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RE: Communication? - 3/1/2010 7:45:09 PM

heartcream

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I was hoping to be a lightening bug flashing in our jar!

Of course, exactly. You are the lightening bug and I am the ladybug.

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RE: Communication? - 3/1/2010 10:32:42 PM

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Thanks to the doormat topic. I havnt laughed so hard in years.

The threads dont change many minds. I like to see if a consensus develops. The equality thread helped Me realize I wasnt unique in treating My girl as an equal.

As far as changing minds go... I like to think of it as planting seeds in minds. It might take root one day.

Back when I collared nikkki 13 years ago, a 24/7 TPE slave was radical nonsense. There was a lot of heated debate about it. But the seeds were planted. Now TPE is not considered to be criminal by the BDSM community.

Back then I argued against safe words (you can imagine the controversy). Now no safe word relationships are more common and not ridiculed. The seeds were planted.

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RE: Communication? - 3/1/2010 11:10:16 PM

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A potential Dom I was talking with commented 'you post a lot on the message boards'. It made me sit back and consider how I come across to other people through my posting.

There are posters on this board that I don't particularly enjoy, because their attitude doesn't sit well with me. There are people who have an opinion that they will not change (fair enough), but look down on everyone else because they have a different opinion. There are some who appear to see an argument or disagreement and feel the need to fuel the fire just for the hell of it. There are others who just need to be 'heard', even if they have nothing of value to contribute at all - what I think of as the 'quantity over quality' folk. Thankfully there is also a majority of posters who regularly post coherent, well-argued points, even if I don't always agree with their position.

My point is - how do I want to appear to people who matter to me? By writing anything at all on these boards I'm communicating a hell of a lot about myself, even if I'm not sharing communication effectively on a topic.

Just my two pennies...

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RE: Communication? - 3/2/2010 3:38:45 AM

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ORIGINAL: heartcream

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I was hoping to be a lightening bug flashing in our jar!

Of course, exactly. You are the lightening bug and I am the ladybug.

Perfection! Now my ass lights up.

Just hope some big bullies don't come along and try to smear it on their side walk, to write their name in glowing letters, like my brothers did when we were little........before I clobbered them for killing MY lightening bugs.

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