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Sudden onset of cuteness - 2/28/2010 10:21:11 AM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		So... I am still not over the X but lately the tide has turned for me regarding what I am now capable of doing. It used to be if I saw an exit sign with a word that I associate with his new life I would literally have to look away or risk throwing up in my car. As of last month that horror has changed and now I can keep my eyes on the road, signs and all.

Since I have been going to parties my attitude about myself has changed considerably and I don't know why. I still rarely play when I attend parties. I tend to be quiet and on my own even when I force myself to mix it up with various conversations in the room. Whatever it is that has happened to me in the last 6 months or so seems to have affected not only me but the people who look at me.

A couple of months ago I was in a tech store waiting my turn to talk to a clerk and a man who was across from me asked for my phone number. He even followed me out a short way to tell me he had never been struck by lightening before he saw me and that I was beautiful. Wow... lol I haven't had that happen since I was 25. That was sort of the start of this odd change in my life. Men have been asking me out or trying to chat me up in perfectly ordinary situations. And last night I had an impromptu date for drinks and music at a local hangout ... which was nice but also a little odd since two different guys I never met came over our way and tried to get my attention. I do recognize they might have been drunk but.. lol still it was great.

What is with this sudden onset of cuteness? I still love the X but I am good with that. I have been forcing myself out now for a couple of years and here I am now, old.. and all of a sudden the way people view me has changed.

How do I keep this up? I feel like I have a sign on my forehead that says "join me". I don't want to lose that.
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RE: Sudden onset of cuteness - 2/28/2010 10:25:20 AM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		I had that start to happen to me shortly before Sinergy and I started seeing each other again. I would be out for my morning walk, or at the store, or waiting for the local downtown bus, and men would come up and ask me out. I never dated any of these men, although there were a few I did date from a pool of people I know...

It felt very weird to me also, and I did not quite expect it, being the age I am.... this sudden onset of men following me around, asking me if I was single, etc... very weird indeed.


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RE: Sudden onset of cuteness - 2/28/2010 10:43:51 AM   
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Status: offline 		juliaoceania, What are you talking about? You are NOT old! You are still just a baby. I know, cause I am, too, and I'm older than you.

Missokyst, just go with it! I'm glad that things are getting better for you. I'm sure the attention you're receiving is well deserved. I'm happy for you. I know how hard it can be when someone leaves you, or even when you have to leave someone yourself. It sucks and it hurts, both ways.

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RE: Sudden onset of cuteness - 2/28/2010 10:47:39 AM   
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Status: offline 		I need to update my age on profile... I am 41, not 39... not that makes a diff really


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RE: Sudden onset of cuteness - 2/28/2010 10:54:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		i think men can pick up when you give off that "single" vibe - and to be honest i'm not sure how it really works myself.

Like this year, when i took my daughter to DisneyWorld it seemed like i was getting hit on left and right - one of the performers in one of the stage shows we saw even came down after the show to tell me that i'm "gorgeous." Also, the Divemaster for when we were diving in the Living Seas aquarium (the pic on my profile) - i've seen him every year for a couple of years now, and this year he went out of his way to shower up after the dive and make it "convenient" to run into me again later in the debriefing room. That attention is so much fun! Hee hee!

i also firmly believe that sub/slave women have an attractive energy all their own that they give off when they've actualized themselves in their submission. But that's a separate thread.

Enjoy it! And just keep smiling....that's the most attractive thing of all, in my opinion.

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RE: Sudden onset of cuteness - 2/28/2010 10:58:36 AM   
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Status: offline 		Heartbreak sucks some serious ass. I am glad you are starting to mend.

Having men follow you around is pretty cool. I dont have this experience. Maybe I have the wrong sticker on my head.

I know it is cliche but I dont think age matters. There are men out there attracted to women their own age so no matter how old that is there is a possibility of a man digging you and thinking/knowing you are a cutie.

Good for you for sharing this and great you are feeling a bit better about it all. That pain is one of the all time worst I would reckon.



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RE: Sudden onset of cuteness - 2/28/2010 10:59:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		If a guy came up to me and did that due to my "cough" advanced age i would faint.

With shows like Cougar more men are probably more interested.


I look nothing like a Cougar and i know that. No nasty jokes please i know i am not everybodys cup of tea...

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RE: Sudden onset of cuteness - 2/28/2010 11:01:19 AM   
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Status: offline 		I am on another, more vanilla site and have found that many younger guys are interested in older women.  I never thought this would appeal to me, but it seems to be happening.  Stay tuned.

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RE: Sudden onset of cuteness - 2/28/2010 11:16:16 AM   
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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

I am on another, more vanilla site and have found that many younger guys are interested in older women.  I never thought this would appeal to me, but it seems to be happening.  Stay tuned.


MILF.com?

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RE: Sudden onset of cuteness - 2/28/2010 11:17:36 AM   
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RE: Sudden onset of cuteness - 2/28/2010 11:52:45 AM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		Holeysmokes! LOL I never thought of that until you said it. All those men are younger than I am by around a decade or so. Have I hit cougar age? YEAH! That rocks!


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ORIGINAL: winterlight

If a guy came up to me and did that due to my "cough" advanced age i would faint.

With shows like Cougar more men are probably more interested.


I look nothing like a Cougar and i know that. No nasty jokes please i know i am not everybodys cup of tea...


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RE: Sudden onset of cuteness - 2/28/2010 11:54:18 AM   
Missokyst


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RE: Sudden onset of cuteness - 2/28/2010 12:57:56 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have an acct on pof and lots and lots of young men writing me, but for me, it is not an interest. More for Katy!

Young men love older women I find. One day my 22 yr old niece was here and we were looking in my pof mailbox, "Oh can I have him?" she would say.

Sure, sfars Im concerned, have him, I would rather a cool man my own age. By that I mean 10 years either side.

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RE: Sudden onset of cuteness - 2/28/2010 1:04:53 PM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		Yeah, I can relate. For many years I used to have a five year younger than me rule. That has changed a bit since I got older as now I find 10 yrs younger tends to be a better fit. I have had younger guys express interest but my head keeps picturing my sons. It makes me wonder how men have so less problems dating or marrying women 20 yrs younger than they are. It would make me feel a bit incestuous

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RE: Sudden onset of cuteness - 2/28/2010 1:11:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

So... I am still not over the X but lately the tide has turned for me regarding what I am now capable of doing. It used to be if I saw an exit sign with a word that I associate with his new life I would literally have to look away or risk throwing up in my car. As of last month that horror has changed and now I can keep my eyes on the road, signs and all.



When you're happy within yourself, you give off a happy vibe that others can sense. You're probably glowing and standing up straight. This is attractive. This is why you have men hitting on you :-) . Enjoy it!

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