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RE: Men trim? - 12/19/2009 5:10:52 AM   
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Exactly! It's unfair to expect us to notice things that aren't on the parts we regularly suck!


I touch every inch of his body on a regular basis with my hands and mouth. Massage tables are good for that.
He is neat and trim. I like neat and trim. Plus it makes everything look bigger...




Stop ruining my silly buzz with your devotation!

(In seriousness, I think I've kissed just about every part of him. Even his toe when he stubs it and I HATE feet. )

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RE: Men trim? - 12/19/2009 5:18:46 AM   
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Nothing below my waist can be described as trim.
 
Taut and terrific maybe... 

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RE: Men trim? - 12/19/2009 5:20:04 AM   
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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968


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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

Exactly! It's unfair to expect us to notice things that aren't on the parts we regularly suck!


I touch every inch of his body on a regular basis with my hands and mouth. Massage tables are good for that.
He is neat and trim. I like neat and trim. Plus it makes everything look bigger...




Stop ruining my silly buzz with your devotation!

(In seriousness, I think I've kissed just about every part of him. Even his toe when he stubs it and I HATE feet. )


Ooops...didn't mean for that to come across as serious as it did.
Continue on with your silliness.

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RE: Men trim? - 12/19/2009 5:20:08 AM   
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Perhaps inspections are in order...

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RE: Men trim? - 12/19/2009 5:21:33 AM   
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Ooops...didn't mean for that to come across as serious as it did.
Continue on with your silliness.


It's all good! YAY FOR SILLY TIME!

*leaps around and gnaws on her toy mousie*

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RE: Men trim? - 12/19/2009 5:25:18 AM   
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Exactly! It's unfair to expect us to notice things that aren't on the parts we regularly suck!


Best post ever! LOL

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RE: Men trim? - 12/19/2009 5:28:32 AM   
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I felt as though I was channeling my inner valley girl when I wrote it. 

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RE: Men trim? - 12/19/2009 6:38:28 AM   
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Yep.

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RE: Men trim? - 12/19/2009 7:15:42 AM   
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It's been so long since I've seen hair on balls, I'm not sure I believe it actually grows there. But I'm not going to do a google image search of "hairy balls" to prove myself wrong.

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RE: Men trim? - 12/19/2009 7:40:58 AM   
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I flirted with the idea during the first few months when we were still using condoms. She said she preferred it au naturel which was fine with me. I didn't particularly look forward to the exercise but damn it's a bitch when those little bastards get caught in the condom as it's coming off. Luckily we dumped the sheaths and are now fluid bonded so it's no longer an issue.

On the flip side, she shaves and has been doing so for years - way before we met. I liked it immediately and have become so spoiled by it that I cannot see myself going back in that regard. While I dabbled once or twice in going down over the years this is the only relationship where I have done so with regularity and vigor. I tried to figure out why I did not care for it many times over the years. I think I now know why.


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RE: Men trim? - 12/19/2009 7:41:59 AM   
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Oh nooooo....

Oh yesss I did.

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RE: Men trim? - 12/19/2009 7:58:18 AM   
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Trimmed men is a nice thing for the simple fact that gagging on hair sucks.

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RE: Men trim? - 12/19/2009 8:15:13 AM   
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it's people coming into an age where they are comfortable in their own skin and with their own choices and not giving a fuck what anyone else thinks.

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RE: Men trim? - 12/19/2009 8:19:22 AM   
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To me its inconsiderate of someone to have long, and/or bushy pubic hair, if they expect their partner to give them oral sex. Gagging, and vomiting from gagging, is neither fun or attractive.


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RE: Men trim? - 12/19/2009 8:58:01 AM   
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i shave my pits so i dont smell while working in a hospitial. i keep my shaft and sack clean as my wife and my Mistress like it that way. my chest and gut i shave before any fire play as burnt hair is not appeling to my Mistress


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RE: Men trim? - 12/19/2009 9:00:22 AM   
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To me its inconsiderate of someone to have long, and/or bushy pubic hair, if they expect their partner to give them oral sex. Gagging, and vomiting from gagging, is neither fun or attractive.



Does that comment go for both teams? If so I can live with that. Personally, I never expect it. Most of that which I have had was not worth writing home to mom about. It's one of those things that many women think they are much better at than they really are. IMHO.


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RE: Men trim? - 12/19/2009 9:27:28 AM   
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(in my humble opinion ONLY)

To me its inconsiderate of someone to have long, and/or bushy pubic hair, if they expect their partner to give them oral sex. Gagging, and vomiting from gagging, is neither fun or attractive.



As a practical matter, long hair is easier to push aside and restrain. Not saying I prefer it, just pointing that out.  I've never understood this alleged epidemic of pubic hair in mouths that disturbs so many people. In my experience, it doesn't happen very often and it's easy enough to take care of when it does. I have an incorrigible gag reflex and I've never come close to vomiting. My partner usually thinks it's cute/funny if/when I make a little furball sound trying to loosen a stray hair that found its way to my mouth. For me, that's just part of embracing "sex is messy."

So, yeah... trimming is nice (particularly balls/taint area), but I've never understood the insistence on clearing the field.

ETA: Aileen, I'm not falling for it! ;)


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RE: Men trim? - 12/19/2009 9:39:57 AM   
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(in my humble opinion ONLY)

To me its inconsiderate of someone to have long, and/or bushy pubic hair, if they expect their partner to give them oral sex. Gagging, and vomiting from gagging, is neither fun or attractive.



Does that comment go for both teams? If so I can live with that. Personally, I never expect it. Most of that which I have had was not worth writing home to mom about. It's one of those things that many women think they are much better at than they really are. IMHO.


Yes. (again in my humble opinion) It should be reciprocal.


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RE: Men trim? - 12/19/2009 10:04:12 AM   
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a new paradigm?
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Well, when they make up a whole new term for it, MANSCAPING, you have to wonder.


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RE: Men trim? - 12/19/2009 10:15:11 AM   
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The question wasn't phrased very well, but seems to be the secondary question to this thread here http://www.collarchat.com/m_2950034/tm.htm just a day or two ago.  In it, part of My answer was this:

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As for the hair, yes, I want My boy to remain shaved.  My reason for this is that he should be ready for whatever kind of play that I would like to do at all times.  Since I happen to like things such as wax, fire, electrical, and others, but can not stand the smell of burning hair, that means the hair must be removed.



I really hope you're a Dom there, OP.  If you're a sub, your research skills aren't quite up to par.


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