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NotNutsReally -> Cuckquean? (12/15/2009 4:39:14 PM)

Hi all,
I'm looking for help/advice for a friend. She's gay, and looking for a girl who would be into her having other partners while her partner would need to be faithful. Essentially the woman's equalivant of a cuckold. To my knowlege, she's not a big BDSMer so I didn't think CM was the right place for her. Where does she look? Any ideas?
Best
NNR




SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Cuckquean? (12/15/2009 4:49:11 PM)

A sex site like Alt or SecretEncounters, maybe?  Any site that caters to people looking to cheat (AshleyMadison) or for "friends with benefits" should work.  Heck, she should be able to hook up in any local bar, for that matter.




Drifa -> RE: Cuckquean? (12/15/2009 5:49:01 PM)

Why does she need the partner to be monogamous? Seems like a lesbian poly situation would be better. A relationship such as you describe is terribly unbalanced.




CougarStud -> RE: Cuckquean? (12/15/2009 6:24:27 PM)

I totally get the Lesbian cuckqueaning thing.




antipode -> RE: Cuckquean? (12/15/2009 6:53:15 PM)

quote:

I'm looking for help/advice for a friend.


If she can type, perhaps she can ask her own questions. I am not quite seeing how the middle-person thing does anything but muddy the waters.




SomethingCatchy -> RE: Cuckquean? (12/15/2009 6:59:28 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Drifa

Why does she need the partner to be monogamous? Seems like a lesbian poly situation would be better. A relationship such as you describe is terribly unbalanced.


Do you typically think that cuckolding situations are terribly unbalanced?




Drifa -> RE: Cuckquean? (12/15/2009 9:02:40 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SomethingCatchy
Do you typically think that cuckolding situations are terribly unbalanced?


No, in that the cuckolded guy has the fetish of being cuckolded, so everyone is getting their needs met.

I've simply never met a woman who had the desire/need to do the cuckold-equivalent.

I've met lesbians with open relationships, in which both could choose other partners. I've seen lesbian TPE in which the domme lent out the sub sexually and they both grooved on it. I've also seen lesbian partners bring in a third person for a menage รก trois where the third person was just a fuck-buddy.




liks2plzlf -> RE: Cuckquean? (12/15/2009 10:09:05 PM)

There are several yahoo groups that are all about cuckolding. Just go to yahoo groups and do a search. There is also a cuckolding personals, just google it




LafayetteLady -> RE: Cuckquean? (12/15/2009 10:20:39 PM)

FR -

Not for nothing, but it sounds like your friend wants to be able to do whatever she wants while she has a partner at home waiting. As Drifa says it is pretty much an unbalanced relationship. She isn't into BDSM or the whole D/s or M/s situation, so basically she wants a girlfriend who doesn't mind her sleeping around while the girlfriend sits home waiting lovingly for her to come in and offer her sloppy seconds. What a deal. I can't imagine why she doesn't have a bunch of lovely ladies knocking on her door.




thishereboi -> RE: Cuckquean? (12/16/2009 8:35:41 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: NotNutsReally

Hi all,
I'm looking for help/advice for a friend. She's gay, and looking for a girl who would be into her having other partners while her partner would need to be faithful. Essentially the woman's equalivant of a cuckold. To my knowlege, she's not a big BDSMer so I didn't think CM was the right place for her. Where does she look? Any ideas?
Best
NNR


Nope, I have met a lot of lesbians and I can honestly say I have never met one that would put up with that.




thishereboi -> RE: Cuckquean? (12/16/2009 8:36:42 AM)

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ORIGINAL: CougarStud

I totally get the Lesbian cuckqueaning thing.


Have you ever found someone who was agreeable to it? Maybe you can point him/her in the right direction.




CougarStud -> RE: Cuckquean? (12/16/2009 4:03:19 PM)

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ORIGINAL: thishereboi

Have you ever found someone who was agreeable to it? Maybe you can point him/her in the right direction.



My last slave was very agreeable to being tied to a chair and 'forced" to watch Me have my fun with another sub, it just is had to find another sub but I came close a few times.




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