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RE: slave ownership - 12/22/2009 2:41:34 PM   
malemaid62


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Status: offline 		Yes & i would love to do them for you but unfortunately i am in the uk.

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RE: slave ownership - 12/22/2009 2:41:41 PM   
osf


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Just what others have said.

I come from farmers on both sides of my family, and I've well known from a young age--livestock comes with responsibilities.

I think twice before bringing in a dog or a cat. Once in my home, the responsibility for its well-being is mine.

The benefits have to outweigh the costs, implicit as well as explicit.


i adopted a gosling without knowing anything about geese, now she has made herself my domme, it's not what i had in mind

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RE: slave ownership - 12/22/2009 2:45:44 PM   
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Of course i would but CM is just the starting point.I have to be honest about what i ultimately desire otherwise my profile would be inacurate & thats not a good way to start.


Yes, but your profile is mostly a list of how you like to dress and how much you'd like to be owned by a lady or M/F couple.  As I said in my other post, you've offered nothing in regards to what you bring to the table except for the vague mention of housework/domestic chores.   

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RE: slave ownership - 12/22/2009 2:48:11 PM   
osf


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ORIGINAL: malemaid62

Yes & i would love to do them for you but unfortunately i am in the uk.


well send me the money anyway

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RE: slave ownership - 12/22/2009 2:51:25 PM   
malemaid62


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Status: offline 		Surely it's up to any prospective owners to tell me what they wan't from me so i can obey & oblige,isn't that the whole point.Otherwise i would be offering everything that you could possibly think of.

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RE: slave ownership - 12/22/2009 2:53:47 PM   
malemaid62


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RE: slave ownership - 12/22/2009 2:56:30 PM   
osf


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RE: slave ownership - 12/22/2009 2:58:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm pretty sure Carrie didn't mean for you to write in your profile everything you are willing to do. Instead, I think she meant for you to specify what actual skillsets you possess (sp?). For instance, are you a good cook? Are you a skilled auto mechanic, welder, masseur? What do you know how to do, and do well? Share that information in your profile and those seeking your skillset will seek you out.

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RE: slave ownership - 12/22/2009 3:02:07 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Domin8tingUrDrmz

I'm pretty sure Carrie didn't mean for you to write in your profile everything you are willing to do. Instead, I think she meant for you to specify what actual skillsets you possess (sp?). For instance, are you a good cook? Are you a skilled auto mechanic, welder, masseur? What do you know how to do, and do well? Share that information in your profile and those seeking your skillset will seek you out.


another thing, describe the attitudes you bring

to me attitude is of utmost importance

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RE: slave ownership - 12/22/2009 3:07:04 PM   
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RE: slave ownership - 12/22/2009 3:10:00 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Domin8tingUrDrmz

That's good too, if you know yourself well enough to honestly describe said attitudes. However, I like to discover them as I discover a person.


it's only a beginning , attitudes in a submissive change with time and circumstance but i like to know where to begin and if there's something there i can work with

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RE: slave ownership - 12/22/2009 3:10:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		malemaid62,

Saying that you want to get to know someone, create a relationship and then and work into a live-in relationship would not be dishonest. It would be an acknowledgement that these things take time. Including only what you ultimately desire makes it seem that you just want that and nothing else. That's like proposing marriage to every woman you see on the street- even those who could be attracted to you would likely be turned off by the approach! And anyone who did accept the proposal would be automatically suspect. There's significant risk for you in this arrangment, too, after all. They could get access to your bank accounts, etc, too. And of course they could turn out to be serial killers!

Luck (and caution!) in your search,
Falcor 

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RE: slave ownership - 12/22/2009 3:13:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: osf

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ORIGINAL: Domin8tingUrDrmz

I'm pretty sure Carrie didn't mean for you to write in your profile everything you are willing to do. Instead, I think she meant for you to specify what actual skillsets you possess (sp?). For instance, are you a good cook? Are you a skilled auto mechanic, welder, masseur? What do you know how to do, and do well? Share that information in your profile and those seeking your skillset will seek you out.


Thanks for clearing that up.  Exactly what I meant...who are you (the OP)?  What do you have to offer?  As I said before...what skills or outside interests make you (the OP) any different from any other 48 yr old man posting here?  A blank canvas may be nice for painting but in a case like this, I'd at least want to have an idea of what I'm working with.
 

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ORIGINAL: osf
another thing, describe the attitudes you bring
to me attitude is of utmost importance


Not a bad idea either.  If the OP's profile was a bit more personal and he took the time to go beyond his kink, his attitude would be easier to read.  On second thought, maybe it is clear enough!

< Message edited by CarrieO -- 12/22/2009 3:14:58 PM >

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RE: slave ownership - 12/22/2009 3:19:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: CarrieO

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ORIGINAL: osf

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ORIGINAL: Domin8tingUrDrmz

I'm pretty sure Carrie didn't mean for you to write in your profile everything you are willing to do. Instead, I think she meant for you to specify what actual skillsets you possess (sp?). For instance, are you a good cook? Are you a skilled auto mechanic, welder, masseur? What do you know how to do, and do well? Share that information in your profile and those seeking your skillset will seek you out.


Thanks for clearing that up.  Exactly what I meant...who are you (the OP)?  What do you have to offer?  As I said before...what skills or outside interests make you (the OP) any different from any other 48 yr old man posting here?  A blank canvas may be nice for painting but in a case like this, I'd at least want to have an idea of what I'm working with.
 

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ORIGINAL: osf
another thing, describe the attitudes you bring
to me attitude is of utmost importance


Not a bad idea either.  If the OP's profile was a bit more personal and he took the time to go beyond his kink, his attitude would be easier to read.  On second thought, maybe it is clear enough!


my profile is still a work in progress

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RE: slave ownership - 12/22/2009 3:22:10 PM   
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Why when i am willing to pay weekly as a lodger to live with a dom lady or couple,is it so hard to find such a couple even though i wish to be a domestic slave & would carry out all domestic duties.Who wouldn't want a live in slave obeying there every order catering to there every whim & getting paid for the privelege.Seems strange.


I can only answer for myself but weekly rent and help cleaning isn't enough motivation for me to want a total stranger moving into my house.

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RE: slave ownership - 12/22/2009 3:23:58 PM   
CarrieO


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ORIGINAL: osf
my profile is still a work in progress


I think your profile is progressing just fine.  I do think you need to add something about your Domme Goose, though.

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RE: slave ownership - 12/22/2009 3:26:14 PM   
osf


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ORIGINAL: CarrieO

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ORIGINAL: osf
my profile is still a work in progress


I think your profile is progressing just fine.  I do think you need to add something about your Domme Goose, though.


everybody that knows about her loves her more than me, she's the only goose to ever lay an egg on alt cam so far as i know

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RE: slave ownership - 12/22/2009 4:55:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		I know for me, we have children and would have a hard time explaining a strange man living with us.

Also, i am very submissive, and have no interest in being dominant in any way, shape, or form. And my Master isn't interested in dominating a man. That's about it.

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RE: slave ownership - 12/22/2009 4:56:34 PM   
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I know for me, we have children and would have a hard time explaining a strange man living with us.


for strange men everywhere i resent that

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