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Phoenix73Sir -> Hello Pleeps! (4/3/2010 3:30:51 PM)
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Thoyught I'd drop in here and introduce myself.
I am Chris and have had Dominant tendancies for many years but thought i was just wierd. I have stumbled in and out of a number of vanilla relationships and while the physical side ranged from aweful to good even at best there was something missing. so about 10 yeahs ago I met a girl who was at the time a goth, more specificly a fetish goth who intorduced me to light bondage and other various things. i decided to look further into it and joined Alt.com which was something of a waste of time. except for the chat rooms where fortunatly people were willing to talk openly about the lifestyle.
it was about 5 years ago when I was attempting to emmigrate back to the US that i found myself with a lot of time on my hands in the evenings and although i don't know quite how my path lead there, I found myself readiong all about the D/s lifestyle.
That was the beginning of my adventure. I read whatever i could find on the internet, borrowed a few books on the subject and even managed to contact a couple of local subs (not at the same time) and got a bit of practicl experience (although i think that in total between the 2 of them it would have ammounted to maybe 20 hours and it was purely bedroom based.).
My learning curve has continued unabaited and i have continued to read whatever i can about the subject, but even in the playtime i had with those subs (which i learned a lot) I couldn't help but feel that there was still something missing..
fast forward a bit and about 3 months ago I joined a site called "The Slave Register" and a few members there pointed me towards Collarme. I must admit I did procrastinate a bit about joining but now that I am here I am glad that i came.. So far the people I have spoken to on these boards have been very patient and helpful to me. and even in the few short days I have been a member I have learned things that I wasn't aware of before.
Well that is my tale of sadness and woe.. now to change that and be the person I have always wanted to be.
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