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SarasSecret -> new to the site and lifestyle (2/16/2010 6:06:13 PM)
Hi! My name is Sara and I think I am a switch that errs on the side of submission. I don't really think I want a lifestyle change or to live a particular role 24/7. What I am looking for is a monogamous LTR with that twist behind closed doors. I am 28 and live in the New York Metro area. I could use some guidance and a helping hand. Thanks! [image]local://upfiles/954534/D4DAA4C1BFB446B492870B44D59DBCE0.jpg[/image]

DarkSteven -> RE: new to the site and lifestyle (2/16/2010 6:15:14 PM)
A woman is not capable of erring on the side of submission. No error there at all. [:)] Welcome to collarme!

Kaiel -> RE: new to the site and lifestyle (2/16/2010 6:33:33 PM)
Hello and Welcome!! I love love love NYC and visit it often! Great place!

choccywoc -> RE: new to the site and lifestyle (2/17/2010 5:50:26 AM)
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xxblushesxx -> RE: new to the site and lifestyle (2/17/2010 6:22:39 AM)
Welcome! Best of luck to you in your search!

sunshinemiss -> RE: new to the site and lifestyle (2/17/2010 8:45:29 AM)
Welcome! *watch out for Steven - he steals cookies!!!

DesFIP -> RE: new to the site and lifestyle (2/17/2010 8:48:54 AM)
Welcome to the zoo. And I don't think you'll have any dearth of people offering guidance but I'd advise you not to accept it without checking their teeth.

SarasSecret -> RE: new to the site and lifestyle (2/17/2010 8:59:05 AM)
these last 24 hours have been a difficult wedding out process and I will not lose hope. Thanks everyone for all the warm welcomes!

sunshinemiss -> RE: new to the site and lifestyle (2/17/2010 9:04:45 AM)
Sara, I would like to make a suggestion to you. For the first month or so you will be on the "new users" list. You will get a boatload of email. Then ... well who knows? You may want to just interact on the boards, chat rooms, answering email, etc. without making any kind of serious decision about anything! Take your time. SInce you are new, you have a stamp on your forehead that says "FRESH MEAT". Some folks find that tantalizing beyond compare. Be smart, you know? Best, sunshine

MsLeatherLace69 -> RE: new to the site and lifestyle (2/17/2010 9:05:47 AM)
Welcome. Good luck in finding what you desire.

SarasSecret -> RE: new to the site and lifestyle (2/17/2010 9:36:27 AM)
thanks for the heads up. I'm pretty intuitive when it comes to insincere advances. I will definitely keep an open mind and not make rash decisions. I still don't know exactly what I am looking for in terms of the appropriate partner for myself so keeping an open mind at this point is paramount. thanks again!

sirsholly -> RE: new to the site and lifestyle (2/20/2010 3:40:55 PM)
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Frostbearr -> RE: new to the site and lifestyle (2/20/2010 5:08:58 PM)
Welcome to CM. I hope you enjoy yourself but my best suggestion is to visit a couple of the chat rooms and find out what you really are looking for. You can make some great friends on here that can help you along the way I am sure you will eventually find what you are looking for, but I agree with sunshinemiss. Take your time and don't think about making any decisions right away. There is time. The outcome is only as good as the journey.

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