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lizi -> RE: Self bondage for a stranger (4/24/2010 9:42:36 AM)
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ORIGINAL: risktaker9
No. The reality of having some of the people who have written to me be the person who is going to be in control is too much. I've had the dregs of humanity appear in my inbox, I don't want any of them touching me. It's hot when I imagine Mr. Hunk being the one texting me....it's not hot when I remember the guy who wrote me last week that was grossly obese and looked homeless.
I'd have to cast my vote with this reply. It's too much to risk...how would I know that he knew what he was doing if he was going to attempt any type of impact play? Is this stranger into some things that I hold as hard limits? Would I suffer permanent mental or physical damage? Communicable diseases?A situation he could turn into involving more people or public exposure? I couldn't/wouldn't risk it.
Also, the fact that it could be anyone is a complete turnoff for me. I think when most people imagine a partner in any situation no matter how casual, it's a partner that matches their internal view of what is attractive.
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