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AmHypnotic -> RE: Hypnosis and bdsm (3/18/2010 4:27:29 PM)
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As a hypnofetishist, I'd have to say there are multiple things that hypnosis brings to the table to enhance and add to experiences. Also, hypnosis isn't about making someone submit. It's about using a natural state of mind to bring illusion to reality, that's how I'd like to think of it.
Hell, it's better off using hypnosis with a submissive, then you can say things like "let go and give in to how nice it is" and not wonder if the subject is thinking "I'm not letting go for you, fucker." At least, not as long as you're a decent person, as if you're a douche, you deserve whatever bitchiness you get, really.
Ideas for how to use hypnosis in relation to BDSM? Here we go...
-Receive more automatic responses when they truly matter. Ever have someone reaching a hard limit and not say anything, not even a safe word, because "Well you were having fun, I didn't want to ruin that," then never want to play again because you play too hard? Something similar? Build in responses and give suggestions toward such things coming naturally without thought, comfortably, worry-free. Use the traffic light idea, red, yellow, and green. Include green. My GOD this is feeling good, how many say anything like that before the end of a scene (as opposed to "I wish you would have done X more")? And I can tell you personally, you will chuckle the first time you hear a sub going "green... green... green... green..." because they're enjoying themselves so much.
-Legal and nondisruptive public play. The sub still knows what's going on, and let's be honest, orgasming, being tied up so you can't move freely, being flogged, generally bring about a form of response that people can notice, so there is still a humiliation factor. And I don't mean hypnotizing in public, but rather triggering certain reactions or reliving certain scenes at a particular touch, word, phrase, even one that is not obvious (for example, *tap on the back of the neck* = sub feels hard spank against the ass)
-Play without a toybag. This doesn't absolutely require the sub knowing the sensations of the tools, BUT obviously knowledge of said tools, or showing the sensation just before using said sensation in hypnosis play will be more powerful than just describing a sensation. For example, I watched someone take the handle of a flogger, put it on the inside of a sub's elbow and "close" her elbow against it hard. Then built triggers around either arm receiving that sensation in the same places. You can also play with the concept without hypnosis by having your sub close his/her eyes and going into the kitchen, make knife sharpening noises, then come in with the TV remote control and roll that along the sub's back without the sub seeing it. Take this multiple steps further with hypnosis.
-Safe play without training with a particular physical toy. I've seen people do entire rope scenes through hypnosis without any clue on knots, nerve clusters to watch out for, etc., as the suggestions included that they'd be safe and merely bind movement and give the feel of rope. Note: doing this around the neck, ensure they know that it is loose enough around the neck to allow breathing, just for safety's sake. Rope scene somehow goes bad? Wake them up, snap your fingers, and say "rope's gone." No need for safety shears. And you can take your time, such as taking your fingers and tracing them where the rope is going, you don't need to use words for absolutely everything.
-More immersive role play. Some things just aren't doable in reality, and because of that, some things just can't be role played effectively enough. Meanwhile, I've had someone riding the dragon from The Neverending Story and they could tell me everything about how his fur and skin felt and how gentle he was. Yes, I know that's not a BDSM example, but you guys are imaginative enough, work with it.
-Triggers for later fun. Enjoy a particular scene so much that you wish to bring it about later and perhaps add more to it? Maybe just bring about a particular sensation on a whim? Orgasm on the snap of your (and only your) fingers? Immobilized in the next balanced position they can get into upon being told to freeze (yea, let's not have anyone face planting because of a misplaced word)? Play with how aware they are of said freeze, either they don't know it happened, and time passes without their knowing, or they're aware and staring at you with a mix of a grin and a smirk waiting for you to release them.
It's not just a mind fuck, and it does a lot for any Dom/me, as well. There are plenty of other ideas, I didn't give them all, not by any means, I actually intentionally held back a few to allow for further free thought. Anyone, feel free to elaborate on my above ideas or to give more of their own.
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