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Andalusite -> RE: Long distance...smart ass... (2/1/2010 7:28:53 PM)
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ORIGINAL: GraciousLady
This person your thinking of taking on is a switch. By definition they will switch! Remember that.
You're mistaken in that definition. A switch is interested in some combination of topping/sadism/dominance and bottoming/masochism/submission, but many of us are perfectly capable of monogamous relationships without any switching at all. I was a Domme for 5 years in my first BDSM relationship, I've had a few 6 month to 1 1/2 year relationships with tops or bottoms, and I was a submissive for 3 years in my last relationship. All were monogamous and didn't involve any play outside, or any switching within the relationship (except perhaps for a couple of attempts right at the beginning). I've been dating my Master for 9 months, and have a female submissive playpartner. I mostly play with each of them separately, but occasionally all three of us get together.
I'm not generally a smart-ass, and there are many "pure" submissives and slaves who are. Occasionally I'll make a teasing remark or something, but I'm never disrespectful about it.
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