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Self bondage for a stranger - 4/23/2010 9:09:59 PM   
PlayfulMasterJ


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Status: offline 		Has anyone experienced someone putting themselves into a blind folded sexually available self bondage position just after txting a stranger they've met online asking them to come and use their bound body?

In other words submitting yourself to a stranger in a BDSM situation.
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RE: Self bondage for a stranger - 4/23/2010 9:14:56 PM   
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RE: Self bondage for a stranger - 4/23/2010 9:18:30 PM   
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RE: Self bondage for a stranger - 4/23/2010 9:39:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		Maybe if they're looking to be beaten (not in a good way), raped, or killed. Why would anyone in their right mind do such a stupid thing?

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RE: Self bondage for a stranger - 4/23/2010 10:00:25 PM   
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RE: Self bondage for a stranger - 4/23/2010 11:51:22 PM   
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Froths....

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RE: Self bondage for a stranger - 4/24/2010 12:03:06 AM   
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I refer to them as "Darwin's chosen"

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RE: Self bondage for a stranger - 4/24/2010 12:06:22 AM   
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I swear to god, that phrase ALWAYS prefaces a wanker thread.....

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RE: Self bondage for a stranger - 4/24/2010 12:12:23 AM   
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RE: Self bondage for a stranger - 4/24/2010 12:15:35 AM   
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Yeah.. and those same people should NOT be allowed to breed!

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RE: Self bondage for a stranger - 4/24/2010 12:28:47 AM   
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RE: Self bondage for a stranger - 4/24/2010 12:36:17 AM   
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RE: Self bondage for a stranger - 4/24/2010 12:51:09 AM   
myotherself


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Edited in a vain attempt to stop every HNG on this site from trying his luck...

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RE: Self bondage for a stranger - 4/24/2010 1:47:08 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: PlayfulMasterJ

Has anyone experienced someone putting themselves into a blind folded sexually available self bondage position just after txting a stranger they've met online asking them to come and use their bound body?

In other words submitting yourself to a stranger in a BDSM situation.



No, I haven't.  Even when I am looking for some to top in r/t, I wouldn't do this kind of play online over webcam because I take bondage safeties seriously.  I wouldn't want anyone doing this to themselves because...I'd have no control of the situation if something went wrong. 

If you're talking about doing this and inviting a stranger to come over and r/t use the bound person...I would be afraid to be on either end of that proposition.  It would be wrong for me on so many levels, even if I dropped my standards of getting to know and be fond of them first...at the very least.


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RE: Self bondage for a stranger - 4/24/2010 1:54:09 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Smutmonger

Probably-but who is going to admit it in a nest of rabid ssc fanatics?


I wasn't going to post but well...... what the hell.  Whilst these things may seem insane to people there are others who do willingly take part in risky behaviours and weigh up the possible consequences. 

In my initial forays into bdsm whilst I didn't do exactly as the OP mentions I took a LOT of risks.

Was I putting myself in potential danger - yep

Was it hot - hell yeah


Would I recommend it to others - no, we all have to choose the level of risk we will take.

And for the record, I stopped doing these high risk activities a number of years ago.


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RE: Self bondage for a stranger - 4/24/2010 2:38:13 AM   
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Status: offline 		No. The reality of having some of the people who have written to me be the person who is going to be in control is too much. I've had the dregs of humanity appear in my inbox, I don't want any of them touching me. It's hot when I imagine Mr. Hunk being the one texting me....it's not hot when I remember the guy who wrote me last week that was grossly obese and looked homeless.

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RE: Self bondage for a stranger - 4/24/2010 3:52:27 AM   
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Status: offline 		OP, just because they say they want you to doesn't mean they really are at that address. It could just as easily be a guy trying to get back at his ex by setting you up to hurt her.

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RE: Self bondage for a stranger - 4/24/2010 3:58:55 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: PlayfulMasterJ

Has anyone experienced someone putting themselves into a blind folded sexually available self bondage position just after txting a stranger they've met online asking them to come and use their bound body?

In other words submitting yourself to a stranger in a BDSM situation.



No, which would be yes if I'd been a stranger.

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RE: Self bondage for a stranger - 4/24/2010 4:03:13 AM   
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RE: Self bondage for a stranger - 4/24/2010 4:35:57 AM   
JonnieBoy


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Status: offline 		Wanders, there's potential dangers everytime we play with strangers, taking risks simply "does it" for plenty of people.

Not everyone who does/will is comfortable enough with themselves to acknowlege it. That you have, is a credit to you and you know we all learn about ourselves every day (or at least should)

Whilst the OP might be tongue in cheek or wank fodder, people take risks and that will never change. There will be many readers and posters here that identify with thmselves as risk takers that haven't the confidence to be scrutinised by anything but their own conscience about that and will never acknowlege it within the "community"

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