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RE: Long distance...smart ass... - 2/1/2010 10:03:33 AM

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I'll bet I'm older.... this does not make me smarter but I have lived with my eyes open. This lets me give you some advice...People DO NOT CHANGE just because you ask or wish it.

If they are smart asses in your opinion today they will be smart asses tomorrow and the rest of their lives...So YOU decide if you can live with it and if not say no and remain friends.

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RE: Long distance...smart ass... - 2/1/2010 5:01:10 PM

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since i am not a smart ass, i feel i am not qualified to answer this.

Gee, holly, I never took you for a dumb ass....

/Investigates kinds of asses/

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RE: Long distance...smart ass... - 2/1/2010 5:32:57 PM

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I'm a smartarse, and can usually come up with something funny and cutting for any situation - but (usually) don't. Why?

Because i know it becomes tedious after a while and i don't want people annoyed at me. If i can restrain my smartarseness, then I don't know why your friend can't do the same.

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RE: Long distance...smart ass... - 2/1/2010 5:37:01 PM

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ORIGINAL: kiwisub12

I'm a smartarse, and can usually come up with something funny and cutting for any situation - but (usually) don't. Why?

Because i know it becomes tedious after a while and i don't want people annoyed at me. If i can restrain my smartarseness, then I don't know why your friend can't do the same.

Well said

apart from that behaviour is not only dependent from the personality itself...it is also influenced by the environment and some people behave different on their own then when they are in the relationship...the same how people can behave different on their own compared to when they are within a group.

I on my own am very different then when I am in service with a Master in regards to smart assness.

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RE: Long distance...smart ass... - 2/1/2010 7:28:53 PM

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This person your thinking of taking on is a switch. By definition they will switch! Remember that.

You're mistaken in that definition. A switch is interested in some combination of topping/sadism/dominance and bottoming/masochism/submission, but many of us are perfectly capable of monogamous relationships without any switching at all. I was a Domme for 5 years in my first BDSM relationship, I've had a few 6 month to 1 1/2 year relationships with tops or bottoms, and I was a submissive for 3 years in my last relationship. All were monogamous and didn't involve any play outside, or any switching within the relationship (except perhaps for a couple of attempts right at the beginning). I've been dating my Master for 9 months, and have a female submissive playpartner. I mostly play with each of them separately, but occasionally all three of us get together.

I'm not generally a smart-ass, and there are many "pure" submissives and slaves who are. Occasionally I'll make a teasing remark or something, but I'm never disrespectful about it.

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RE: Long distance...smart ass... - 2/2/2010 12:50:21 AM

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I am a smartass. With a smart mouth (by the OPs definition)...

My husband chose to accept me as I am.

End of story.

If you find this persons "smart mouth" problematic, then just dont BE with that person. Desperation sucks ass.

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RE: Long distance...smart ass... - 2/2/2010 12:57:51 AM

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I am a smartass. With a smart mouth (by the OPs definition)...

As am I. I love wordplay, quips, and puns. Someone who didn't like that about me would, quite frankly, be a poor match.

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RE: Long distance...smart ass... - 2/2/2010 3:55:01 AM

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Some smartarses very, very much want the smartarse in them to be knocked out of them. By the right dominant, natch. Maybe you should ask this person if this is indeed what he/she wants.

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