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Should I be worried? - 12/5/2009 10:57:58 PM   
MasterK13


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Status: offline 		I know this girl who has not logged on for over 4 weeks is that reason to be worried? There was also a threat made agaist her.
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RE: Should I be worried? - 12/5/2009 11:39:06 PM   
Underumam


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Status: offline 		That's not good. Are you in a position to check up on her?

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RE: Should I be worried? - 12/5/2009 11:46:31 PM   
MasterK13


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Status: offline 		We generally message eachother every day thats why Im worried other then that I have no other way of checking up on her.

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RE: Should I be worried? - 12/6/2009 12:09:21 AM   
Justme696


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Status: offline 		That is one of the problems with the online world.
I had similar and it drove me nuts. Now...when I know people for a longer time.....we swap phone numbers..so we can contact eachother outside the internet. But perhaps that is not always possible.
You just can wait I guess.

uhmmm..not to be harsh...but she isn't playing with you?

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RE: Should I be worried? - 12/6/2009 12:29:34 AM   
MasterK13


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uhmmm..not to be harsh...but she isn't playing with you?


Its possible shes a wannabe Mistress with no experience that claims to like BDSM and she probably deserves to be shunned.
She also twists words around and I admit I hate her so much that I would not spit on her if she was on fire ID PISS ON HER BECAUSE SHE HATES THAT KIND OF STUFF

MY FEELINGS ARE AS FOLLOWS WITH THE BITCH!!!

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RE: Should I be worried? - 12/6/2009 12:41:44 AM   
safesgal


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Status: offline 		Unless you know her name or the city there probably isn't much you can do. There may or may not be a reason to be worried especially if she
had been threatened.

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RE: Should I be worried? - 12/6/2009 1:11:22 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterK13

quote:

ORIGINAL: Justme696

uhmmm..not to be harsh...but she isn't playing with you?


Its possible shes a wannabe Mistress with no experience that claims to like BDSM and she probably deserves to be shunned.
She also twists words around and I admit I hate her so much that I would not spit on her if she was on fire ID PISS ON HER BECAUSE SHE HATES THAT KIND OF STUFF

MY FEELINGS ARE AS FOLLOWS WITH THE BITCH!!!


But other than that, she's a hell of a gal, eh?

If you're really that concerned about this spawn of satan, have you checked her profile to see if she has a friend's list? Perhaps one of them would know whether she's OK, or if she's been shot dead in the street by someone else who knows her as well as you do.


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RE: Should I be worried? - 12/6/2009 1:18:43 AM   
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RE: Should I be worried? - 12/6/2009 1:24:10 AM   
wandersalone


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Status: offline 		Yep or this could be part of the ingenious plan to provide an alibi for her murder. 

But officer, there is no way I could have done it, I posted on CM because I was so worried about her!!!!!!

OP people appear, disappear and reappear all of the time, that is the transient nature of the net.  It can suck not knowing what happened however unless you have a way of contacting her or a friend of hers I don't think there is much you can do except hope she is ok.


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RE: Should I be worried? - 12/6/2009 4:46:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		There are lots of reasons she may not have logged on, none of which are anything you can control.

You need to learn to control yourself and your time.  You've been spending that much time/effort into someone you evidently don't even like?


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RE: Should I be worried? - 12/6/2009 4:53:19 AM   
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RE: Should I be worried? - 12/6/2009 5:29:39 AM   
Lucienne


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ORIGINAL: MasterK13
There was also a threat made agaist her.


Were you the one that made the threat? Are you worried someone beat you to it?

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RE: Should I be worried? - 12/6/2009 5:42:27 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterK13

Its possible shes a wannabe Mistress with no experience that claims to like BDSM and she probably deserves to be shunned.
She also twists words around and I admit I hate her so much that I would not spit on her if she was on fire ID PISS ON HER BECAUSE SHE HATES THAT KIND OF STUFF

MY FEELINGS ARE AS FOLLOWS WITH THE BITCH!!!


Wow

If this is how you act when a random internet stranger (unless you've actually met her) ignores you, I can only imagine how it would be if a real person in real time did. 
You may want to get a handle on how you react to people. 

Personally, I wouldn't worry too much, I'm sure you aren't the only person she's in contact with...or not, as the case may be.

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RE: Should I be worried? - 12/6/2009 6:30:08 AM   
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Were there threats made against her?  Or did she tell you there were threats made against her?  It sounds like she sucked you in to some drama then got bored with it.  It's not good to get heavily invested in on-line people whom you don't really know.

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RE: Should I be worried? - 12/6/2009 4:55:05 PM   
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She is long gone- because no sane gal would accept what the evil claw means when displayed.

You asked- now there is your answer.

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RE: Should I be worried? - 12/6/2009 5:24:10 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		She most likely changed her sn and has no desire to be contacted by you ever again....or she simply decided she had enough of this place and left.


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RE: Should I be worried? - 12/6/2009 6:14:34 PM   
QuirkyAnne


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Status: offline 		Why are you concerned with a woman's disappearance who you don't seem to like very much?

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RE: Should I be worried? - 12/6/2009 10:39:54 PM   
MasterSlaveLA


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RE: Should I be worried? - 12/7/2009 5:39:45 AM   
slaveluci


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Status: offline 		Should you be worried? Yep. For several reasons, none having to do with her not posting lately

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