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RE: Taking Charge - 4/1/2006 8:13:21 AM

IronBear

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This has been quite an eye-opener to me. From the earliest time I can remember, I’ve never lived in a Vanilla situation. This includes boarding school which was very regimented and naturally the military which is hardly vanilla. But leaving the military and boarding school aside all my adult life I’ve always been dominant even with three wives being dominant also, I’ve always had the last word in most things. Reading the posts here I have a better understanding of the lives and relationships of friends and non blood family…… My thanks

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RE: Taking Charge - 4/1/2006 8:43:04 AM

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ORIGINAL: MstrFury

...(hint..don't step to me like you're a wuss or I'll treat you as such)...in general...I try to treat everyone with respect...
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Except those wusses lol.

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RE: Taking Charge - 4/1/2006 3:09:55 PM

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It wasn't something i ever discussed with a LT partner, nor was it something i "offer" -- he just took it. i don't need micromanagement, and don't really want it, but..it was something that touched me soul deep, knowing that he cared for our relationship and for me -- that it wasn't just a "slap and a tickle" or "sex and maid service" he was interested in.

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RE: Taking Charge - 4/1/2006 4:00:01 PM

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Being somewhat Domineering aswell as Dominant,I tend to take control of things right off the bat.
I dont need total control over everything,but I do like to have things done My way for the most part.
Sometimes I am sneaky about it...manipulating is the word I think...they dont realize I'm bending them the way I want.
I like Others use that for the benifit of the submissive(health etc).

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