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I know this isn't probably the right slot - 11/17/2009 7:28:20 AM

lovingdomwanted

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But how can you delete someone for your admirers list?........Some Dom has added me without permission or even without messaging me?

Hope you can help?

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RE: I know this isn't probably the right slot - 11/17/2009 7:32:09 AM

sunshinemiss

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You can't I don't believe. But what you can do is block the person if they contact you.

And just out of curiosity... why does someone need your permission to admire you? I admire a whole lot of people in the world and don't ask for permission for that.

< Message edited by sunshinemiss -- 11/17/2009 7:34:01 AM >

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RE: I know this isn't probably the right slot - 11/17/2009 7:45:13 AM

EbonyWood

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Im kind of with sunshinemiss on this one. What is the issue with having him as an admirer, even an unwanted one?

This is like walking down the street and asking someone not to look at you.

Plus, unfortunately or otherwise, your profile on here is not your private property, as some misbelieve. It is the internet, for public perusal- er, thats the whole point of it.

Just block them if you need to. I'm sure you have your reasons.

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RE: I know this isn't probably the right slot - 11/17/2009 7:55:11 AM

angelikaJ

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You have control over who is on your friend's list but not who admires you.

They might admire you because they like your forum posts, your profile or your journal (if you have one).

It seems to feel creepy to you.
I am sorry for your distress.

You could ask him to un-admire you or you could see it as a compliment.
If it really bothers you, you can block him.

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RE: I know this isn't probably the right slot - 11/17/2009 10:13:24 AM

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You can "hide" him if you don't want to see him. It's not a public list (like your friends list)... it's a list of someone else's favorites. Just like when you bookmark a webpage, the webpage owner cannot remove themselves from your bookmarks.

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RE: I know this isn't probably the right slot - 11/17/2009 10:51:03 AM

pahunkboy

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I had a guy ask me to delete him from mine.

I did.

It was a reasonable request.

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RE: I know this isn't probably the right slot - 11/17/2009 8:54:07 PM

LookieNoNookie

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quote:

ORIGINAL: lovingdomwanted

But how can you delete someone for your admirers list?........Some Dom has added me without permission or even without messaging me?

Hope you can help?

x

I'd kill him (in the most submissive and non violent ways of course....unless of course he was an asshole....then I'd maim him {....in a very docile way natch})

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RE: I know this isn't probably the right slot - 11/17/2009 10:10:50 PM

Rhodes85

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I don't really see the big deal. Its an admirers list not a friend list. Its not public. Though I always was sort of curious as to why you can delete friends but not admirers, and why there are two seperate lists to begin with.

Anyways I wouldn't worry about it. If it bothers you message him and ask him why/to remove you from his admirers list.

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