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Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: Deeply in Love with Master (5/1/2010 1:38:41 PM)

Love has changed some dynamics sometimes, it's foolish to say love never would change things. And if the change wasn't what you wanted, then I would indeed say the dynamic was ruined. Or at least derailed short term if you could get it back on track.
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ORIGINAL: reynardfox

Love never ruined anything.




elleX -> RE: Deeply in Love with Master (5/1/2010 1:48:59 PM)

i totally agree ,,
i need to love in order to surrender ,, and i need to know that i am loved too ,,





kallisto -> RE: Deeply in Love with Master (5/1/2010 2:18:06 PM)


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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

For me, its having the D/s without the love that is hard to do.



Exactly ... not impossible to do ... but hard (for me anyway).




LadyAngelika -> RE: Deeply in Love with Master (5/1/2010 2:20:32 PM)


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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

You CAN have D/s and love at the same time.  It's actually damn nice when things fall together like that.
AGREED!!!


Agreed as well!

- LA




LadyAngelika -> RE: Deeply in Love with Master (5/1/2010 2:22:52 PM)


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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

For me, its having the D/s without the love that is hard to do.


This is also very true for me as well. I used to be able to, but I haven't for the last 5 years or so.

The deeper the feelings I have for a man, the more wicked things I want to do him.

- LA




GoddessImaginos -> RE: Deeply in Love with Master (5/1/2010 2:28:02 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

You CAN have D/s and love at the same time.  It's actually damn nice when things fall together like that.
AGREED!!!


Agreed as well!

- LA



*AMEN* to this. There's no substitute for loving feelings as the basis for this stuff. That's why I don't dig casual play with people I haven't gotten to know and care about. I've been spoiled rotten on the very best..




KnightofMists -> RE: Deeply in Love with Master (5/1/2010 3:44:25 PM)


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I know he does love me but i don't want being lovers to spoil the dynamic of a great s/D relationship.


What I wonder is why you think love would spoil your dynamic that you have?




lizi -> RE: Deeply in Love with Master (5/1/2010 7:24:57 PM)

Add me to the lengthy list of posters that have love and D/s intertwined and it works exceedingly well for us.




kuppykake -> RE: Deeply in Love with Master (5/1/2010 10:08:21 PM)

Just like you followed your intuition when you made the decision to become a slave, you should follow your intuition when it comes to love.  Love cannot harm any type of relationship, it can only make it stronger if it's true.  I know it sounds cheesy, but it's the truth.  There's nothing that says love can only be vanilla.  I don't think I would be as good of a slave if I did not have the love that I do with my Master.




sweetsub1957 -> RE: Deeply in Love with Master (5/1/2010 10:36:05 PM)


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ORIGINAL: subjan1962
i have fallen deeply in love with him. i am not sure if this is a good thing or not.. He is a very kind Master but i have no desire to turn our s/D relationship into a vanilla one. i love to serve him and take his punnishment gracefully, He has once mentioned the L word and I know he does love me but i don't want being lovers to spoil the dynamic of a great s/D relationship.

Oh my. It saddens me that you think love will automatically spoil a D/s relationship. my Dominant and i were so very deeply in love and we also had a wonderful D/s relationship. Then He died almost seven months ago. i can only hope and pray that i find another Dominant Man to have another such wonderful relationship with. Love does not have to ruin a fantastic relationship, it can actually enhance it when you have "the whole package." [:D]

~sweetsub~




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