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saucer4head -> my sub is willing to get a tongue ring (4/11/2010 3:57:13 PM)

for my cock's pleasure while she gives me blow jobs. i saw some vibrating & tickler types after i did a search. what do you guys recommend?



FetishRose -> RE: my sub is willing to get a tongue ring (4/11/2010 7:37:40 PM)

Well...have you ever received oral sex from a girl with a tongue ring?  Every guy I am friends with (not a very empirical study, I know), does not find tongue rings to make oral sex any better at all.  A girl's experience, talent with her mouth, and desire to give oral sex is what makes the difference.
Also...be way careful, since tongue rings are one of the nastiest piercings to get infected, and can result in losing half the tongue!



Acer49 -> RE: my sub is willing to get a tongue ring (4/11/2010 8:20:52 PM)

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ORIGINAL: saucer4head

for my cock's pleasure while she gives me blow jobs. i saw some vibrating & tickler types after i did a search. what do you guys recommend?


Someone is well versed in this activity does not need a tongue ring. The risk of infection far outweighs any benefits. It is not something I would want or require of someone



DesFIP -> RE: my sub is willing to get a tongue ring (4/11/2010 8:49:06 PM)

I recommend you buy her dental insurance because she'll need it. Tongue rings cause enamel damage and can in fact kill the nerves in the teeth. Do you know how much a root canal can cost? Because you need to man up and pay out that thousand when she needs it.



HisRayne -> RE: my sub is willing to get a tongue ring (4/11/2010 8:56:52 PM)

Plastic barbells are easier on the teeth then metal however are much more easily bitten through or broken. Also be careful,as the balls on the ends of the barbell will rub against her teeth during speech and sleep which can result in rough spots on the ball which does NOT feel good on your cock and actually kinda kills the enjoyment (so Ive been told) Vibrating tongue rings and ticklers are overpriced and useless....the add nothing other then numbing the mouth after awhile and its been my experience a numb mouth is never equal to decent head.....

I have several piercings....including tongue and have to agree....It adds nothing.If a girl is damn good without it....then nothing will be different once she has it....If she cant suck a dick before getting pierced....then train her.



Tantriqu -> RE: my sub is willing to get a tongue ring (4/11/2010 9:00:12 PM)

Thanks for all the intell, but awwww :-(
One of my few unfulfilled fantasies is a subbie guy [preferably built like a New Zealand 2nd-row] with a tongue piercing.

Le sigh!



PrimalConsonance -> RE: my sub is willing to get a tongue ring (4/12/2010 5:43:26 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: saucer4head

for my cock's pleasure while she gives me blow jobs. i saw some vibrating & tickler types after i did a search. what do you guys recommend?


I recommend that she don't get one.  Dangerous if infected, and if she plans on getting anywhere in the professional world, then it's like getting a tattoo on your head...credibility killer.  For sexual enjoyment however, there are plenty of wonderful things she can do to make your oral experience to where you can't speak, think, and are nearly passing out from the orgasm that will make you think you need Advil to recover from the strain of that orgasm on your constitutional reserves. 

For thousands of years, and gazillions of blow jobs; people have gotten along and the art form is as strong as ever all not withstanding the enhancements of the tongue jewelry.  I'd rather a woman have technique and talent more than metal objects that make her speech impeded with that cute barbell clanging against her teeth and me obsessing over watching that thing roll about as she tries to maneuver it.  Now I hear "gumming" is something special!  But that takes a special lady...and a different thread, and a different fetish.  Stick with the technique and talent and forgo the enhancement.  



Miyani -> RE: my sub is willing to get a tongue ring (4/12/2010 6:25:11 AM)

~FR~

I've had a tongue ring for years. Literally, eight of them. I'm eminently employable, I've never had a boss or coworker notice it unless (until) I stuck my tongue all the way out at them. My tooth enamel? Yeah, it's fine, thanks. I didn't have to relearn how to eat, sing or talk. I took seriously crappy care of it for the first week or two, and I still have all of my tongue!

Good gods, people, it's one of the most popular piercings out there. If your girl is not a complete idiot, she will not die or lose body parts. Just follow a couple of directions that the piercer gives you, you're fine.

Have her get her tongue pierced farther back. The bottom ball should be coming out -just- in front of that web of skin under her tongue. DO NOT try to make her wear a vibrating or massaging tongue ring for every day wear. She should put one in only when she's planning on giving a nearly immediate blowjob. Yes, this means you'll need to wait until a few weeks after the piercing to experience these (in my experience) ridiculous little things. But guess what? If she's crappy at blowjobs, a tongue ring won't help. If she has all the qualities that make a blowjob wonderful (already mentioned by the lovely, if panicky, people), then a tongue ring sure as shit can make it more enjoyable. And not one of the goofy ones made for blowjobs. Regular plastic ball. Because that little indentation just under the head of your penis, on the bottom? That's your frenulum. It's your most sensitive bit. Guess what fits really, really well there. So even when she's paying attention to the rest of your cock, it's getting played with.

Have fun!



mnottertail -> RE: my sub is willing to get a tongue ring (4/12/2010 6:27:25 AM)

I recommend you make her work her tongue lick kiss and suck more and fuck all the hardware.



bestheadyet -> RE: my sub is willing to get a tongue ring (4/12/2010 6:33:43 AM)

from a head expert.....i wouldnt recommend it. the nasty infection and social indignation that can happen makes it soo not worth it. make sure she is happy and the blowjobs she gives in appreciation outweigh all the hardware enhancements...a happy sub is an enthusiastic one



ResidentSadist -> RE: my sub is willing to get a tongue ring (4/12/2010 8:02:57 AM)

Those little vibrating ones were sorta annoying... tickled more than anything. Just strap a helmet on her head with swedish massager glued to it, that oughta' send some good vibrations through your Johnson.



SylvereApLeanan -> RE: my sub is willing to get a tongue ring (4/12/2010 11:15:43 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Miyani

~FR~

Good gods, people, it's one of the most popular piercings out there. If your girl is not a complete idiot, she will not die or lose body parts. Just follow a couple of directions that the piercer gives you, you're fine.


Quoted for truth.
 
My father is a dentist and guess what...all my teeth are intact, despite accidentally biting my tongue ring many times, and my tooth enamel is fine 15 years after getting my tongue pierced.  Use anticeptic mouthwash after every meal, drink, cigarette, kiss, and before and after sex for the first two months.  Abstain from oral sex for the first couple of weeks.  Her tongue will be very swollen and tender.
 
To the OP: it's true that a tongue ring can make a blow job more enjoyable  IF your girl is already good at it.  However, the attachments are much too big for everyday wear.  You'll want to reserve them for playtime and have her wear a regular metal or plastic tongue ring the rest of the time.  You can also get a clear acryllic retainer (flat, no ball) for her to wear to work if she's concerned about that.  Have her take ibuprofen after the piercing to help her with pain and to control swelling.  The piercer may tell her to suck on ice, but I found warm liquids like hot tea to be more soothing. 
 
What's even better is if you get your tongue pierced too and use the vibrating attachment on her.  A friend of mine did that and his wife went through the roof.  Consider going with her and getting one for yourself.



GraciousLady -> RE: my sub is willing to get a tongue ring (4/12/2010 2:43:17 PM)

Just hijacking this a bit here: A man having a pierced tongue does not make oral any better for the woman.



ricken -> RE: my sub is willing to get a tongue ring (4/12/2010 2:52:55 PM)

I wouldn't do it, I was going to as a surprise for someone, but then when I got there I saw someone whos tongue swelled up about twice it's size, and then the person doing the piercing told me it takes about 6 weeks to heal, and I shouldn't have oral sex. I ran out like a scared little child....

I'm not saying that EVERYONES tongue swells up like that, just some thign I wouldn't do, or want anyone to do for me.



saucer4head -> RE: my sub is willing to get a tongue ring (4/12/2010 7:34:20 PM)

thanks for the replies, keep them coming.



Miyani -> RE: my sub is willing to get a tongue ring (4/13/2010 8:37:47 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: GraciousLady

Just hijacking this a bit here: A man having a pierced tongue does not make oral any better for the woman.


No, of course it doesn't. Unless, as Sylvere said, he gets the vibrating attachment. Then it does, actually.



reynardfox -> RE: my sub is willing to get a tongue ring (4/13/2010 8:44:54 AM)

Stop them! It's tacky beyond belief. Just get a sub with a vibrating head.
By the way, have you ever had your willy in somebody's mouth? The post would suggest not.



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