed your intuition when you made the decision to become a slave, you should follow your intuition when it comes to love. Love cannot harm any type of relationship, it can only make it stronger if it's true. I know it sounds cheesy, but it's the truth. There's nothing that says love can only be vanilla. I don't think I would be as good of a slave if I did not have the love that I do with my Master.

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RE: Deeply in Love with Master - 5/1/2010 10:36:05 PM

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i have fallen deeply in love with him. i am not sure if this is a good thing or not.. He is a very kind Master but i have no desire to turn our s/D relationship into a vanilla one. i love to serve him and take his punnishment gracefully, He has once mentioned the L word and I know he does love me but i don't want being lovers to spoil the dynamic of a great s/D relationship.

Oh my. It saddens me that you think love will automatically spoil a D/s relationship. my Dominant and i were so very deeply in love and we also had a wonderful D/s relationship. Then He died almost seven months ago. i can only hope and pray that i find another Dominant Man to have another such wonderful relationship with. Love does not have to ruin a fantastic relationship, it can actually enhance it when you have "the whole package."

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