What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat?

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domiguy -> What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/25/2010 11:25:31 PM)
What type of a man seeks this type of a woman? Is there anything that can be gleaned into the psyche or mental make up of this type of man? Discuss amongst yourselves.

juliaoceania -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/25/2010 11:32:12 PM)
I do not even wanna touch this one... yet....[:D]

Ialdabaoth -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/25/2010 11:34:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy What type of a man seeks this type of a woman? Is there anything that can be gleaned into the psyche or mental make up of this type of man? It says that we don't like him very much.

tazzygirl -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/25/2010 11:54:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy What type of a man seeks this type of a woman? Is there anything that can be gleaned into the psyche or mental make up of this type of man? Discuss amongst yourselves. It depends, oh mighty Ambassador. Is this man looking for a personal doormat, one who is such only to him and, possibly, a chosen few? Or is this someone who is looking for a doormat to use and throw out later, initianting the relationship with that particular scenario in mind from the beginning?

WyldHrt -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/26/2010 12:05:48 AM)
If I didn't know Mercnbeth quite well, you would probably get a knee-jerk, pissy reaction from me that was less than flattering to the man. That said, beth identifies as a "doormat" (although I don't see her as such, my issue I guess), and their relationship never fails to amaze me with its emotional depth, awesome level of compatibility, responsibility, and sense of FUN! It's rather impossible for me to make blanket statements against something that I can see for myself works so well for some. [:)]

domiguy -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/26/2010 12:12:55 AM)
Not a single serving doormat or a doormat that is perceived to be only useful for one or two seasons at the most.

NihilusZero -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/26/2010 12:14:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Ialdabaoth It says that we don't like him very much. [:D]

WyldHrt -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/26/2010 12:16:28 AM)
quote: Not a single serving doormat or a doormat that is perceived to be only useful for one or two seasons at the most. Was that to me, or a clarification of the original question?

domiguy -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/26/2010 12:20:22 AM)
A clarification. Anyone might go for someone that will allow them to have their 100% way for the short run or for a few hours....But what does it say about a guy that never wants or will tolerate any confrontation or disobedience over the long haul?

heartcream -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/26/2010 12:21:31 AM)
wkke methla boo run a nikki ata hunta blurdy hoop etract nurn. roo eka ela eka eka pust ya poona? (I kinda speak in tongues when I discuss amongst myself)

Ialdabaoth -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/26/2010 12:25:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy A clarification. Anyone might go for someone that will allow them to have their 100% way for the short run or for a few hours....But what does it say about a guy that never wants or will tolerate any confrontation or disobedience over the long haul? It says to me that our concept of the word "tolerate" might need re-calibration.

domiguy -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/26/2010 12:28:24 AM)
I always enjoyed a little "eka pust ya poona" even when my gal didn't exactly fancy the act. That's one nice thing about having a doormat at your disposal. You never hear a single "methla boo." They are always good to go.

Smutmonger -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/26/2010 12:29:14 AM)
He has the insight and adaptability of a tree frog on crack?

NihilusZero -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/26/2010 12:30:08 AM)
"Want" confrontation? I don't think Nietzsche meant that we should actively seek out difficulty or impediment for the purpose of self-tempering...

wittynamehere -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/26/2010 12:31:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy What type of a man seeks this type of a woman? A man who is seeking this type of woman. (Ask better questions if you want better answers! For example, define what YOU mean by "doormat".)

Ialdabaoth -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/26/2010 12:31:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NihilusZero "Want" confrontation? I don't think Nietzsche meant that we should actively seek out difficulty or impediment for the purpose of self-tempering... maybe, maybe not, but what I meant is that if I've decided that someone doesn't "tolerate" any kind of confrontation or disobedience whatsoever, then that indicates that my definition of "tolerate" is no longer realistic or viable.

Smutmonger -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/26/2010 12:32:04 AM)
Hey....Nietzsche taught me.."She who does not kill us makes us stranger!"

NihilusZero -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/26/2010 12:34:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Ialdabaoth maybe, maybe not, but what I meant is that if I've decided that someone doesn't "tolerate" any kind of confrontation or disobedience whatsoever, then that indicates that my definition of "tolerate" is no longer realistic or viable. nod The "in reply to" thingie was mistakenly due to using the 'Fast Reply'.

WyldHrt -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/26/2010 12:36:48 AM)
quote: A clarification. Anyone might go for someone that will allow them to have their 100% way for the short run or for a few hours....But what does it say about a guy that never wants or will tolerate any confrontation or disobedience over the long haul? Depends on the guy, really. I've seen guys that fit the above description that are complete assholes, and others that make me wish that I was their partner.

heartcream -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/26/2010 12:40:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy A clarification. Anyone might go for someone that will allow them to have their 100% way for the short run or for a few hours....But what does it say about a guy that never wants or will tolerate any confrontation or disobedience over the long haul? Hmm 100% have their way for the short run--Anyone?--Hmm.. >>But what does it say about a guy that never wants or will tolerate any confrontation or disobedience over the long haul? If a guy is like this and many are... Ex: something goofy/wonky happened the day before, the last time you saw him, whenever. But not in that exact moment and you take a minute to talk about it, thinking, hoping it might be a good time to bring it up and the immediate response is.."Why you gotta bring that up, that is the past..." or, "Dont bring me down, why you gotta be so negative...why do you hold onto to stuff...?" Stuff like that. They shut you down as soon as the 'boat starts to rock'. Even if you bring it up in the same moment you are met with the same sort of deflecting blame, sometimes worse. To me it says the guy is weak, shallow, does not want to connect to his own feelings of inadequacy or fear. He turns into a stone instead. He would rather whack you upside the head instead. It has been fun (not really though) to try to be pleasing to a guy like that to believe all that brawn is real, oooh big strong man but it is a coating, like icing. It is not real. There is nothing to hold it together, they are more about their presentation, holding it 'together' than being real. They think they will die if they admit to feeling afraid, sad, angry, confused, unsure, vulnerable. They are more concerned about 'face', about being right than being kind, for instance. They are looking in but not to see what is really there but to more hunt down and squash any signs of the dreaded feelings of inadequacy etc before anyone might notice. A woman that triggers any of that in them will be blamed and pay the price. Sometimes women dont know how to deal with it for fear of the consequences so spend their anxious lives trying to learn every detail of how to present to him what he wants to see. Not who they are but who they think he wants to see so they wont get caught in the crossfire. My opinion if someone cannot be questioned, even God Himself, it is the wrong man, the wrong God.

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