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domiguy -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/26/2010 12:44:33 AM)

Who knows what Nietzsche meant? Maybe it was all the ramblings of a syphilitic mind.

I have been with women that offered the feed back and resistance of a sponge. They always seemed to manage to go down the drain. Relationship died from a serious lack of interest on my part.




heartcream -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/26/2010 12:46:39 AM)

Or ironic musings, or iron filings?




domiguy -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/26/2010 12:52:03 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Ialdabaoth


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ORIGINAL: NihilusZero

"Want" confrontation?

I don't think Nietzsche meant that we should actively seek out difficulty or impediment for the purpose of self-tempering...



maybe, maybe not, but what I meant is that if I've decided that someone doesn't "tolerate" any kind of confrontation or disobedience whatsoever, then that indicates that my definition of "tolerate" is no longer realistic or viable.





What the fuck? Play word games somewhere else.

There are people that do not want to be questioned. Do not "tolerate" having their thoughts and beliefs held up to the light of day. Now in the "real word" that shit doesn't tend to fly because at some point you probably have to answer to someone.

When you stretch it out to this here bdsm thingamajig....All sorts of crazy shit starts to happen. There is no longer an accountability. You can actually be the king of your castle. Just need to find the right gal that is more than happy to swallow your shit and swords.




jujubeeMB -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/26/2010 12:55:17 AM)


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ORIGINAL: domiguy

I have been with women that offered the feed back and resistance of a sponge. They always seemed to manage to go down the drain. Relationship died from a serious lack of interest on my part.


Yeah, this thread confirms it. I think I'm slowly falling in love with you... [;)]




Eigenaar -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/26/2010 1:05:02 AM)

In another thread on another site users said I want a doormat after I mentioned I expect serious replies from women before pursuing. Am I the kind of man you question? Ask better questions.




domiguy -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/26/2010 1:05:21 AM)

Well isn't that just fucking great. Now if I can only find one of CM's resident doormats and inform them that they will be driving to New York to pick your ass up, we just might be in business.


I can understand the initial attraction of the doormat....After awhile I would think you might get bored.


Anyone?




domiguy -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/26/2010 1:07:41 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

In another thread on another site users said I want a doormat after I mentioned I expect serious replies from women before pursuing. Am I the kind of man you question? Ask better questions.


make clearer posts.

In another thread on another site users said they wanted insight into jigging for lake perch. It was a fishing site.




Smutmonger -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/26/2010 1:09:57 AM)

My most hated words from any sub were always "Anything you want Sir."

First off, I knew it was a lie. I can come up with a squick or a freak out,or sheer impossibility for any occasion.

So the very phrase is a passive agressive "Fuck no,I am NOT going to try to think or make a decision,can you just entertain me instead?" They work about the same as one of those rubber things you stick you dick into-but you have to feed them too.

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

Well isn't that just fucking great. Now if I can only find one of CM's resident doormats and inform them that they will be driving to New York to pick your ass up, we just might be in business.


I can understand the initial attraction of the doormat....After awhile I would think you might get bored.


Anyone?





NihilusZero -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/26/2010 1:10:51 AM)

I normally prefer women with enough grasp of the English language to be able to distinguish "feedback" from "confrontation".

But I may be a snob.




Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/26/2010 1:13:37 AM)

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

Who knows what Nietzsche meant? Maybe it was all the ramblings of a syphilitic mind.

I have been with women that offered the feed back and resistance of a sponge. They always seemed to manage to go down the drain. Relationship died from a serious lack of interest on my part.


I personally relate to this 100%. When there's no life, spark or dynamic energy, I loose interest.




Eigenaar -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/26/2010 1:14:00 AM)

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ORIGINAL: domiguy


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ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

In another thread on another site users said I want a doormat after I mentioned I expect serious replies from women before pursuing. Am I the kind of man you question? Ask better questions.


make clearer posts.

In another thread on another site users said they wanted insight into jigging for lake perch. It was a fishing site.
Okay: The answer is men who define women as doormats and start threads about the subject.




Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/26/2010 1:17:56 AM)


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ORIGINAL: NihilusZero

I normally prefer women with enough grasp of the English language to be able to distinguish "feedback" from "confrontation".

But I may be a snob.


Snobby is acceptable practice, there are women that will not give either feedback nor engage in confrontation. Hey, I myself have tossed some wet sponges down the drain in my life. Sad thing about it, my opinion of them was that they were not really all that intelligent to begin with.




domiguy -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/26/2010 1:22:49 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

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ORIGINAL: domiguy


quote:

ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

In another thread on another site users said I want a doormat after I mentioned I expect serious replies from women before pursuing. Am I the kind of man you question? Ask better questions.


make clearer posts.

In another thread on another site users said they wanted insight into jigging for lake perch. It was a fishing site.
Okay: The answer is men who define women as doormats and start threads about the subject.


The time is the time....Snippy little fuck, ain't I?


If men can praise the doormat....Then can someone tell me what type of a man seeks out the doormat and how does this type of man perceive his relationship as well as himself?




Eigenaar -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/26/2010 1:25:04 AM)

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ORIGINAL: NihilusZero

I normally prefer women with enough grasp of the English language to be able to distinguish "feedback" from "confrontation".

But I may be a snob.
I must have experienced you from a totally other side then! Though ''normally'' is that overused it lost meaning.




heartcream -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/26/2010 1:27:34 AM)


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ORIGINAL: NihilusZero

I normally prefer women with enough grasp of the English language to be able to distinguish "feedback" from "confrontation".

But I may be a snob.



Oh really? No. How did you ever come up with that thought?




domiguy -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/26/2010 1:29:18 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Whiplashsmile4


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ORIGINAL: NihilusZero

I normally prefer women with enough grasp of the English language to be able to distinguish "feedback" from "confrontation".

But I may be a snob.


Snobby is acceptable practice, there are women that will not give either feedback nor engage in confrontation. Hey, I myself have tossed some wet sponges down the drain in my life. Sad thing about it, my opinion of them was that they were not really all that intelligent to begin with.



But in a relationship should we not welcome feedback as well as confrontation?

If we are masters of our universe...Which I am confident that we all truly are. Wherein lies the harm? After all, I do have the final word on the subject. Should I not welcome her views no matter how spot on or repugnant? What difference does it really make?




Eigenaar -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/26/2010 1:29:18 AM)

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ORIGINAL: domiguy


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ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

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ORIGINAL: domiguy


quote:

ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

In another thread on another site users said I want a doormat after I mentioned I expect serious replies from women before pursuing. Am I the kind of man you question? Ask better questions.


make clearer posts.

In another thread on another site users said they wanted insight into jigging for lake perch. It was a fishing site.
Okay: The answer is men who define women as doormats and start threads about the subject.


The time is the time....Snippy little fuck, ain't I?


If men can praise the doormat....Then can someone tell me what type of a man seeks out the doormat and how does this type of man perceive his relationship as well as himself?
I am positive this is not the question you want answers to.




Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/26/2010 1:29:49 AM)

Some are afraid to give feedback for fear of any confrontation it may bring, when the feedback is in stark contrast, or risks being insulting. I have taken the time to pick at the minds of those who were too timid to give feedback, and this generally tends to be one of the answers they give.




domiguy -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/26/2010 1:31:03 AM)

I am positive that it is one of the questions I would like answered. Why does a king and a conquerer seek out a doormat?




domiguy -> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? (2/26/2010 1:32:58 AM)

In all honesty, I would like to know from a Dom who seeks a ltr with a "doormat" where in lies the appeal?




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